I believe everyone has heard the saying that women are weak and mothers are strong. Since becoming a mother, she has become omnipotent, which is very sad in the process of raising children. I'd like to share with you an article about a mother who told me to be quiet for five minutes. Let's have a look.

When I was a mother, there was a sadness that told me to be quiet for five minutes. Some time ago, I sent my brother and sister back to my hometown for half a month because I was busy.

This farewell has aggravated my brother's anxiety about separation. It's like crying with all your strength when you can't see your mother.

I go to the toilet and cry; Go to cook and cry; Turn around and get a glass of water, or cry.

I must always be in his sight, and I want my mother to accompany me in everything.

Building blocks, eating, sleeping, reading, and even taking a shit and wiping your ass depend on your mother, or I will cry to you.

The most unbearable thing is to go to work in the morning.

Whenever I see the shoes on my back, no matter what the little guy is doing, he will immediately rush over and hug my thigh. It's no use letting grandma "seduce" with all his favorite toys and snacks. The little guy just tilted his little head back and cried, "Mom, no, mom, no …" His little face was covered with big tears.

At this time, my blx is really broken.

And sleeping is also a sad tear.

My brother refused to sleep for a few days after he came back.

He leans in my arms, like a little kowtow bug, with his little head just swinging up and down. Even if you are so sleepy that your upper and lower eyelids are fighting, you should try to hold on. It was not until I was finally sleepy that my eyelids closed automatically.

Several times, my brother fell asleep while eating Nene. But my little hand always holds my clothes tightly. I can only lie down and fight zombies, and I can't breathe.

Because as long as I am not careful, my brother will wake up and cry for his mother, and while crying, his hands will dance in the air until he touches my face and knows that my mother is around, and then he will eat the inside, and his mood will slowly calm down.

Then, even if I fall asleep again, my brother's little hand will always hold my clothes tightly and mumble "Mom, Mom" in his sleep.

I know, he is afraid that if he falls asleep, his mother will disappear as before.

Grandma Bun watches me go to work during the day and my brother at night. She said, "This child is really strange. I was a good boy when I brought him up in my hometown. After dinner in the evening, I gave him a bath and went to bed early. I'm not crying or making trouble! I see you, how so many things. "

I listened, and my heart ached.

Who says children don't know anything!

You see, my brother is only one and a half years old, but he already knows that my mother is gone now, and I can't cry or be coquettish. I must be good!

But his "good" is mixed with many grievances, thoughts, fears and helplessness-his favorite wife can't eat any more, and his mother has disappeared. Did mom leave him? Will mom come back? ...

Your world is rich and colorful, and his world is only you.

So, when he finally looked forward to his mother, all the depressed emotions were finally released.

He spoiled, he cheated, he cried, he rolled, he stayed up late ... in fact, they all said "Mom, I miss you" and "Mom, I love you!" Mom, I don't want to be apart from you!

He tried to express his love for his mother and the deepest and most primitive feelings he dared not show in front of others.

Because he knows that his mother is the safest and the one who will forgive him no matter what he does.

Thought of here, my heart gives birth to a love, this little guy, how difficult it is.

So, in those days, every day after work, I put down all my work and wholeheartedly accompanied my younger brothers and sisters, telling them stories, playing with toys, hugging, kissing, listening and communicating with them.

I think there is no way to make up for the anxiety caused by separation, so I try to rebuild the trust and connection between our mother and son with more companionship.

Slowly, my brother's anxiety eased.

Finally, he doesn't have to drag me tightly all the time. He can click away and shoot a small ball by himself.

However, he will clap twice, then turn around, look at me, see that I am still there, then continue to clap twice, and then turn around and look at me.

Seeing that I have been here, I excitedly lifted a small ball, stood up with a big belly and shouted "Mom, Mom!" " "

Looking at his swaggering little figure, I gave him a thumbs-up and said, "Little jiaozi is great! The ball is so high! "

Then, following my example, he stretched out a finger and smirked.

I'm relieved. I know that this sudden separation has finally brought some healing to this "trauma" that is not too big but not too small.

This is a growth for my brother and also for me.

Steamed buns listened to a laundry list of stories and stayed up late last night. My mouth is dry and my throat is smoking. However, steamed buns are more and more excited.

The last story-"Leave me alone for five minutes". I really feel the same way when I see that the mother elephant can't even take a quiet hot bath.

After the story, I said, girl, go to sleep quickly, and you also let your mother be quiet for five minutes.

"Mom, are you tired?"

Say that finish, steamed buns suddenly sat up, without saying a word, holding a small fist to beat my leg.

This warm little cotton-padded jacket ~

Well, I don't want to be an elegant swan anymore. I can balance all the storms.

Work, family, children, life, originally blended with each other!

The long road of life, as long as we can keep moving towards the goal without crashing or overturning, and enjoy the process while ensuring "not falling down", although occasionally tired, as long as the family loves each other, is healthy and safe, it is a kind of greatest happiness.

Twelve o'clock in the evening.

Steamed bread finally fell asleep.

