Instead, you can help yourself lose weight in the following ways:
1. Make a reasonable diet plan to ensure a balanced intake of calories and nutrients.
2. Increase exercise, including aerobic exercise and strength training.
3. Seek professional advice and guidance on weight loss, such as advice from a dietitian or doctor.
4. Join a weight loss support group and share experience and encouragement with others.
Set feasible goals for yourself, make a plan, and realize these goals step by step.
Remember, losing weight is a long-term process that requires patience and persistence. Don't be too hard on yourself, give yourself some time and space to achieve your goals.