With the media paying close attention to the stories of Lu Bu and Diusim, the life stories of Chen Kaige and Chen Hong have once again become the focus of attention. But Chen Kaige kept a low profile. Although Chen Hong is a beautiful woman, her mind is not simple. She has a tacit understanding with Chen Kaige, giving up many free publicity opportunities and not talking about things other than work. It took the reporter a long time to know Chen Hong before he realized the deep affection between Chen Kaige and Chen Hong, just like many other ordinary happy couples, and their little-known unique personalities.
I met in Yue Feng and didn't have a chance to talk about Yue Feng.
1994165438+10. In October, Chen Hong, known as a super beauty, was taken in by the cast of Yue Feng. Later, due to various reasons, Chen Hong finally lost contact with Yue Feng. At that time, in the eyes of Chen Kaige, the director of Romantic Moon, Chen Hong was just a female movie star suitable for the role in the play; In Chen Hong's eyes, Chen Kaige is just a famous director. Although, since the university, Chen Hong has known about Chen Kaige from the yellow land, which gives her a feeling as unforgettable as a volcano. However, in the winter of 1994, Chen Hong, a beautiful girl with straightforward personality who graduated from the performance department of Shanghai Theatre Academy, never imagined that she would become Chen Kaige's wife in the future and share joys and sorrows with him.
The relaxed party made both of them feel good.
Chen Hong, who bid farewell to the "Romance" crew, is filming in the Mainland and Hongkong leisurely, while Chen Kaige is busy with his own movies. If someone says love at first sight, it is absolutely false.
1995 One evening in early spring, there was an ordinary gathering of people in the film circle, including Chen Kaige, Ge You and Chen Hong. At that time, it was not like the feeling of fighting for a role in Romance. Chen Kaige is just Chen Kaige. He is not a famous director. Chen Hong is Chen Hong, not an actor who wants to fight for a role. Everyone just relaxes, drinks and plays. At that time, Chen Kaige found that Chen Hong's personality was very similar to that of boys, and she was very frank and outspoken, which was very different from other girls. Chen Kaige felt very curious and asked: Is your family a soldier? Chen Hong said: Half. My mother's family are all soldiers.
Later, when there were many performances in Beijing, Chen Kaige would invite Chen Hong to watch them together. When two people chat, they both feel very enjoyable.
On the one hand, it is easy, and on the other hand, it is serious.
In all fairness, Chen Kaige likes Chen Hong, not only because Chen Hong is beautiful and young, but also because of Chen Hong's personality: he is not afraid of anything, has no burden, and walks forward regardless. Chen Kaige is a particularly responsible and burdened person. With Chen Hong, Chen Kaige will feel very relaxed.
Chen Kaige and Chen Hong met and fell in love. It was so natural. It was a natural feeling. There is not even a common agreement between them: Oh! You are my boyfriend and you are my girlfriend. Naturally, two people came together.
The key is to attract each other in character. Chen Hong said that many people are more handsome than Kaige, richer than him, and younger and more beautiful than Chen Hong. If you choose the other half according to this condition, it won't last long.
They have the same emotional pursuit, that is, they must find the person they love and the other person loves you.
Only marriage is relative.
It cannot be absolutely said that different backgrounds have no effect on feelings. During my stay with Chen Kaige and Chen Hong, I have been thinking that their earnest and traditional attitude towards people and things should be the basis of their acquaintance and love, and the formation of this attitude is closely related to their backgrounds of high-level intellectuals.
Chen Kaige's mother is a senior editor and her father is a famous director. Because my father is often away from home, my mother has a great influence on him. He is proficient in classical literature, almost demanding self-discipline, crazy about his work, extremely responsible for his words and deeds and so on. These are the requirements of China traditional culture for men; At the same time, on the banks of the Xinjiang River in Jiangxi, a pair of senior intellectuals, with their own words and deeds, cultivated their daughter's frank, responsible and studious character, worked hard outside, stayed out of trouble and educated their children at home. These are all good stabilizers for them in the turbulent love atmosphere of the film and television circle.
For many young people nowadays, love can get along. Chen Hong said that only when you get married can you enjoy the feeling of being a relative. You will feel that you and he are relatives, very close relatives, and you will not feel this way if you are not married.
A pair of socks, a word "oil", a few people envy a few people and feel ashamed.
Chen Kaige, who seems serious, is actually very delicate at heart. He is often absent-minded in Chen Kaige's artistic creation and sympathizes with his new wife.
On one occasion, in winter, during the script discussion stage of "Stabbing Qin", Chen Hong went downstairs barefoot after taking a shower and listened to their discussion. With such input, Chen Kaige would suddenly say to Chen Hong, "Honghong, you will catch a cold if you put on socks." The women present at that time were envious and the men were ashamed.
Another time, everyone discussed a problem at a long table. Chen Hong was sitting next to Chen Kaige, and everyone was talking noisily. Chen Kaige will suddenly say, "You should put some oil on it, and your skin will dry easily in winter."
These little details made Chen Hong really feel the deep affection of Chen Kaige, who is not good at expressing his feelings.
The crew provided Chen Hong with a driver when filming "Da Gong Ming Ci", but Chen Kaige insisted on picking up Chen Hong every night. Chen Hong sometimes loves him dearly and tells him not to answer. Chen Kaige's reason is: "You are so hard, I have no expression at all, and I can't say it."
