The desire for independence, curiosity and desire to explore, coupled with the pressure of seeking peer recognition and belonging in social circles, make children in this period full of rebellion and impulse.

But adolescent children, after all, are in a semi-mature and semi-naive state psychologically and physically, and it is an unstable transitional stage towards adulthood. How to regulate their behavior during this period is a headache for many parents. It is obviously not feasible and not advocated to have a dutiful son under the stick. But it is not enough for adolescent children to stand as punishment like children and sit on the bench.

First, precision attack

Don't nag about everything, just tell them what they must do (for example, school comes first, and their grades must not drop) and what they can't do (for example, they can't lie). Many other things can be ignored (for example, children's own rooms are in a mess). But once the rules are formulated, rewards and punishments should be strictly consistent when they are implemented.

Yuan has problems (spitting, Yuan's father is used to unprincipled) and is particularly involved in playing, especially at the racetrack. After training, being with her friends and her horse is her happiest time every day. When her family picked her up, she often kept her waiting for a long time on the grounds that the cell phone signal at the racecourse was not good. To this end, he repeatedly criticized and educated Yuan on the issue of respecting others' time, but with little effect.

Second, short-term deprivation of basic rights.

This formula is used with the previous one. After they crossed the insurmountable bottom line, they must be punished as they should. But first of all, make it clear what power is most important to your child, and the anodyne punishment is invalid. Ma Yuan believes that this trick is very effective for children in this period.

Third, on some unprincipled issues, they can also bear and bear the natural consequences of violating the regulations, and at the same time give them time and space to realize the significance of the regulations and make self-adjustment. Unwilling to sleep at night, getting up in the morning is a common problem for children. Luca Brasi's mother also has time to turn off the lights and sleep at night, but the requirements are not very high. Mother Yuan thinks it must be uncomfortable to sleep too late at night, and it will be uncomfortable to get up the next day. She will naturally go to bed early the next night.

The second trick is the fourth: let them pay the price that adults need to pay for the consequences of their mistakes. Such as economic costs.

Let them know that mom and dad will not always follow them to clean up the mess, but will leave them one day and face everything by themselves one day. The child has borrowed money from Ma Yuan twice because of his mistake. On one occasion, violent operation almost scrapped her computer, and on another occasion, she lost her competition clothes.

Losing face in front of others-note that this type is the most deterrent and lethal weapon for teenagers of this age, but use it carefully. At least, Ma Yuan hasn't used it. However, this formula is always uncomfortable when it is used to threaten shock.

When children enter adolescence, they begin to care about their own image and face, which is also a psychological feature of adolescent children: showing their personality, highlighting themselves, being different and striking.

Off-year bullet agreed for the first time. One after another, the children made several similar demands. In front of children, sometimes parents of children are present. Children also realize that their parents will lose face.

Classic sentences describing boys and girls

When the family stepped into the besieged city, they were responsible for the mountains, and the noise of housework was waiting for the wind to come. Boys and girls think too simply and think too much about their future marriage. 16, 17 years old love between boys and girls is quite transparent. Because I don't understand the world, I'm in a hurry in reality, but I'm also sober and touching.

"I won't look up and wait for the apple to fall into my mouth. I'm trying my best, maybe ten times harder than you. " If you can like someone, even if the other person can't, life will at least not be hell, just a little bleak. Besides, it's not. Therefore, I will continue to push forward and sail against the current, even if I am pushed back until I go back to the past. Love, a child's dream is ancient, but when there is a person and a child. If you have a child, your fresh water can be a sample, an immortal life. Some people already have it, so more people can pursue it. In fact, there are many boys and girls who have not made a profound expression of species and have different degrees of yearning for the word love. Love can be synonymous with all good things, and it is the second sun. Where there is light, there is self-sufficiency. -"Holo has a good example"

In my dream, I have your fantasy to blossom with you, boys and girls holding hands.

The so-called time is those unforgettable time nodes that accompany us through the deserted streets, with laughter and tears. Boys and girls in the past should also have the seeds of love on their faces, and then gradually evolved into such tenacity and fortitude today. The sunset behind him cast a silhouette on the ground, but it was a pity that it could not be found. So we all live in time. -Hello, Deep in Time.

Yes, listening to love is only what teenagers do.

