This sentence is perfect for Li Houlin, a rich man.
From Zhou Yanhong to Amanda to Li Xiang, from obscurity to jewelry tycoon to near bankruptcy, Li Houlin has experienced many ups and downs that ordinary people can't imagine.
And all this, let Li Houlin see through life, what he yearns for in his heart is the real demand.
Instead of touching people, it is better to touch yourself by doing things, at least not to get hurt.
In my opinion, Li Houlin's first half of his life was actually pursuing a truth: What are you living for?
Li Houlin, born in 1973, was born with an unusual mind, which made him much higher than others in business.
At the age of 26, he founded Hengxin Diamond Research Institute and became a famous jewelry tycoon, which is an achievement that ordinary people can't achieve.
How to strategize in the business world is just an experience for Li Houlin.
Once upon a time, wealth, power and women seemed to be the criteria for judging a man's success.
So for Li Houlin, wealth and power are no longer attractive, and having a confidante seems to be his biggest thing.
In Li Houlin's view, ordinary rouge powder has not yet entered his eyes, and it should be a very pleasant thing to meet a female star like her predecessors.
In early 2000, Li Houlin set her first goal on actress Zhou Yanhong.
Zhou Yanhong, born in 1975, reached her peak when she debuted. /kloc-The first album released at the age of 0/6 caused a sensation in the whole music circle.
Classic songs such as Spring Breeze, Chashan Girl, See Jasmine Again and Zhuo Ma have been covered countless times.
Therefore, in the 1990s, Zhou Yanhong was a unique figure in pop music. He can sing, write lyrics and compose music. He is a rare genius.
That year, by chance, Li Houlin met Zhou Yanhong, a beautiful young man, and launched a fierce pursuit because he liked her.
Men who can make a splash in business have different EQ and IQ, so in the process of pursuing Zhou Yanhong, Li Houlin has brought his potential into full play. Of course, all this is based on the "attack" of banknotes.
Rich, willing to spend money, similar in age and outstanding in talent, no one can resist the offensive.
So Zhou Yanhong "fell". Women's love is always like this, and the early stage is very passive. Once trapped, it will be reversed.
After Zhou Yanhong and Li Houlin were together, he tried his best to help Li Houlin's business. Most of the friends he can reach have become customers.
To this end, Zhou Yanhong also generously disclosed her boyfriend in the media, saying a lot of good things for him, which directly doubled the corporate performance of Li Houlin.
Arguably, such a woman should make Li Houlin feel at ease, but unexpectedly, in less than three years, Li Houlin found a new home.
Talking about "character" and breaking up is actually because he secretly loves Amanda, who is five years younger than him.
In Li Houlin's eyes, a stable life made him feel no crisis, as if everything was predestined.
Therefore, I don't cherish what I have, and sometimes I take it for granted.
Therefore, challenging excitement and pursuing difficulty have become the life interest of such "successful people".
I chose Amanda not only because she is young and beautiful, but also because she has more personality than Zhou Yanhong.
Amanda was born in a literary family. She was trained as a dancer since she was a child, and then she studied Peking Opera and Peking Opera Blues, so she is far superior to Zhou Yanhong in temperament.
As far as fame is concerned, 22-year-old Amanda won the Hong Kong Film Award for her outstanding performance in Durian Fluttering. Insiders rated her as "a rare talent who knows both acting and drama".
Therefore, Amanda's strength is not behind that of Zhou Yanhong.
But for Li Houlin, it is actually a good choice to eat delicacies all year round and occasionally change to steamed abalone soup.
Anyone is willing to try new things. After all, there is neither money nor opportunity.
Amanda looks ordinary on the outside, but she is an ideal woman on the inside. When to fight and when to get married, she already has her own abacus.
But in the face of Li Houlin's pursuit, Amanda is also in a dilemma. On the one hand, it is a thriving career, on the other hand, it is romantic love. How to choose has become a headache for her.
Li Houlin doesn't think so. He never gives in to anything, let alone just spends some energy and money chasing a woman.
Women are always like this, and no matter how prepared they are, they can never resist the sweet words of men.
Amanda has also fallen, and love has given her enough courage to replace the center of life.
In 2003, shortly after dating Amanda, Li Houlin took out a diamond ring composed of 50 colored diamonds and proposed to Amanda while the iron was hot. To borrow Li Houlin's words, 50 colored diamond represents a 50-year golden wedding.
Such a man, such a promise, said that women are not moved by a snot and tears, I really don't believe it.
Amanda was immersed in her own happy world, completely forgetting the ever-present danger, but she was originally prepared to promise Li Houlin, and was suddenly reminded by her sister. After all, it all happened so fast that I have to think about it.