In Chen Kaige's most traditional but sincere feeling of wanting to feel the same way with the other person, Chen Hong has been glad of his marriage choice and thinks that Chen Kaige is the best candidate to be a husband.
When filming, the six parents denied their usual thoughtfulness.
If Chen Kaige has a delicate and considerate heart in his life, then at the filming scene, Chen Kaige completely turned a blind eye to people and things unrelated to filming, including his wife and sister.
Kaige has a good relationship with her sister Yan Kai. When Kaige was filming "Pricking Qin", it was very hard, and my ears were frozen and discolored. Yan Kai felt sorry for his brother, so he went to visit him. Unexpectedly, Chen Kaige not only turned a blind eye, but also talked to Yan Kai. He ignored her and completely ignored her. Yan Kai was so angry that she complained to Chen Hong. Chen Hong, who is already familiar with her husband's situation, knows that she can't help her sister get back this "justice", but she remembers that she has been treated by this "hospitality", so when Chen Kaige came back, she still challenged him. Chen Kaige looked innocent. Chen Hong asked him, "What are you thinking there?" Chen Kaige was anxious and said, "What can I think? I'm thinking about my movie! "
Now, Chen Hong's never-won challenge has almost disappeared. Like any woman who loves her husband deeply, Chen Hong understands and accepts it. Chen Kaige, like any husband who loves his wife deeply, tries to be considerate of her. Of course, the shooting scene is an exception.
Although no one has ever asked Chen Kaige which one he would choose between a movie and his wife. But it is estimated that he will choose a job. And Chen Hong will understand and support him.
Hold your hand and make progress.
Chen Hong, who just got married, stayed with Chen Kaige at the scene of "Jing Ke stabbed the king of Qin" and said nothing. Smart Chen Hong needs not only the support of his wife, but also an aspiring actress. At that time, the crew of Jing Ke Stabbed the King of Qin gathered so many emperor superstars, which was definitely a once-in-a-lifetime learning opportunity.
Now the husband and wife are working together to film The Story of Lu Bu and Diusim, which can be regarded as the first time for Chen Kaige to instruct Chen Hong. Chen Hong is as excited as a child. She is looking forward to getting her husband's advice. At the scene, Chen Kaige put one hand in his trouser pocket, with a serious face and the other hand pulling his body, twitching from side to side, telling the actors and staff how to perform and shoot.
When Chen Kaige has something to fly abroad, he will talk to Chen Hong every day, mostly about work. Chen Kaige told Chen Hong that as one of the leading actors and producers, it is very important to care whether the quality and quantity completed every day are the same as the original plan, and Chen Hong can accept and use it quickly.
Vilen's first adventure in pregnancy.
Chen Hong found herself pregnant while filming Yuan Ye. The shooting environment was not very good at that time. It was winter. Get up at four or five every morning, work fifteen or sixteen hours a day, and often eat cold meals. Chen Hong is particularly worried that these conditions will have a bad influence on children and will be unhealthy. Besides, the play will take more than three months to shoot. Chen Hong hoped not to have this child, and she returned to Beijing from Shanghai for this purpose. Recalling this incident, Chen Hong said: "Chen Kaige's face was particularly ugly at that time." Chen Kaige is worried that if Chen Hong doesn't want this child now, he will go back to the crew to film immediately. It was the coldest three months in the south, and the clothes and shoes were very thin. In this case, Chen Hong is bound to leave the root cause. Whether the children stay or not has become the biggest choice in their lives. After much hesitation, Chen Kaige made up his mind to let Chen Hong keep the baby.
Now, Chen Hong and her children are safe. This is a case of helping others by nature.
Chen Hong's two moves won the "truth"
Chen Hong once played jokes on boys or girls with Chen Kaige. In this way, Chen Kaige's "feudal thought" was immediately exposed.
At that time, Chen Hong went to have a B-ultrasound for the first time, and it turned out to be a boy. Chen Hong told Chen Kaige on the phone that it might be a girl, and Chen Kaige said, "Really? I just like girls. I like girls so much! This is my wish. " Chen Hong told him it was a lie, but it was a boy. Chen Kaige said happily, "Really? Great, great! " Under Chen Hong's questioning, Chen Kaige admitted that it was better to be a boy, and explained the reason "unreasonably": "The boss is still a boy, the eldest son!"
Chen Kaige is also very concerned about children and careful. Chen Hong often reflects on himself, saying that he is not as cautious as Chen Kaige. Often inadvertently, Chen Kaige will find that the child's nails are long, and then he will take a nail clipper to cut the child's nails.
This moment is eternity.
A long time ago, Chen Hong once heard the phrase "Now is eternity". Chen Hong said, this sentence suddenly said to her heart. According to Chen Hong's mind, she always looks forward to a better future than now. The past will pass forever, and the future should not be predicted every day. At this point, Chen Hong and Chen Kaige are also very similar and unified. Chen Kaige thinks he is a man of personality, and he is never wily. I don't know whether two people are close by nature or whether Chen Kaige has a great influence on his beloved wife, so I don't know. However, according to romance novels, loving someone will change.
Two people always regard every day as their new beginning, and strive to build the future, a fresh and vital future.