Boys and girls, haha, knowing that direction, you are in my heart and you are crying. It's a pity that the young man's handsome eyebrow also loves you and has long since disappeared; The girl's brow is also mature.

Men are not handsome when they say it, and women are not very beautiful when they say it, so they are not lonely everywhere, but like boys and girls every other year. In the next year, this can be to treat children as people always believe, or to treat children with someone who can say I am. There must be a certain percentage of women for you. You do talk about it. It is to make children believe in miracles in people and let that miracle happen outside the truth. First of all, it is necessary to meet children in the street from time to time.

What a coincidence! I'll keep looking for you. Maybe you don't believe it, you are older than me, and you are my 100% male. It's really hard to say from head to toe. I want to talk about my feelings about the coming year. Jane seems to be dreaming again. "That's the child sitting on the park bench, holding hands and chattering. Whether children are lonely when people are away, tell me that one hundred needs are true, and that one real need is also true. If you really want to say 100% demand, you should say 100% demand when you talk to me, and you should say 100% demand when you talk to me. We really want to wait for something beautiful. This is a miracle of the universe! In the next year, this can be a small, really small question in children's minds: is it a great age and a good idea not to let go of your dreams? -Haruki Murakami "When you meet a really 100% woman, you really say it" fascinates thousands of boys and girls. Everyone loves you, flowers bloom and fall, cars have a flat tire, and there is no underground. Like a cracked egg, all flies love to stick to you.

The ticking of the clock will not stop for half a second because of a sigh. When one day you will find that the boy and girl who once cried and laughed for the ups and downs of life are now enjoying the distant days. Perhaps it is not time that is in a hurry, nor days that change, but a frivolous and uneasy heart. Whether you laugh it off or manage the collected memories with tears in your eyes, they are just memories that you can't go back. I only hope that we can step on the shadow of time and walk slowly, so that those intermittent memories can find a home in our hearts.

Your lips are slightly upturned when the child is joking.

Boys and girls, your eyes are full of smiles and youth. Your indifference stung your eyes and ruined your appearance. Your eyes only appreciate her white hair. Your eyes will never get thinner. Your disdain touched my heart, and my bones are dying. Your hand trembled slightly, and your tears silently shed my efforts. Finally, I got your reward. Time is a rogue, and space is a pervert. They raped countless boys and girls in partnership and were exhausted.

I saw tearful boys and girls hugging each other at the entrance of the station. They hugged so tightly and so hard that the hickeys on the back of their necks and ears were as bright as blood. Such a flamboyant campus love, high-spirited, can only leave vicissitudes of life scars. Love in youth is like this, strong and vivid, with the pain of youth, disappearing with time. -Playing the flute "Reborn Celebrity Businesswoman"

The love between boys and girls is just a matter of self-cultivation to avoid hitting the rocks. Perhaps, after the past, my heart is growing and maturing. -Xiaotian Westbound Qingyun, "Rebirth Self-cultivation Camp is no better than self-cultivation marriage."

The feelings of boys and girls are often not necessarily obsession, but a gratifying regret. It is precisely because of this or that regret that people feel so beautiful when they look back on those young and ignorant feelings.

I'm actually quite patient with boys and girls, but I'm almost patient with young men and rich children who need someone to carry them.

I won't be a poor old maid, only poverty will make singles despised by the public! A single woman with a small income must be ridiculous and annoying, old maid! Just the laughing stock of boys and girls; However, a rich single woman has always been respected and can be as rational and happy as anyone else. -Jane Austen Emma

Boys and girls who are in the middle of their youth are not only stubborn, but also like to have a baby at the tip of a knife and find a view of the sky on a cliff. They don't listen to what others advise them to do, and feel that if they want to leave, they have to give up and suffer.

Among thousands of people, in the waves of love, I found you, and I will not shrink back. In my life, I have only been in love a few times, and I left the best time for the beginning. Meeting, what a beautiful word, the love between boys and girls is like a blooming flower, vaguely intertwined, and you can know each other when your fingertips touch your heart.

The sun is just right, the breeze is not dry, and my teenager is dancing with roses in his hand. My hair is not combed properly. It's a mess. When he smiled and said "I was wrong" and gently arranged my hair, I wanted to cry.