Therefore, Amanda temporarily put this marriage on hold under the pretext of redoing her career.
But what she didn't expect was that Li Houlin announced that he would marry Li Xiang as his wife as soon as he turned around.
On July 2 1 2004, Amanda returned to Beijing for filming. As soon as the plane landed, she received a short message from Li Houlin.
When she asked "Why", Li Houlin's explanation was very weak, which made it difficult for Amanda to accept.
She doesn't know what else to do except disappear.
Many people say that Li Xiang dug Amanda's corner. After all, in terms of strength, neither Amanda can match. She is not only the pillar of Hunan Satellite TV, but also founded her own media company with her own ability.
Therefore, for Li, there is no corner that he can't dig.
Li Houlin gave up Amanda and married Li Xiang for three reasons.
First of all, when she separated from Amanda, Li Houlin was not idle, but kept looking for actresses and artists she liked.
Second, Li wants to be strong. If you combine with her, it will be good for both of them.
Third, Li Houlin's proposal to Amanda was rejected, but Li Xiang didn't. Not to mention how much he wants Li Houlin to get married, which is another achievement of his.
Breaking up is an invisible injury to Amanda. Did Venus cry after asking her? Amanda said, "Will you stop crying?"
It is said that this incident made Amanda seriously ill, and no one saw her raise a "heart disease" behind closed doors. It can be said that during that time, Amanda suffered a lot.
What about Li Houlin and Lee on the other side? Generous love, big banquet guests' marriage, can be described as booming.
During that time, the story of "one month and three days" when Li Houlin and Li Xiang met and decided to get married was widely circulated, and many friends were envious.
However, it seems that few people care about the injured Amanda, except her sister Qin Lan, who publicly accused Li Houlin of being "shameless".
But that doesn't change the fact. With Li Xiang's popularity and wealth, this rumor is nothing at all.
You think this is the end, of course not!
On June 2, 2005, Li Xiang and Li Houlin held a grand wedding in Beijing, but no one knew that the wedding only lasted less than two years. In other words, this wedding was a mistake.
I got married after 33 days of love, saying it was all because of love. No one believes that Li Xiang is a woman with a high standard of living. She married Li Houlin because of his strength and endurance.
The problem is, after marriage, she found that Li Houlin is like this. Or Li Houlin is a "pseudo" rich man.
On June 22nd, 2006, Li Xiang admitted his divorce from Li Houlin for the first time through his blog. The reasons for divorce once made countless people curious.
"It's better to find a woman in the street than Li Xiang!" This is what Li Houlin, a diamond tycoon, said on the show after his divorce from Li Xiang.
Therefore, divorce is a great blow to Li Houlin.
At that time, the most popular saying was that Li Houlin's enterprises were in crisis and on the verge of bankruptcy, and Li Xiang chose to divorce.
Despite Li Houlin's denunciation of Li Xiang, Li Xiang gave a comprehensive explanation of the reasons for the divorce, saying that the divorce was due to busy work. Surprisingly, she also said that Li Houlin was a good man.
Some are surprised, some are ridiculous.
After the divorce, Li Houlin stopped focusing on parties and devoted herself to her career.
After several years of hard work, he finally brought his business back to life and regained his own world.
But at this time, Li Houlin, who was lost in life meditation, completely turned over a new leaf and became a low-key rich man.
The experience of the past few years has taught Li Houlin a lot, and everything happens for a reason.
When you are brilliant, you are frivolous and hurt others; When I am lonely, I am hurt by a woman and become lonely.
Everything, in fact, is the fate.
Fortunately, God gave him a chance to start again, so he never touched the "actress" again.
Playing with other people's feelings will eventually be played with by others.
Since 2008, Li Houlin has fallen in love with public welfare and founded the "I Do Fund", which has helped countless people.
According to legend, Li Houlin walked around the mountain 16 for eight years, and got to know the living Buddha of Zexiucang now, and the indissoluble bond made him convert to Buddhism.
Many people have read Li Houlin's novel Eight Years in the Mountains. In the book, people get to know a different Li Houlin, without the aura of bachelor and the honor of philanthropist. In front of the readers, he is a practitioner who strives to practice hard and climbs mountains and mountains to refine his heart.
As for the conversion to Buddhism, Li Houlin said: Practice makes my inner world more pure.
A person's life is actually a reincarnation. Whether you are injured or injured, it is destiny takes a hand.
Look at the people he's been with. Some people regain their happiness, while others lose their reputation.
So, everything is not yet time!