When I was a child, every time I went home, I saw my eldest sister who worked in the city in our village wearing beautiful makeup. I like it very much and I envy it. At that time, I thought, when I grew up and made a lot of money, I would also make myself as beautiful as them.
But in fact, my first makeup was after I graduated from junior high school. At that time, my brother got married. On the wedding day, my sister-in-law appeared in front of us in a wedding dress and beautiful makeup. The gas field shocked me so much, especially her makeup. This is simply beautiful, completely different from before.
After the wedding, I asked my eldest sister-in-law, who helped you make up on your wedding day? Sister-in-law said: I made it myself. Does it look nice? I was ecstatic with my sister-in-law's answer, but I remained calm and told her that my sister-in-law was so beautiful that she was just a fairy.
Sister-in-law listened to my words, covered her mouth and burst into laughter. She smiled for a while. She asked me, do you want to be as beautiful as your sister-in-law? I nodded and said, and then my sister-in-law touched my head and said, you should study hard now. When you get into a good high school, my sister-in-law will make you more beautiful than the day she got married, okay?
I am very happy after listening to my sister-in-law. The senior high school entrance examination lived up to expectations and was admitted to the city's key high school. When she got the admission notice, her sister-in-law fulfilled her promise.
My sister-in-law is a professional makeup artist. It only took me half an hour to turn me into a fairy. Looking at myself in the mirror, I can't believe it is me. I never dared to think that one day I would become so beautiful. I think it's all due to cosmetics.
My parents are just ordinary farmers. They don't have the money to buy me cosmetics, and they are embarrassed to often ask my sister-in-law to make up for me. So I made up my mind to study hard, earn a lot of money to honor my parents, and buy cosmetics for myself after work. I want to be the most beautiful woman in the world.
Later, through hard work, I successfully finished high school and was admitted to an ideal university. When I was in college, I wanted to buy cosmetics for myself with the money I earned, and I couldn't wait to work at once.
My first month's salary 1000 yuan. I gave it to my parents, 500 yuan, and then I spent 200 yuan to buy myself a set of cosmetics. That was the first time I bought cosmetics and made it myself. It feels like drawing a tiger on a cat, no matter what the result is, it is not good-looking.
After several efforts, there is still no progress. Then I asked my sister-in-law to teach me how to make up. Under her guidance, I quickly mastered the essentials and made myself beautiful every day, not to mention how happy I was.
Later, after graduating from college, I went to Guangzhou and joined a foreign trade company. I made more money, bought better and better cosmetics, and my makeup skills became more and more mature. At that time, I heard the most about makeup in the workplace: women's makeup is the greatest respect for customers.
At that time, I used this sentence as my motivation to make up. I spent half an hour dressing myself up before going to work every day. It seems that only in this way can I bring enthusiasm and confidence to my work.
Until I met my first boyfriend, who was a client of mine. Before I confirmed my relationship with him, he had never seen me without makeup, and he respected my habit of makeup. But I felt that since I chose the other person, I should be honest with him, so I met him one weekend without makeup.
He was surprised to see me without makeup. He put his hand on my shoulder and said, there is a big difference between the way you look without makeup and the way you look without makeup. You look really beautiful, friendly, more natural and more beautiful.
I was 25 years old at that time, which was the age of youth and beauty. His words made me lost in thought. From I like makeup to I'm used to it. Makeup seems to be a compulsory course for me every day, just like eating and sleeping. No one has ever told me that I look better without makeup.
After that, I tried to wear light makeup. Since wearing light makeup, my colleagues and friends around me have praised me for being fresher than before, which has given me some confidence in myself, but I dare not treat others with plain face at once. After all, I've been putting on makeup since I started working.
Until later, I met my second boyfriend, my later husband.
He is my neighbor. He just moved in next door to me that day. I came home from work and just took off my makeup. He came to borrow salt from me. He was stunned for more than ten seconds when he saw me, and his eyes looked straight at me, which made me feel embarrassed.
I handed him the salt, and he kept staring at me, making me think he was up to something, and then I knew he had fallen in love with me at first sight, haha.
Later, he often cooked good food and asked me to eat together. We also go shopping and go to the movies together. Three months later, we were together.
One day, he and I came out of the cinema, and he suddenly took my hand and said to me, can you stop wearing makeup? You look beautiful without makeup. I fell in love with you at first sight because I saw your plain face.
I said, stop teasing me. I have been putting on makeup since I came out to work. People say I look good in makeup. He said: I am telling the truth. You can try not to wear makeup another day, go to work and listen to your colleagues' comments. You should have confidence in yourself.
