A few days ago, I added a self-disciplined WeChat group through a friend's introduction.
You need to pay some deposit to join the league. I paid the deposit according to the regulations.
Because I am a person who can't control myself and has no control.
So I often read some books on the Internet to restrain myself.
This self-disciplined WeChat group is also one of them.
Get up at 5: 30 every morning, then punch in for exercise, run and read the secretary's notes every day.
This kind of operation makes people look formal,
I feel that if I follow this way in the future, I can go to the top.
The deposit is to reward those who insist at the end of the month. If they don't insist, the deposit will be deducted.
On March 1, I joined the group with great interest and paid the deposit.
The next day, punch in carefully according to the group rules.
Every day, I also send all kinds of self-disciplined pictures in my circle of friends.
There is a video of running before dawn one day, a video of taking pictures with a book at night, and a video of carefully extracting good words and sentences.
After a week of persistence, I gradually found that I actually have no spirit every time I do these things.
I like running, but I don't like running before dawn.
I like reading, but when I am depressed and sleepy, I don't like reading all the time.
I like being busy, but I don't like aimless and aimless life.
I just realized that I don't like doing this at all.
This is a disguised form of self-discipline, referred to as pseudo-self-discipline.
Pseudo-self-discipline means:
It is pseudo-self-discipline that causes inner anxiety due to external factors, thus driving self-restraint behavior with little effect in a short time.
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Some people, in order to lose weight, don't eat dinner for three meals, only eat fruit to lose weight. How can they lose weight effectively without eating enough carbohydrates?
Some people, in order to improve their grades, get up early and get greedy for the dark, get tired in class and stay up late, but their grades are not improved, but they are tired to death.
It seems that we have done a lot and sent friends to comfort ourselves.
In fact, there is no progress at all, but the lifestyle is irregular.
I am a sleepy person. I can't do my work well without enough sleep.
I usually get up at 7: 30, and now I get up until 5: 30.
I think this is pure self-abuse,
Now I just want to get enough sleep,
Enthusiasm for work is extremely high,
Have a clear goal every day, accomplish it seriously and have a correct attitude.
You don't need to show it to anyone, just do what you want.
The reference of self-discipline is oneself, which is more progressive than the past. Self-discipline based on real subjective will, self-value orientation and aesthetic tendency has more lasting endurance.
Our self-discipline is not to let a lot of rules and regulations bind ourselves.
Instead, use self-disciplined actions to create an orderly time to become a better self.
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Italian painter Leonardo da Vinci unswervingly practiced drawing circles to make Mona Lisa smile.
British physicist Newton studied physics and put forward Newton's law of motion.
Edison was not afraid of failure. After thousands of attempts, he finally invented the light bulb.
Tang Xuanzang learned the scriptures in the Western Heaven, and eighty-one scriptures were rare.
Self-discipline never does what others want to do.
But I am willing to pay time for the work and things I love.
Time never speaks, but answers all questions; Time never speaks, but it bears witness to all sincerity.
When there is no harvest, you need hard work and self-discipline, because beauty is behind.