Qian Qian has an important party recently, and she intends to take her daughter to it, so that her daughter can see the world. After consulting her daughter, Qian Qian took her to the party. After arriving at the meeting, Qian Qian found that others had already started, and she came a little late. In order not to disturb other people's interest, Qian Qian wants to find a quiet place to sit down. Who knows, just sit down, she heard her daughter loudly abandon others, the voice is too loud, so that all eyes are gathered on Qian Qian. At this time, Qian Qian didn't even want to admit that the baby was her own, so Qian Qian had to apologize to everyone.
My daughter is not only a little too verbal, but also afraid to look directly at her behavior at the dinner table. She even put the food back on the plate, leaving everyone speechless. Qian Qian was worried that her daughter would continue to embarrass herself, so she made an excuse to leave before the party ended completely.
Qian Qian, who returned home, reflected on herself because she was busy with her work and didn't pay attention to the etiquette education for her children, which led to these behaviors of her children. Maybe taking the children out today is to alert yourself, and we must catch up with the children's etiquette education and not let go.
So, what aspects should we start with in etiquette education for children?
Parents should teach their children the basic etiquette of interacting with others.
For example, when you meet relatives and friends, you should take the initiative to say hello and show respect. Some children will directly ignore people they know, which will only ruin others' good feelings for themselves.
Parents should let their children learn proper manners.
The so-called correct etiquette is that children must stand as loose as bells, walk like the wind and lie like bows. Especially when the child is not at home, the child's behavior represents the face of the parents. If the child's behavior is improper, the parents' face will be defiled.
Parents should teach their children what empathy is.
The reason why many children do impolite things in some public places may be because children only know that they are uncomfortable and will not consider other people's feelings. Empathy is a very valuable quality. If a person usually only cares about his own interests and ignores the thoughts and feelings of others, then even if he is excellent, he will only be a person without friends in the end.
It is also important to lead by example.
What parents usually do in front of their children will be imitated by their children, so while educating their children, their words and deeds are also very important, and they should not indulge themselves too much. Some parents feel that their children don't have to do what they should do, and they are usually careless. Children secretly learn these things, which will eventually have a negative impact on children.