Women please themselves. I was elated at his words. I said, you have a poor mouth. I think he said this to me just to please me, so I didn't take it too seriously.
But when I woke up the next day, I found that all my cosmetics were gone. I called him and he said that he had taken out my cosmetics and asked me to try not to wear makeup to work.
I told him a little angrily: beauty is in the eyes of your lover, and you like me. I don't wear makeup. You think it looks good, but in others' eyes, I look good with makeup.
Anger is anger, no cosmetics, and going to work again. I have no choice but to go to work without makeup. When I arrived at the company, many colleagues saw me and said, Wow, you are more beautiful without makeup. Why do you need makeup?
My colleagues praised me a lot, and my anger at my boyfriend subsided a lot. I thought, maybe my boyfriend and colleagues are right. I look better without makeup.
Since then, I seldom wear makeup except on more important occasions. The reason why I have changed like this is because others have affirmed me and I have gained confidence in my appearance, which makeup can't give me.
Finally, by understanding my experience, I can answer why more and more girls don't want to wear makeup.
Viewpoint 1: With people's living standards getting higher and higher, in terms of diet, nutrition is more and more balanced, men are more and more handsome, women are more and more beautiful, people don't have to work hard with their backs to the loess as before, and some girls usually pay attention to maintenance, so they will look good even without makeup.
Viewpoint 2: At present, many girls are very independent and confident. They don't need to please others as before, they just need to please themselves. Making up is really a time-consuming thing. Not many girls are willing to waste too much time on makeup unless they like it or need it for work.
In fact, the beauty of a woman lies not in her appearance but in her heart. Inner beauty comes from the heart. As long as she is kind, others can feel your beauty.
How can I put it? Actually, it's not that I don't want to make up. I just try not to wear makeup. After all, no matter how expensive makeup is, it is harmful to the skin. Minimize the time for makeup. Don't wear makeup until you go out.
In fact, complete makeup is really time-consuming. Now 5-minute makeup is popular in normal work, which is basically light makeup, base makeup+lipstick+eyebrows. Some people even have semi-permanent eyebrows and eyeliner. Basically they can go out with lipstick and makeup, which is very convenient.
But in the workplace or life, if the skin condition is not good, it is also a kind of respect for others to make yourself look better through makeup.
Don't say I was born beautiful. I just don't need makeup. Most people's faces should be flawed. Pockets, spots, uneven skin tone and red blood are common skin problems, which can be well modified through makeup. Create cream muscles that look better than nude makeup. Simply draw an eyebrow and apply lipstick, and people will be very energetic and have different temperament in an instant. People will become more beautiful and more confident, and natural luck and peach blossom will come.
Thank you for your invitation,
First of all, what is makeup for? Is makeup more beautiful than no makeup? Make-up can cover up immediate shortcomings. Girls fall in love before going out and love makeup more.
Why do some girls love makeup less and less? They have a higher understanding of makeup. You have acne and freckles on your face It is not to choose the cosmetics that suit you. Some are counterproductive, allergic or irritating. Cosmetics are too expensive, endless, too troublesome and a waste of time.
Not wearing makeup is a state of mind and a natural beauty. External beauty can't be changed by makeup alone. What's wrong with not wearing makeup? Sometimes it's unnatural to wear it, and the old people at home will say it if they are not used to it. I'd better not wear makeup. This is what I look like. When you see me, I am ordinary and simple. I think people who love makeup are more tacky, and people who don't wear makeup are more beautiful.
Now I often go out naked, don't be too refreshing! According to my own experience and that of friends around me, there are several main reasons for not wearing makeup.
Lazy! This must be the main reason (although I hate to admit it)! This is not difficult to understand. When the washing machine was invented, it caused a sensation in the women's world, and diapers were not wet. Women buy this because they claim to be good for their children, but they don't want to wash diapers. ...
Spices, preservatives and chemicals in cosmetics are harmful to the skin. Many girls have this experience. They didn't wear makeup before, and then they put on makeup every day, and their skin became worse and worse. Probably because the essence, preservatives and various additives in make-up stimulate the dermis of the skin, the skin will have skin problems such as acne, large pores and redness.
The bad habits brought by makeup damage the skin barrier. In fact, a healthy skin barrier will resist external stimuli, but the terrible thing is that some bad habits of makeup, such as makeup removal and deep cleaning, have destroyed our skin barrier and stratum corneum, resulting in damage to the skin barrier and various skin problems.