Will anyone really like what you say in the long life? Maybe in the future, it will be a sunny street. Will you see boys and girls in thin clothes in an instant? Exquisite teenagers are close to the chest, and the sun shines on their shoulders, as if they are free in many streets, and there are many last romances and vicissitudes.

Many boys and girls walked across the white line of the runway under the red sun as we did yesterday. -Jing M. Guo "Summer Before the Solstice" Ye Xie traveled abroad to take the country to the most accessible seat in the outer row, and I sat on it at ten o'clock. Looking back, every time I am in charge, I will go to Tianshui No.10 Middle School. When she debuted, she opened it at home. My famous girl patted the country on the ground and patted the country: "Hello, use her No.6 Middle School, No.1 Middle School and Ye Xie to photograph the country."

My famous girl, Sweet Water Ten, returned to her own country without stint. She came on a warm take-away trip to facilitate her own country. She also made it easy for her to tie up her Liao Wei, as if she was born with the memory of life, which made it easy for her to see the poetic youth. She also asked her to take her country easily and say, "Hello, use her No.5, use her No.5 to let her go easily." For example, at this moment, fate stopped at the home of the boys and girls. No matter when the country is right or wrong, everyone thinks that she left Tianshui, so I took care of it. When she left Tianshui, I was at this moment. When I was in No.2 Middle School, I took care of it. Every time I am in charge, my country will meet my family. -leave happily, then take it abroad, and then bring it back to China. "The beauty of my school flower will be cut." In the era of China's rule, a pair of strangers met in a paradise. They went from suspicion to trust, from mutual appreciation to dependence. It was not until they went home to cancel their custom-made marriage and wanted to wander around the world that they found out that God had tricked them into each other's unmarried couples. ......

Senior three is coming, with an unattainable attitude and full of strength, tossing these boys and girls who are about to grow up. And the students don't even have the strength to resist. -Sleepless Jun "First Love for So Many Years"

The lovely points inside the castle are: the screen between the fireplace and the ladies' seat in the ladies' lounge-the previous cosmetics were all wax, which melted when heated; Strange courtship chairs in the "social room"-two back-to-back couches with a single person sofa on each side. Noble boys and girls who have just entered the social circle can only sit back-to-back and talk with their heads twisted. chaperon, the girl's escort, is sitting next to them, ready to interrupt any indecent conversation at any time; The "Gallery House" located on the only way from the kitchen to the restaurant is also known as the "Whistle Gallery"-the servants in charge of serving food must whistle all the time to ensure that they can't steal their delicious food. -Bao "Emerald Island Chronicle"

The waves are layered, like flamenco's dance skirt showing a white background rhythmically. I was on the beach, overlooking, as if I saw myself riding a white horse, coming from a distance. Slowly, stop and play with the horse in the water. At this time, a group of boys and girls came and joined them on horseback. Crisp laughter shattered the sea and dreams. -Yang Le's Riding a Horse in New Zealand Spring.

Once you asked me what kind of girl you like. I said, "I like girls who have long hair and don't dye their hair." But I didn't think much about it at the time, but since then. Your hero image has been replaced by black hair. I remember when we were only eighteen, honest and ignorant boys and girls. How nice it was then!

Love is a natural combination of tenderness and passionate desire like water, which puts forward the following requirements for people: in order to describe the emotional love experience of boys and girls with gorgeous colors, one should not be too old. The wonderful reverie of youth can't be thoughtful and leisurely at all, because the latter will freeze their beautiful years with old pedants. -Selected Works of Emerson.

On a night full of your eyes, I slept with my husband and suddenly dreamed of that distant encounter. I can't ride a bike in China. I can go to several public places, and a husband goes to study at night. The sunset in 2008 is right, and the shadow of my cycling will be painted for a long time. When I woke up, it was early summer night in this guest capital, and darkness surrounded me. There is a soft pain, which is unhappy and sweet in his eyes.

One night many years ago, I was sitting on a stranger's blog and found a cartoon picture. In the picture, a small river was talking about weeping willows on a stone embankment, and the evening wind was oblique. The boys and girls sitting together are really kind, and there is a mountain breeze. For a moment, it seems that they said something gentle in their hearts, which really didn't hit them. The country is like a river, which infiltrates the stones on the people's land, puts them into time, and accumulates layers of hearts. -Li's Bicycle in the Sunset roars around the world for nine days. Everyone's fate is in their own hands. See how you seize the opportunity. If you miss it once, don't regret pursuing your dreams and surpassing yourself. Boys and girls run like the wind chasing the most beautiful sunset that day.

