There are many people who don't support the mother's cosmetic surgery for her daughter, but I think cosmetic surgery is really popular now, and many people will do it because everyone has the right to pursue beauty. If they feel that they are not satisfied with their faces, they can actually make themselves more perfect through some minor adjustments.
14-year-old girls have relatively full physical and mental development. I think this English mother may be eager to see her daughter become beautiful, so she will ask her to have plastic surgery.
I think if the plastic surgery is successful, the child will definitely become confident after becoming beautiful. If the child is ugly, then the students around her will definitely look down on her and will not make friends with her, but if she is good-looking, naturally many people are willing to make friends with her.
I don't think this English mother has gone too far, but everyone has different values, and some people may pay more attention to the outside. Some people may think that appearance is not so important, but they should cultivate their inner self and let themselves radiate beauty from the inside out.
However, I think this society is really a society that pays more attention to appearance. You are not good-looking, and others are not interested in understanding your inner self. So I think plastic surgery is also ok, because plastic surgery can make you better.