My boyfriend is an IT man. He is busy at work every day, but he will punch in and say "good morning and good night" to me on time. Now he chats with me every day on holidays, and also chats with me.
Hello, I am also engaged in It. I can tell you that people who are engaged in it are rigid and don't like showing love, because so do I and my colleagues, but that doesn't mean that they don't care about you. They don't like vain things to express their love for the opposite sex. It men like to express their love with practical things.