"An excellent person like me should have lived a brilliant life, but how come more than 20 years have passed and he is still floating in the sea of people."

Although the lyrics are short, they have poked the tears of countless people.

Everyone once dreamed that when they grew up, they would be high-spirited and brave, and the world was at our feet; After reading Qian Fan, I realized that most of my life is neither thrilling nor ups and downs. I am just an ordinary person among thousands of people.

Some people say that life is a process of constantly recognizing that you are an ordinary person.

After experiencing the vicissitudes of life and accepting the polishing of the world, I understand more and more that plain is the normal state of life and ordinary is the destination of most people.

Pretentiousness is a kind of naivety, and a person's maturity begins with accepting the ordinary.

I've seen some things behind the scenes.

Only in this way can we know more about our commonness.

They are all scholars who are full of enthusiasm and reprimand Fang Qiu, dreaming of showing their talents one day. Later, after seeing the bigger world, they realized that there are very few extraordinary people, and we are probably just one of them.

The first season of "Stimulus Offer" became an instant hit, causing a hot discussion on the whole network, and most people exclaimed that they were stimulated.

In the program, eight interns gathered in a top law firm in Shanghai to compete for the offer of two law firms within one month.

These eight people, in addition to the orthodox five schools and four departments, are students from Beihang University, Shanghai International Studies University and Dalian Maritime University, including returnees, female doctors who graduated from Peking University in 65,438+09, world Chinese debating champion and Chinese poetry conference contestant.

Not only the academic qualifications are dazzling, the experience is amazing, and the performance is even more shameful.

Praise the tutor, most people have never heard of such words as "Lan Tingyu" and "Da Du Yuan Bo".

In a project, top students He Yunchen and Li Haoyuan partner to meet the parties. Although it is a competitive relationship, it pays more attention to the spirit of cooperation, has a clear division of labor and a clear organization, and finally achieves each other.

Excellent business, excellent character, it is simply a "mortal roller."

It is no wonder that netizens are amazed at the "fairy fight" and are also annoyed: why are peers so powerful? Comparatively speaking, I am a basket case!

Someone exclaimed: I entered the workplace with the dream of being a molecule. As a result, many years later, I became a member of the denominator, and I didn't know it yet.

Look at this world:

Some people are pretentious when they are born in famous schools, and look down on colleagues and bosses;

Some people lie on their past achievements and brag and stop;

Some people take face value as capital and lie in the comfort zone to hypnotize themselves.

I don't know. It's still a long way from being truly excellent.

Yes, I have seen the lack of true strong friends, and I also realize that I was complacent at the beginning, but I am like a frog in the well, deceiving myself. Only when you have seen the bigger world can you truly feel that you are really just ordinary.

Only by accepting the ordinary can we go our own way.

A person's maturity is to believe in the Excellence of others and face up to his own shortcomings.

Know the responsibility and concern in your heart

Is more willing to be ordinary.

Wang Guozhen said: Maybe we will always be ordinary, ordinary and peaceful.

Indeed, ordinary people also have their own hopes and ways of living, which can contribute to the happiness and beauty of live high.

I have a classmate who has been a "child of others' family" since childhood. He visited key high schools and universities along the way. After graduation, he entered his favorite company. He is outstanding in strength and valued by the leaders. Seeing a bright future, he will rise to the top.

But since I got married, especially when I had children, I obviously felt that her pace slowed down. What she talks about most is no longer career planning and ability improvement, but raising children and taking care of the family.

In particular, once caught up with the company's post adjustment, the leader arranged for her to go abroad for one year and get a promotion when she came back. Many people tried for this opportunity, but she refused.

We are all puzzled, but unfortunately for her, she is firm. She said: "Of course, I also hope my career can be in by going up one flight of stairs, but my work can't be separated from me, but my family really can't be separated from me! My husband has been working in other places. If he leaves again, there will be no one at home to take care of him. He can't go for the sake of children and the elderly! "

Looking at her, I realized how touching and brave the word willingly is.

When I was young, I always felt that I was the most important and always enjoyed the contribution of others. At that moment, we will realize our responsibility and be willing to make concessions for it. This is maturity.

It is the happiness of ordinary people and the responsibility of adults to live up to their responsibilities and concerns with their own choices and efforts. Who can say that this ordinary choice is not great and this happy state is not a kind of happiness?

necessities of life

This is a long love story.

San Mao said: "Love can last only if it is implemented in such small things as dressing, eating, counting money and sleeping."

The days of rice, oil and salt are more fireworks, and the plain life is more real.

There is a movie called Love Call Transfer. In middle age, the hero of Zaler Xu didn't want to endure the daily family chores and aesthetic fatigue, so he asked his wife for a divorce and got a magic mobile phone that could bring his ideal lover to him.

So, twelve women with different personalities but different charms came to Zaler Xu's side and started a thrilling or crazy love story with them. But:

Innocent Zaler Xu felt * * * and the lack of language;

Sexy and enchanting, Zaler Xu feels that he can't control it;

Intellectuals and dignity, Zaler Xu felt that he was not interested;

……

After experiencing various styles of love, what Zaler Xu got was not the expected happiness, but deeper confusion and heartfelt regret.

However, it is too late to regret. His ex-wife has remarried and enjoys blandness and warmth with her current husband. Zhajiang noodles, that bowl had bored him to death before, and it used to taste amazing, so he couldn't eat any more.

At this point, he finally understood the meaning of the theme song: "short is always romantic, long is always dissatisfied" and "stirring for the most beautiful and ordinary".

It is the day itself that flows forever, and love is more delicious when immersed in daily necessities.

Temporary romance is easy to get, but long-term companionship is the ultimate marriage romance.

Writer Ma De said: What really promotes love is not intense love, but trivial time.

Qian Fan read everything.

Only know that ordinary is not the answer to a beautiful life.

After watching a video, a netizen shared his scene of picking up his children from school. The child said happily that there is good news and bad news. The good news is that he is no longer the last but the second. The bad news is that he failed in the exam.

In the video, the girl is not ashamed of her ranking at all, her eyes are shining with black oil and her face is filled with naive smiles. Mother also responded gently and softly, without any anger or blame.

The interaction between mother and daughter is very infectious, and netizens have expressed their feelings: "Parents and children have a good mentality, and happiness is the most important!"

However, many times, we all lose ourselves in comparison and forget the true meaning of life.

Most of us will eventually become one of the sentient beings, so why not relax and have fun?

When I got lost, I walked to the crossroads and saw the bustling crowd and all kinds of people around me, and the footsteps kept on;

When you are in a bad mood, go to the vegetable market and listen to the shouts of vendors, bustling voices and fireworks.

Enjoy the natural scenery when you are in a bad mood. There are flowers in spring, moons in autumn, cool breeze in summer, snow in winter and eternal seasons.

Ordinary efforts, serious relaxation, beauty and fear of time are enough to comfort people.

Zhou said: "Everything in the world is ordinary and will eventually return to ordinary, and its value should be measured by ordinary life. Greatness, excitement and success are nothing. If you really live an ordinary life, life is complete. "

Born ordinary, try your best to be yourself, you won't regret it, and you will be able to enjoy the happiness that years have given you.

Everyone, I wish you peace and joy.

About the author: Yangliu, a fat melon, is a post-85 treasure mother who loves words.