Which do you think loves you more, desperately buying you food, because you are fat and love you more, or because you are fat and love you more every day, urging you to lose weight?
Everyone has his own love, and he is not afraid that you are fat, but that you are too thin and beautiful to be taken away by others, so he will support you for life. I hope you always keep in good shape and take it out with great face. Of course, the former is mostly people who like you, and the latter is mostly people you like. Personally, I think you will have a good life with the former, but life will not be wonderful. There may be many contradictions with the latter, most of you will be sad, but you will forgive him again and again. I seldom meet happily, but I just want to be with him.