Classic quotations of love between boys and girls

1, everyone has a scar in his heart, which is an unforgettable mark left by the person he loves most.

2. I am used to updating my signature, worrying about my lonely mood and being afraid of abandoning our love.

3. I only think of you when I come to a certain intersection; I only think of you when I see half of the disc; I only think of you when I hear the song in the middle. I really don't miss you very much. I only think of you when I don't think of you.

If I say that we will never meet again, I will definitely avoid you. Maybe I'll see you again in the street. How will you remember me? I will let go of myself, let go of depression, and let go of the memory of possession. Think about the past, a person, used to it.

5. Do you often ask if there is true love in the world? Love includes the love of relatives and friends. Maybe the love of relatives will bring you unspeakable helplessness. Because you have been together for too long, love is not as hot as before, and it doesn't matter how you feel, so you don't understand, care about and support what you are doing, so you are confused. If you don't love someone, please let go and let others have a chance to love her. If the person you love gives up on you, please let go of yourself so that you can have a chance to love others. Some things won't belong to you no matter how much you like them, and some things are doomed to give up if you miss them again. There are many kinds of love in life, but don't let love be a kind of harm. You don't have to love someone, but you must love him well.

6. In this game of chasing and chasing, when I am running, you are chasing, and when I am chasing, you are indeed running. Maybe sometimes life is like this. Excessive belief in eternity, naive belief in how pure love can be constructed by a blank sheet of paper.

7, love is a strange thing, flickering, deep, growing in each other's hearts. The most beautiful story has no ending, the most romantic feelings have no destination, the happiest love has no words, and the deepest love has no space!

8. Fate makes love possible. Love is an unexpected encounter.

Dear, in order to wait for you, I crossed the Naihe Bridge and the pond, but I am afraid I will forget your face and never let go of that love! Come or not, I'm here, and so is love! Your smile is like wine, drunk in the world of mortals, drunk in previous lives, drunk in the dim moonlight.

10, true love should be that two people understand each other, respect each other, don't entangle, don't shrink back, don't possess, and then go through a long journey together. If I meet you, I will hold you tightly.

1 1. Love is a truly precious wealth in life, a wealth that will never be too little but not too much. I persistently keep the highest love for you, because I know that it is the most beautiful possession in my life. For you, I sincerely loved, hated, laughed and cried, and learned to give without reservation.

12, at the end of time, white-haired, do you still remember that the Yi Meier I gave you today was not typed on the keyboard, but poured out of my heart?

13, my wife is a big tree, so I must hold it; Lovers are birds, don't feed them. My wife is a treasure. I told you not to make any noise. Lovers are grass, and whoever pulls them runs with them; It is said that beauty is good, and it is not easy to find if you don't make trouble or run.

14, people who love each other will grow up together in the twists and turns of their feelings. People who love each other will not end up breaking up, nor will they really be unfaithful for a hundred times because of a mistake. Love is getting deeper and deeper all the way. We will only love each other deeply and understand each other's goodness, and we will never be apart again. Simple is not necessarily the best, but the best must be simple.

15, the appearance of floating life has calmed my dull heart a lot. That feeling is warm and clear to the atrium, pure and transparent without a trace of dust. I wonder if this feeling is love? Do you still like it? Or appreciate it? Thinking day and night seems to be the main line of life.

16, you made me forget everything in the past, as if I never loved you, and let me give up completely and stop thinking about you. I don't care whether I am sad or not, but I can't let you go. Let me see you feel sorry for him. How can I be calm?

17, I can't resist those hasty marks you left me in my old dream of hurting spring. In every endless night, I warmly embrace every tender and addicted heart with you, and suddenly sigh with the memory you left me, and the trace is so clear.

18, like a person, will be very happy together; Love a person, together will be inexplicably lost. Like a person, it is always joy; If you love someone, you will often cry. If you like someone, you will smile when you think of him. Love a person, when you think of him, you will look at the sky blankly. Like a person, is to see his advantages; To love someone is to tolerate his shortcomings. Like, is a kind of mood; Love is an emotion.

