"The Ferry Man" wrote: "Time keeps moving forward, there is no end, only the intersection. The ferryman crossed you and left me. The people who went ashore went their separate ways and ended every relationship that had to be ended. "

A person's life begins and ends. The end is a new beginning; The beginning is actually the end of the last thing.

In this life, there are joys and sorrows. All pain is the beginning of happiness; Behind all happy lives, there is pain.

Life is impermanent If you must pursue happiness, you are doomed to suffer all your life.

There are too many things you don't want, but they fall on you and you can't get rid of them. However, you can't get what you want, even if you try, there is no way.

Life is bitter, only "self-reliance". When you take the painful thing as a common thing and the painful process as the only way to go, then your life is destined to be bright.

02

A miserable life is the most valuable life.

Some people say, "If you want to abolish a person, let him be idle and always be idle."

If a person is too idle, he will get sick, his mind will be rigid, his knowledge will be poor, and his work will be abandoned. I'm too free. I eat and drink every day. I don't want to sleep until late in the morning. I don't care what time I sleep at night.

In fact, "being idle" is the most painful thing and the most meaningless thing.

Smart people don't let themselves do nothing, or learn something from an idle life, and then suddenly rise up and make themselves busy.

The Tang Priest in the Journey to the West, with three disciples, went through eighty-one hardships to learn from the scriptures. Therefore, his life was great and praised by people.

Just think, if the Tang Priest has the ability to fly from the earth in the sky, and soon he will get the true scriptures, then the "true scriptures" will be worthless.

The way to learn from the scriptures itself is a kind of practice. If it is too smooth, then practice will not succeed. Only by living like an ascetic can one have an epiphany.

It is not so much that the Tang Priest took his disciples to learn from the scriptures as that they "wrote" a scripture together with their actions. They are still practicing hard.

The process of learning from the scriptures is the process of "understanding the scriptures". The suffering along the way is their greatness.

Life is a process, isn't it also a process of "learning from the scriptures"? People who have experienced great hardships have "great joy" later, their hearts have become stronger and their entrepreneurial experience has become rich.

All the pain adds up to a stepping stone. The more things you experience, the greater a person is, and the more you can understand the true meaning of life.

03

"The Ferryman" also wrote: "If fate is a lonely river, who will be your soul ferryman?"

It is better to ask for help than to ask for help; Reading is not as good as finding it yourself; Wan Li Road is not as good as reading.

When you feel pain, you ask yourself "how to get through it".

People who can really get through it are often helpless. He gave up the idea of relying on others and forced himself to go forward alone.

People are doomed to be lonely in this life. You can get to a place with the help of others, but only you know where your soul is and only you can "move" it.

Love needs "self-crossing" Love, few people are smooth sailing, most people have experienced hardships. The person you love doesn't love you; The person you love becomes the lover of others; People who love you have families; People who love you fall in love with others in the blink of an eye, but all kinds of love are not perfect, but they always have to experience some.

Love the wrong person, turn around. Turning around is the process of self-crossing. It is often painful to turn around, even in tears. But then, you met someone who really loved you, and you got out of the shadow of lovelorn. Your love is getting sweeter and sweeter.

Work needs to be "self-sufficient" In the workplace, every time you enter a new unit, your colleagues will tell you some working methods, but they will not tell you how to innovate, nor will they tell you many details.

In the future, it's up to you what to do. Only by finding a method that suits you can you improve your work efficiency and become an elite in the workplace.

Families need to "fend for themselves". Where to buy a house and who to live with may seem "involuntary", but the final choice is still in your hands.

If your family, not you, chose the location of your home, then you should change your mentality and take the initiative to accept your family's choice. Choice and acceptance are self-help. If you don't want to choose and accept the arrangement of your family, you will live an unhappy life and feel that your family is unhappy.

Entrepreneurship requires "self-reliance". Maybe you often meet entrepreneurial mentors, but they won't guarantee your success.

If the entrepreneurial tutor's words come true, why didn't he become a rich man himself? But you have to make money by "educating others"?

Find a "unique" method by yourself, and you will be half successful. Keep working hard and you will really succeed.

A person's life is the alternation of "failure and success", and the pain of failure must be experienced before success. Learn to fend for yourself and find a way to rise, and you will really succeed.

04

Remember, there is hope when you are alive.

How should people spend this life? What is the meaning of life?

When you think about these problems, you will find that life is a process and has no meaning. In other words, living is meaningful.

As the saying goes, "Life is better than death."

And why, some people have become "walking dead"? Some people live to be what they want to be?

In fact, "self-crossing" itself is painful, and it is a painful process, just like a long night. But don't be afraid, no matter how long the night is, it will usher in the dawn.

The novel "How Steel was Tempered" wrote: "A man's life should be spent like this: when he looks back, he will not regret wasting his time, nor will he be ashamed of being mediocre."

If you feel pain, just bite the bullet and stick to it. Don't complain to anyone, society or family. Stick to the end and the pain will pass.

Always tell yourself that everything will pass and everything is the best arrangement.

Author: coarse grains in cloth.

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