Last night, Lao Wang chatted with a friend. He said that he had gone through many detours, and now he thinks that many detours can be avoided ... He went on to say that anyone who doesn't want to take detours must have a good teacher to guide him, so that he can walk less or take fewer detours!
However, some people hold a negative attitude, saying that many people pretend to consult now, which not only does not solve the problem, but increases anxiety. Lao Wang thinks that when the forest is big, there are all kinds of birds. You can't deny the existence of the sun with a little darkness. Real masters solve the problem of professional coaches by finding, testing and trusting.
You may ask, if you are a master, why do you need a coach? Don't forget, the better people are, the more they need guidance and advice from others; The more successful people are, the more they will reject other people's guidance and suggestions.
A few days ago, Lao Wang chatted with a corporate executive. He said that although he has achieved VP, there are still many things that he can't handle, which need reference and suggestions from the outside world. Some people will doubt the ability of workplace executives, and even question whether workplace executives deserve the corresponding salary! If you want to forcibly improve the ability of workplace executives, then you must have misunderstandings, misunderstandings about executives, misunderstandings about the workplace, and misunderstandings about human nature. In the workplace, there are advances and retreats, trade-offs, compromises and balances.
Lao Wang will talk about how career guidance can help you and what problems it will help you solve:
1, help you sort out your goals according to your experience, potential and personal characteristics. You may think that your goals are very clear and don't need guidance from others. But don't forget, not all people have clear goals like you. It can be said that most people have no clear goals. Even if some people have clear goals, they may eventually play a good hand by constantly adjusting their goals in the process of implementation. Don't forget, ancient emperors had teachers, not to mention you?
When you think you are excellent, you are behind the times; When you feel that you still have a lot of room for improvement, it means that you are motivated enough. Therefore, when you meet a good professional coach, your road will be more stable and farther.
2. When you meet a fork, the professional coach will give you some advice, and you should discuss the operability of the advice with the coach according to your actual situation. What people are most afraid of is that, like an old cow, they will only pull the car with their heads down instead of looking up at the road, and finally find themselves pulling the car to the slaughterhouse.
This is the case with the brand executives of a big Internet company in Beijing. Tsinghua joined this big factory after graduation and has been the brand owner of the company. It is a pity that he has been busy with his work and neglected his concern for the surrounding environment. Recently, due to the change of her direct leadership, her work will also change accordingly. This change is to leave your job and change to another company.
If people in the workplace can assess the situation and see the current situation clearly, there may be no airborne leader, and she is likely to sit directly in the leadership position. Therefore, people, no matter how good, should always look up at the road. Just looking up at the road is not enough. You need someone to give you advice and let you know if you are on the right path. So sometimes you need a professional coach to help you see the problem clearly.
3. Professional coaches can give you confidence, encouragement and applause. When we do things, we will encounter many things that we already think are right, but we dare not make up our minds to do them, and finally miss the opportunity. If you have a professional coach, he will give you the confidence to do things and let you choose to do them without hesitation. Even if you encounter setbacks in the process, they will give you opinions and suggestions. And encouragement and applause for you. Many times, the applause you get in the workplace may not be real applause, but the applause you get from the coach is encouragement and courage, and it will also give you motivation to do things better.
However, Lao Wang believes that not everyone can become a professional coach. To be a coach, you need at least these things:
1, some have rich experience in the workplace and have had successful experience. It is best to be a person who has started a career, especially a corporate executive. Both their knowledge and experience are good references. Focus: Professional coaches also need to have successful experience. If they have no successful experience, they will not feel the ups and downs before success and the thinking behind success. Therefore, it is important to have a successful experience.
2. Be well-read and have the ability to think deeply. Only extensive reading can gain more knowledge, and only those who can think deeply can see the essence of the problem.
It is best to master some skills, especially some special skills, in order to really help you. Skills are the premise of human existence. If a person doesn't have a skill and a good background, he won't achieve anything at all. Without successful people, it is impossible to become a professional coach.
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Not all coaches are good coaches.
All you need to do is ask for directions and find your own professional coach!