Violent makeup removal, excessive cleaning to remove sebum film, resulting in dry skin and desert skin makeup need makeup removal, wiping makeup removal with cotton pad or using some powerful makeup remover will all cause damage to the skin surface. In addition, the use of cleansing products with strong cleaning power, especially soap-based products, will remove the sebum film that destroys the skin surface, evaporate the water in the stratum corneum and dermis, and cause problems such as dry skin and desquamation.
In short, it is not only lazy, but also good for the skin, reducing the burden and damage to the skin. Remind girls who love beauty that if they wear makeup, they must pay attention to gentle makeup removal, control the number of times they wash their faces, and protect your skin barrier.
Haha, it varies from person to person.
Whether you like makeup or not is purely a personal hobby. Unless you are engaged in some fashion-related work, makeup is a necessary skill for them. There is no need for men and women to sublimate it into a necessary behavior. If you love it, you will melt it. If you don't love, it won't melt. There are too many reasons.
The reason why countries like Japan and South Korea promote it to the basic etiquette that women must have, I think, is that women's status and weakness in the workplace. I feel quite sad when a woman's appearance is valued more than her ability to work.
Moreover, in Japan and South Korea, the possibility of girls' promotion is quite low compared with that of men. Most women quit their jobs after marriage and become full-time housewives. Make-up is something they will learn from childhood, and the necessary skills as housewives are the same as cooking.
However, the situation in China is different. We were brought up under the education that women hold up half the sky. Most families have their own jobs at the same time, and their family status is very equal. This is an example.
Many parents create a good learning environment for their daughter in the hope that she can realize her dreams, create her own value and know the world. Instead of being locked in a kitchen of several square meters, living for daily necessities and watching other people's faces.
We value a person's ability more than his appearance. Our society pays more attention to strength, and appearance can add points, but it is not a necessary choice.
I think makeup may be an attitude towards life. Now the quality of life of girls is constantly improving, and their attitude towards life is also constantly improving. We don't want to wear makeup, perhaps because we prefer the comfort and casual feeling brought by plain face.
Sometimes we say we don't want to wear heavy makeup, except for some necessary dancers or actors. In fact, we don't need to wear heavy makeup in life. Light plain makeup looks particularly comfortable and is also very good for skin maintenance.
I have seen too many videos, and there is a big gap between my two faces before and after makeup. After a review before, most people still can't accept this gap. There are also many boys who comment that they like their girlfriends to wear a little light makeup or plain makeup, which makes them feel comfortable and natural. There is no need for girls to make themselves different from themselves, which will make people feel unreal unconsciously. Maybe you may win a temporary favor through such beauty, but what about the future? You still need to be sincere to your partners and friends in life.
I was attracted by Zhu because of "The Sound" before, and it was so sweet to see his Weibo. In his Weibo, the photos of his wife are all taken without makeup, which looks real and happy. I think this is a good living condition, and our faces don't need to be wrapped in so many cosmetics, so it's not good to show our true selves.
We get along with people and are attracted to them. Many times, it's not because you look good. Maybe we have all heard a saying, starting from the face value and being loyal to talents. Girls need our self-cultivation, our ability to do things and our attitude towards life to gain favor and charm. We know Dong Qing. She is such a woman.
With the increasing awareness of skin care and maintenance, many people gradually begin to attach great importance to their skin care, whether it is going to a beauty salon for maintenance or buying some good products for maintenance, it is very good. Nowadays, girls know that they want to live a refined life and are willing to invest in themselves. I think this is the right choice. No one wants to see a yellow-faced woman and a wrinkled person. We don't need makeup. But you must take good care of your skin, which is the most important thing. Compared with the temporary charm brought by heavy makeup, it is not as good as the confident beauty brought by small light makeup every day! Adhere to skin care and maintenance on time every day, buy skin care products that suit you, go to the gym irregularly, and have time to travel with friends. This is the life that many girls yearn for ~
Girls don't want to wear makeup for two reasons. ...
First, "laziness" can also be called "trouble". I think this accounts for a large proportion. No woman doesn't love beauty, but no woman can make up for hours, and no woman has so much leisure time.
Second, the effect after makeup is not as good as that after makeup. I have actually seen a woman walking with a thick coat on her face. The smog in China is serious because of you.
When girls feel that they don't need makeup, they usually choose not to wear makeup.
It takes time to make up. In addition to some necessary industry and personal preferences, girls are more willing to spend their time on what they need. Time is so short, and when it comes to no need to put on makeup, naturally, this matter will not be done.