19, when you are young, there is no life without you.

20. Who paled my waiting and satirized my persistence?

2 1, no one can decide whose injury, only who doesn't know how to cherish whose good.

22. As I take care of my heart more and more, I have less and less desire for the world. I don't need anything except what I love: a lover, a text editor, a gravel road I often walk on, an earphone, a good book, simple food, warm clothes and the outdoor world.

23. I think this is a habit. Accustomed to one person caring and being cared for by one person, accustomed to two people being together, accustomed to someone hugging you tightly, accustomed to a faint kiss, accustomed to a warm smile, accustomed to having someone in my heart, accustomed to someone putting you to sleep, accustomed to someone calling you baby, and accustomed to another person's habit of love.

24. Lonely people will always think of everyone who has appeared in their lives, so I will always think of you endlessly every night when the stars fall and count my loneliness over and over again.

Whenever I look at the sky, I don't like to talk anymore, but I dare not look at the sky again when I talk.

26. It is a lie to say that you can't forget, but you don't want to forget.

27. Many things that we thought we would never forget for a lifetime were forgotten by us in the days when we never forget them.

28. As if nothing had happened, it turned out to be the most malicious revenge.

29. I know I am not a good recorder, but I like to look back on the road I have traveled more than anyone else. I not only looked back, but also rushed forward angrily.

If you give me a tear, I will see all the oceans in your heart.

3 1, if God wants to destroy a person, he will shill his madness. But I've been crazy for so long, why hasn't God killed me?

32. Will love carved on the back of the chair, like flowers on cement, open a windless and lonely forest?

33. In this sad and bright March, I beat my horse from my thin youth, through corydalis, through kapok, through sadness and impermanence.

34, you laugh once, I can be happy for several days; But seeing you cry once made me sad for several years.

35. There is only a thin line between you and me. We thought we could give each other more love, but in the end we found that you didn't want anything.

36. When you love someone, it's just right to love eight points. All expectations and hopes are only seven or eight points, and the remaining two or three points are used to love yourself. If you continue to love more, it is likely to give each other heavy pressure, make each other breathless and completely lose the fun of love. So please remember, don't drink more than six points, eat more than seven points, and love someone more than eight points.

37. If it weren't for the passage of time, true love would not appear.

38. Stay somewhere and can't help crying silently. In the silent crying, the smoke raised by tears is slowly rising.

39. There is a kind of peace called stagnant water.

40. I traveled all over Qian Shan, and when I came to your side, I was innocent.

4 1, our contradiction is that we are eager to be understood and afraid to be seen through.

42. I lost my way when I was happy, and forgot myself when I was unhappy.

43. There is a person in the world who always misses him when he doesn't meet, but when he meets, he blushes and his heart beats and he can't speak. He always grabs your heart easily, makes you forget it, and reminds you that you can't sleep well, but you are still happy because you love him. He is your sweetest and sweetest burden. This man is called a lover.

Love is not a game, because we can't afford it. If you love, you must pay sincerely and treat each other sincerely. Don't say love easily, the promise you make is the debt you owe. Love can't be found if it is missing, and it can't be changed if it is tired. You don't have to love someone; But if you have someone, you must love him. Love is not a one-man show, but a duet! Women are fickle in face, while men are fickle in heart.

45. Flowers are sweet expressions of love at any time. If you are not prepared for the festival, you must also send flowers. A red rose can also nourish our love!

Love letters between boys and girls in the flower season

Hong Hong: I remember your kindness to me, your love for me and your love for me. I know you are rare, and maybe I will never find someone who is so kind to me in my life.

I used to feel lonely, friendless, lonely and bored. But you made me feel warm, and you provided me with a shelter.

When I was in danger, you cared about me, helped me drive away the cold, and asked me if I could be warm. I am warm, with your firm and gentle embrace, I am really warm. I know no one can make me happy like you. You always have so many jokes that a few words can enliven the atmosphere.

You always smell so special. Although you have never smoked, you can still leave a faint smell of tobacco between your fingers. I will remember this smell for a long time! But we're splitting up. As the saying goes, all good things must come to an end. Parting is inevitable. I believe you are more disappointed than me.

I really hope we can meet and fall in love again in the future.