Support, every mother has her own way of education, and can be a mother in the way she wants without hurting her children. In a variety show, Taiwan Province actress Yi Nengjing's excessive doting on her daughter caused controversy among netizens, but long before that, Yi Nengjing gave her eldest son? Confess? It has caused many netizens to scold her for being melodramatic and artificial. Even telling her about her education methods, even if this is someone else's daughter.

For these disputes, Yi Nengjing said in a program that every mother has the right to choose the way to be a mother. Personally, I think what she said is very reasonable:

My mother is also a first-time mother.

In the TV series Xiao Shede, children from three completely different educational models all have their own shortcomings. A large number of netizens blame their parents through the screen and think that their educational methods have harmed their children. Naturally, we know what those children need from God's point of view. However, if we are the parties, as mothers, we just want to give our children something better and give them what they want, they will want something else. In short, the plan can't keep up with the change, and the child is also a human being, and his psychological changes can never be synchronized with you.

As a mother being a mother for the first time, what she can do is what she thinks is the best, but in real life, because almost everyone has psychological obstacles to being born in a family, it is just a matter of the size of the obstacles.

You can choose the education mode that suits you under reasonable circumstances.

We can never make the whole world like ourselves, nor can we make a person belong to ourselves forever. So are children. Your way of education will never fully satisfy your children. What you can do is to satisfy her as much as possible without hurting her. Due to the influence of external unchangeable factors such as family environment and parents' personality, the education methods for children are also different. Everyone accused Yi Nengjing of being too melodramatic. However, in essence, two imperfect children have given them enough sense of security and love. Maybe she has been changing her education mode, but we haven't noticed it.

Without a perfect person, there is naturally no perfect mother.

Finally, there is no perfect person in this world, and naturally there is no perfect mother. People always say that a mother teaches her children well, but if the children live in a completely different family, it is not necessarily good to adopt the same education method. Just as everyone is studying in the same classroom, the gap between people is still obvious.

Therefore, we can't point fingers at any mother, what we have to do is to be ourselves. What do you think of Yi Nengjing's words?