Makeup is more troublesome. Many girls find it troublesome to wear three layers inside and three layers outside. It's better to wear plain face like this. Youth is capital, and it looks just as good without makeup.
Makeup hurts the skin. Make-up also has its own rules, and the skin can't stand the invasion of external substances from time to time. In order to keep your skin healthy, naturally let your skin rest when you don't wear makeup.
Many men are very concerned about the appearance of a lady, and want to see what the other person looks like. They are afraid of getting on the thief boat and not getting off. At the same time, it also shows that makeup can turn decay into magic.
In fact, this problem basically depends on the situation. Do it if you need it, and don't do it if you don't need it.
Because of laziness, like me, I get up late in the morning and have no time to make up.
Another thing is that I don't want to show it to anyone after putting on makeup. I think it's a waste of cosmetics and energy, and I have to take off my makeup before going to bed at night.
I don't want to scare my boyfriend all the time! ! !
When I first learned makeup, I was intoxicated in my own world every day. I feel very beautiful, and occasionally I wonder how there are such beautiful people in the world! (also praised by people around)
Then there are all kinds of selfies, friends circle, wb, and I often admire myself in the mirror (now think about it, I am an iron handyman ~).
Over time, who am I without makeup? Where am I?
I have been hurt by my boyfriend's poisonous tongue countless times, and I can't help but want to change it. Who is not a proud little deed of mutual covenant?
Seriously, 8 points for makeup and 3 points for plain face. This gap leads to going to the toilet in the middle of the night to scare my boyfriend, haha ~ it is also a revenge for his poisonous tongue.
Speaking of makeup, I can see that my skin is getting worse and worse because of makeup, and my face is dull. This is probably how I feel when I put on makeup. After a long time, there will be various problems, such as what makeup is not suitable, peeling and so on.
Something disturbing ~
Besides makeup, there are many ways to be beautiful. After all, it is a girl's nature to love beauty.
The voice of most people: what if you don't look good?
I am not plain enough, but my hair styles are together.
A hairstyle that suits you is very important, and it is undoubtedly a haircut after finding it.
Yingbao who gave birth to a baby is still a fairy ~
Look at your face and find a hairstyle that suits you.
Four parts test their faces.
Simple and clear, will you know your face shape soon? !
At this time, you can cut your hair and arrange your hair. You can be beautiful without makeup ~
A round face is suitable for hairstyle.
Clavicle hairstyle air cushion ironing
The fluffy and full air cushion is warm and makes you feel younger.
The hairstyle is slightly layered, which increases the fluffy feeling and hair volume of the hair.
Highlight the three-dimensional softness of the face, full of temperament.
High level short hair
Layers are thick and thin, short in the middle and long on both sides, with a little curvature.
This hairstyle has a small face in front, full of Japanese feeling!
Round face can also cut long hair at the clavicle, French egg rolls and so on.
Diamond face is suitable for hair style.
Zhang Yin has short hair with the same paragraph.
Leaky ears are cool, handsome and feminine.
Highlight the exquisiteness of the five senses
The whole is very layered.
Temperament clavicle hair
Advanced and easy to manage
You can try if you have more hair.
Diamond faces can also be cut into short hair, French wavy rolls, figure-of-eight bangs and so on.
Heart-shaped face is suitable for hairstyle.
You can refer to the hairstyles of stars, such as Jelly Lin, Angelababy and Zhou Xun. It's all heart-shaped face.
I won't say them one by one. No matter how much I say, it won't be as useful as a word from Teacher Tony. Knowing your face and hairstyle will solve it. Let Mr. Tony design it. Still relatively safe ~
Speaking of which, let me say one more thing. Is baldness popular among boys and girls now? ! It seems that people around me are worried about hair loss, so I have to give my artifact Avery shampoo. After all, a good hairstyle can't be separated from hair, and I've been using this anti-stripping shampoo.
I have a professional certificate of anti-stripping shampoo! Unlike someone, a ginger is not officially recognized at all)
Besides shampoo, combing your hair is also a skill.
Choose an air cushion comb with massage function, or a horn comb or a solid wood comb.
Ps: Don't comb for so long when you feel full. Lifting the arm for too long will lead to insufficient blood circulation in the stomach and affect digestion.
Don't worry about cutting your hair, it's feasible!
Not enough plain face, eat and drink together.
① Fruits and vegetables
I eat a tomato every day, because I like sour food very much, so tomatoes are very appetizing to me ~
VC and lycopene in tomatoes can purify the skin, remove melanin and make the skin more shiny, especially suitable for sisters who work on the computer every day. !