I was lying between two babies, wearing makeup, not taking a shower, and my body was covered with sticky sweat.

I tried to open my eyes, took a look at the first half of my life, which I had downloaded for a long time on my mobile phone but never had time to watch, and then fell into a deep sleep.

Open your eyes again, it must be another day.

There is a sadness about being a mother. Tell me to be quiet for five minutes. Mothers must not tolerate these things.

Wrap the baby in a "candle bag"

In order to prevent the baby from "O-legs", many old people actually wrap their children in "candle bags".

Put the newborn baby's arms close to his torso, straighten his legs, and wrap his hands and feet together with a small blanket. Only his little face is exposed. In addition to this tight "package", he has to tie it up with a belt or rope to prevent the baby's hands and feet from moving.

Although there was a saying that "candle bag" could prevent "bowleg", modern science gave a negative answer, because the occurrence of "bowleg" was mainly due to the lack of vitamin D.

The "candle bag" limits the activity of the baby's chest and directly affects the baby's breathing and the development of the lungs and chest.

At the same time, the fixed posture binds the baby's hands and feet, and the muscles are in a state of tension, which is not conducive to their muscle development.

"Candle bag" is not often opened, and it is easy to breed bacteria, which is easy to cause diaper rash, skin infection and other problems. So, don't wrap your baby in a "candle bag" anymore.

Buy fake goods for children

Since becoming a mother, the baby's supplies have never been enough, including milk powder, diapers, bottles, clothes, toys and complementary foods.

But now the maternal and child market is mixed, even if mothers roll up their sleeves and rack their brains, it is impossible to prevent.

I accidentally bought a fake, and the really annoying mothers gnashed their teeth. It's crazy to earn children's dirty money.

Put gloves on the baby.

Grandparents saw the baby's little hand scratching aimlessly and worried that the little guy would catch himself, so they put on gloves for the baby.

Although it seems that it can prevent the baby from being scratched by himself and protect the baby's skin, it actually does more harm than good.

Putting gloves on your baby will naturally limit the free movement of your baby's little hands and fingers. The baby's eating and grasping movements are limited, which is of course unfavorable to the baby's tactile development and fine motor ability of hands.

If the eczema on the baby's face is serious and the ointment is applied, it is necessary to wear small gloves temporarily. New parents must also turn the gloves over and check to make sure that no thread falls off, so as not to wrap around the baby's tender fingers and hinder blood circulation.

Children put food in their mouths before they are six months old. Some grandparents put a little into their mouths when they see that their children want to eat.

In fact, the best time to add complementary food to your baby is from 6 months.

For premature infants and low birth weight infants, due to the particularity of the body, it is not recommended to add complementary food prematurely when breast milk is sufficient.

If you add complementary food too early, it will be harmful to your baby's health. Such as diarrhea, constipation, imbalance in nutrient intake, allergy and obesity.

Moreover, they don't know that adding complementary food to babies needs to start with grains, because grains are the least likely to cause allergies, especially rice noodles made of rice, followed by wheat, followed by fruits and meat.

Worried that the baby is stuck, chew up the food and feed it to the baby. I often see old people secretly stuffing food in their mouths into their babies' mouths. It's really unbearable.

They think this will help the baby's digestion and absorption, but in fact, this is a completely wrong feeding method.

● Chewed food not only destroys the color, taste and fragrance, but also affects the baby's desire for food.

Adults have strong resistance. Although there are germs in the mouth, they will not get sick, while the baby is young and weak in resistance. Once the germs are transmitted to the baby, there is a risk of infection with upper respiratory diseases or digestive system diseases.

● Parents will chew food for the baby, which will exercise the baby's opportunity to chew food, thus affecting the baby's oral digestive juice secretion function.

● The process of chewing is precisely to promote facial bone development, language development, stimulate tooth growth, promote food digestion and absorption, and increase appetite, which will affect the baby's chewing function.

In short, when feeding your baby, you must abandon the unscientific feeding method of "mouth to mouth".

Play at high altitude, pull radish, pull "penis" and other ways to tease children.

Round face, big black eyes, soft skin ... Such a lovely baby, adults can't help Doby them.

However, I want to remind parents that there is nothing wrong with teasing their babies, but there must be a "degree".

For example, it is not advisable to tease children in the following ways:

Playing at high altitude: it is dangerous to throw the baby up and catch it, or to hold the baby in a circle or carry the baby "flying". Once you miss, it is easy to fall and other accidents.

Pulling radish: Pulling radish too hard may sprain the baby's cervical vertebra and bring him unexpected harm.

Pinch your nose: If you use too much force when pinching your nose or shaving your nose hair, there is a risk of damaging your baby's nasal mucosa.

Pulling the penis: the penis of a male baby should not be used for teasing, so as not to damage the baby's urethra and genitals and have a negative impact on the baby's sexual psychology.

Pulling your ears: Pulling your ears too hard can easily damage your baby's hearing.

Squeeze cheeks: Don't squeeze your baby's cheeks to avoid drooling.