Second, maybe she still wants to get married and have children. Someone once suggested that she adopt one. But she insists that if the child is born by herself, the love she longs for is a lifetime, and she always hopes to have a happy family. She hopes that her children will not be born in a single-parent family like her. As for why no one forced her to treat the disease, who is qualified to force it? She fell ill in 1999, and it was not made public until 2003, during which only a few old friends knew that she was ill.
Even Ma Mei didn't know about it until shortly before it went public. Who can force her? She postponed treatment and went to Japan to celebrate Masahiko Kondo's birthday. Her agent and friends advised her to go to Japan after she recovered. But who stopped her? There is a genetic history of cancer in her family. Cervical cancer is not directly inherited, but is inherited by oncogenes. Sister's sister Mei Aifang also died of cervical cancer. Sister Ai Fang had an operation when she first found out, but she died. Before she died, she was swollen and in great pain. Sister Ai Fang always asked for euthanasia.
It seems that the sister was found out in 1999, but she kept it a secret. She is afraid that after the operation, she will be like Sister Ai Fang. At first, she chose Chinese medicine treatment until September 2003. She said her condition was improving, but it was only to appease her fans. For example, at her birthday party on October 5th, 65438/KLOC-0, fans asked her how she was doing, and she also said that she was getting better and would recover soon.
And then it gets worse? Friends died one after another (Tan in 2002, Brother in 2003, Little Black Ke Shouliang in 2003, 65438+February 9, only 20 days away from my sister). On the one hand, when her brother just died, she also said in a radio interview that her brother's death was a great blow to her. When they were sick in 2002, both of them kept secrets from each other. Although she knew his brother was ill, she didn't know what disease he had. Later, SARS raged. As the president of Hong Kong Artists Association, she organized artists to hold a charity evening at 1: 99, calling on people to fight against SARS.
Later, in order to go to Japan to celebrate Masahiko Kondo's birthday, the treatment was postponed for two months.
/kloc-in October, I shot a slimming advertisement in Osaka, Japan. At that time, the temperature was only a few degrees and it was raining lightly. My sister got up at three in the morning and stood barefoot on the ground in low-cut clothes.
November. I just finished my second chemotherapy and went on a talk show. On the show, my sister was inarticulate and a little shaky, and she kept saying that she was in good health, but it was too cold.
Then a week later, there will be eight classic golden songs concerts.
After the concert, I was supposed to shoot House of Flying Daggers in the Mainland. Body double in the body has been found in my sister, but her condition suddenly worsened.
At that time, my sister's concert in Beijing in the spring of 2004 (to celebrate the 25th anniversary of her debut) had been approved, but she didn't persist until then.