Recently, the self-report of Su, the founder of "wephone", has aroused widespread concern. In his account, he told the details of the case that his ex-wife XinXin Zhai forced him to die, and revealed a series of shocking facts. In this high-profile civil judgment of first instance, he was sentenced to return the Su family's cash, Tesla cars, jewelry, etc. * * * about100000 yuan. If I were Sue, I would choose tolerance and self-salvation in the face of such a woman.
First of all, as a public figure, I will choose tolerance. Although XinXin Zhai's behavior has caused me great harm and loss, as a person with moral cultivation and social responsibility, I will choose to let go of my hatred and not immerse myself in the pain of the past. Tolerance doesn't mean that I let XinXin Zhai's wrong behavior go, but I choose to face it calmly and not let resentment and hatred bind my heart. I will try to avoid falling into long-term legal disputes and emotional fluctuations, but choose to face life positively and pursue a better future.
Secondly, I will choose to redeem myself. In Sue's self-report, he also revealed some of his mistakes and shortcomings. I will seriously reflect on my mistakes, realize my possible problems in marriage, and try to change them. I will choose to face myself positively and strive to improve my internal quality and emotional intelligence, so as to better handle similar difficulties and problems. I will actively participate in public welfare activities, give back to the society, and prove my kindness and value with practical actions.
In addition, I will take a series of measures to protect the rights and interests of myself and my family. I will seek legal channels to safeguard my legitimate rights and interests. I will choose to cooperate with lawyers and professional teams to protect my property and interests and ensure that XinXin Zhai returns my due property. I will try my best to avoid confusing personal feelings with legal issues and solve them in a calm, rational and legal way.
Most importantly, I will pay attention to my mental health. Facing a woman like XinXin Zhai may lead to her mood swings and psychological stress. Therefore, I will actively seek psychological counseling and support to maintain emotional stability and mental stability. I will keep good communication and relations with my relatives and friends and seek their support and understanding. At the same time, I will also pay attention to my health, maintain good living habits and a healthy lifestyle, enhance my body's resistance, and cope with all kinds of difficulties and challenges that may arise.
In addition, I will avoid falling into the mood and behavior of revenge. Although XinXin Zhai's behavior has done me great harm, I will not choose to repay good for evil and fall into the whirlpool of revenge. Revenge will only lead me into an endless vicious circle, which is not good for myself and the people around me. On the contrary, I will choose to put aside hatred and move towards the road of reconciliation and tolerance. I will try my best to release my negative emotions and deal with the residual problems of this marriage in a positive and healthy way.
Finally, I will welcome the new stage of my life with a positive attitude. Although I have been troubled by this marriage in XinXin Zhai, I will not let this experience affect my expectation and confidence in the future. I will face life with a positive attitude and strive for the success of my career and personal happiness. I will cherish the people and things around me, cultivate good interpersonal relationships and pursue inner peace and satisfaction. I will regard the past experience as a growth and lesson in my life, learn from it, and be stronger and more prepared to face the challenges of future life.
In the face of a woman like XinXin Zhai, I will choose tolerance and self-salvation. I will face life with a positive attitude, safeguard my rights and interests, pay attention to mental health, avoid revenge and behavior, and greet the new stage of life with a positive attitude. In this way, I believe I can get out of the predicament, become stronger and more mature, and live a happy life.