Eat a few red dates every day to replenish qi and blood and promote blood circulation.
Like kiwi fruit, strawberry, small tomato and so on. You can eat some every day. The more you eat, the better the color, longer than it lasts ~
② scented tea
It is necessary for me to drink water every day, not much.
Materials; Jujube, Lycium barbarum, longan, chrysanthemum, rock sugar
Jujube should be cut and pitted, so it is not easy to get angry. It is highly recommended to drink 2-3 times a week ~
③ Foot-soaking method for health-preserving teenagers.
Nowadays, many stars keep in good health by soaking their feet, such as Orfila, Fan Bingbing and Jelly Lin. The most powerful thing is that Queen Sun Li will soak her feet every solar term, and those who are interested can also learn ~
Chinese wolfberry soaking feet can replenish qi and blood.
Carthamus tinctorius and Paeonia lactiflora can nourish blood and maintain beauty, and the skin will be smooth and tender after long-term soaking.
Pay attention to soaking feet:
The color you raise can't be replaced by makeup ~
The makeup is not enough, and the skin care needs to be replenished.
For skin care, I just don't pretend now, streamline skin care and reduce the burden on the skin.
In addition, before streamlining skin care, it is necessary to talk about the correct makeup removal method to prevent your makeup from being ineffective when you make up on a whim, resulting in worse and worse skin.
Correct makeup removal is not arbitrary rubbing, but also needs to be gradual.
Like makeup remover, you need to use makeup remover cotton to remove makeup, which has serious pulling friction on the skin. It is best to use cleansing oil and makeup remover to cushion the friction.
Don't rub your face, press makeup remover. I often use makeup remover. I use gentle makeup remover 974, which can be removed from your face, lips and eyes together and emulsified quickly. Wash it with facial cleanser after unloading. The choice of makeup remover is not important. What is important is the method of removing makeup, don't put the cart before the horse ~
Streamlined skin care: facial cleanser+water emulsion+anti-aging essence
After reducing makeup, I began to streamline my skin care and found that my complexion is getting better and better!
① Facial cleanser can choose amino acids. The cleaning power of soap base is too strong, so there is no need to coat it with oil. I am satisfied with all aspects of this Maikesi facial cleanser. You can foam with a foam net and then apply the foam to your face. You'd better not have foam on your face.
I don't have much demand for water emulsion, as long as it is moisturizing and not irritating. This ahc water emulsion has a good moisturizing effect and is refreshing after absorption.
③ Anti-aging should be done as early as possible. When you are 18 years old, especially if you wear makeup frequently, your skin condition will be worse. The anti-aging essence of tlab is the design of dropper, which is convenient and hygienic. Brown bottle body can also avoid light, with high cost performance and cheaper anti-aging ~
Because I don't wear makeup often, I feel better and better, and I don't often toss my skin. It's just my daily skin care. If I feel that my skin is lacking, I will buy skin care products in that direction.
Not plain enough, exercise together.
There are many stars working out. For example, 37-year-old Rainie Yang often exercises and looks like he is in his twenties.
And Sun Li, Mabel Yuan, Li Bingbing, etc. It seems that collagen is full ~
We don't need to fight like stars, exercise a little every day to promote metabolism.
If you don't have the conditions to go to the gym, it's the same to make a yoga mat at home, sweating all over, and even troubles don't exist.
Improve trapezius muscles and build girls' backs.
Whole body fat burning exercise
Pamela-10 minutes HIIT burns fat! Li Li Li Li Li Li Li Li Li Li
Body shaping, lying down can exercise.
Playing mobile phone in bed 15 days, the whole body is tense! 10 student party office workers shape the necessary movements, and the pro-test is effective! Bi Li Bi Li _ Li Bili
Stretch all over to make the lines more beautiful.
Pamela- 10min full-body stretching | Stretching before and after exercise | Relieve muscle soreness and improve flexibility (Pamela Reif official) _ Bi Li _ Bi Li
Practice for a period of time every day, and control the length of practice according to your own situation, not only the skin is better, but also the shape becomes perfect. It's best to stretch for a while before and after exercise, so you don't have to worry about the appearance of muscles.
Of course, makeup is still very important to me. Of course, you can't wear makeup if you have something to do. It's like a sword in the attic, but you don't need to shine it for the time being. Take care of your skin first. When you need makeup, your skin will crush everything.
Try my method. Bang ~
There are many ways to be beautiful without makeup! !