I think everyone knows the truth, that is, don't make an impulsive decision.
There are cases, please analyze them.
Xiaoxue and Xiaojing are good friends. They also work in the same company.
But once, they broke up because of a little thing.
It is said that it is so.
Xiao Jing's cooperative store has been doing activities for several months and wants to return it. The treatment given by the company here is: if it does not affect the secondary sales, it can be returned, but it must be returned to Xiaojing's home address. But Xiao Jing doesn't want to return it to the store because it will affect her commission.
Xiaoxue said Xiao Jing on this matter: You can't be too selfish, just think of yourself, not the company.
Perhaps in the process of speaking, the tone was a bit heavy, and Xiao Jing suddenly became angry and shouted: I quit.
Then I packed my things and left the company.
Shall we analyze Xiao Jing's operation?
In fact, from our neighbor's point of view, if she gives up her job for such a trivial matter, she will eventually suffer.
The situation at that time was frightening. Some people who eat melons bet behind their backs that Xiao Jing can stay at home for a few days before coming to work.
MengMeng said, I bet she will stay at home for at least one day.
Chef: She will come tomorrow.
MengMeng: OK, bet on breakfast.
Chef: It's a deal.
MengMeng: No problem.
As a result, Xiao Jing came to work the next day. In her words, she still lost to reality, and she didn't want to give up the data she worked hard for.
In fact, it is not easy for a person with a typical red personality like Xiao Jing to manage emotions, and emotions come and go quickly.
Many times, people under the eaves, do not get wet, but have to bow their heads, do not bow out of the eaves, but get wet.
The choice now is not a forced choice, but an optimal choice under the balance.
There is only one kind of heroism in the world, and that is to see the essence of life and still love it.
So when we are angry, we must try to leave the scene first to calm ourselves down, and don't make any decisions impulsively, because the decisions made at this time must not be what we want to express.