Women who give up on themselves, are too worldly and lack passion age quickly. Only a few women, no matter how many years of hardships and frustrations they have experienced, never give up the beauty in their hearts, pay attention to their mental outlook, have firm beliefs, are full of hope and passion, work hard, have goals and pursuits, and insist on sports reading every day to make themselves better and more beautiful from the inside out. For example, in 66 years, my child rebelled and broke my heart. I have never been to a beauty salon, nor have I used high-end cosmetics and skin care products. It doesn't cost much to maintain, but it's very self-disciplined, and it's better and younger than when I was young, so that my peers will never forget it.

I belong to the kind that gets more and more beautiful after giving birth.

Let me talk about my experience! I am the mother of two sons, Dabao 1 1 years old and Bao Xiao is 7 years old. From the outside, I look like a man in his thirties, but actually I am in my early forties. I brought up both children by myself, with little help from the elderly. I also take care of my husband's career. In fact, the most favorable time is this time in the month.

Because the mood will fluctuate greatly after giving birth, I tell myself that I am not disturbed except eating or resting. Pay special attention to your eyes, have a good rest and don't look at your mobile phone often. Mobile phones do great harm to maternal eyes, so don't shed tears. I have been nearsighted since the sixth grade of primary school, and I have been more than 300 degrees. After I gave birth to Dabao, I was nearsighted for 20 years, and my vision actually returned to normal. From then on, I got rid of the title of four-eyed sister, and it is much more convenient to make up! Besides having a good rest, diet is also very important. Because nutrition is very important for breastfeeding, don't go on a diet for fear of obesity. With sufficient nutrition, milk will be sufficient. In fact, you are breast-feeding, your body is consuming fat, and you won't gain weight at all. The next month, I recovered my previous figure and put on my old jeans. If you want to be healthy, you must keep up with high protein, and breastfeeding is very important.

Talk about the list and timetable of confinement. I have six meals a day. The first meal: I have an eggnog at 6 am; The second meal: chicken soup noodles at 9 o'clock; The third meal: 12 at noon, two meats, one soup and a bowl of rice; The fourth meal: at three o'clock in the afternoon, eggnog; The fifth meal: at six o'clock in the evening, two meats, one soup and one bowl of rice; The sixth meal: 12 order egg wine or noodles, a small amount, breast-fed, and plenty of milk. Have a good meal, son. Stop it. You are in a good mood! Every day, children sleep after eating and eat after waking up, which makes the next month very easy.

I think it has something to do with family atmosphere and mentality. A good family atmosphere and mentality will make you feel cared for and happy. If a family clinks glasses or is cold and cheerless every day, it is naturally prone to depression.

Why do some women who have given birth look young and beautiful, while others look old? The key is that a person's life has good living habits, conforms to scientific eating habits, and everything that is not messy is your business. Their daily life is well regulated, they maintain a good mentality and psychological balance, keep their distance and produce beauty, which has the function of health care. Mainly light, easy to absorb and digest. Suitable for nutrition food input. Increase supplementary nutrition, enhance immunity, and improve their resistance level. These people are the most beautiful women, and they are the most plump and energetic, thus generating attraction. The most beautiful flower.

After the age of twenty-five, women's physical function begins to deteriorate, and if they don't take care of their children after giving birth, they will definitely get old quickly. There is also the relationship between age and physique. Young people recover quickly, while older women are hard to recover, so you must give birth while you are young. Economic conditions are very important. If the economic conditions are good, you can ask professionals to make a diet and exercise plan for yourself during pregnancy. After giving birth, you will not only be taken care of by your family, but also by professionals. Reasonable diet, moderate exercise, cheerful mood and adequate sleep are all important factors of youth. However, economically poor women are worried about their life during pregnancy and postpartum, because of the great economic pressure, they can't rest peacefully after childbirth. Depression, lack of sleep, temper tantrums, and improper handling of the relationship between husband and wife and mother-in-law are also inevitable factors to accelerate aging.

There are several turning points in a woman's life, and having children is definitely one of them. Old people often say that after giving birth to children and having a good confinement, many girls' diseases will be brought out. Therefore, people in China pay special attention to confinement. They can't wash their hair, brush their teeth in the shower or blow their hair. One or two months after confinement, feeling is one of the signs that a woman changes from a girl to a woman.

Remember to wake up in the middle of the night to nurse your baby. It was painful, but since then, I have established a close relationship with my child, which is much deeper than the child's stomach. It was at that time that I felt the responsibility and pressure on my shoulders.

When I take maternity leave, it is definitely my most sloppy time. I don't have to go out, and of course, I can't dress up. My clothes smell like children. At the end of the day, my hair is often very long and my skirt is covered with stains.

However, after the maternity leave, this situation never happened again. In the workplace, you must pay attention to your appearance, including makeup and clothing, and of course your figure. So I will choose to go to fitness exercise to restore my postpartum body.

Now, children go to junior high school because they pay attention to maintenance. When we are away from home, the age gap between us is very small in the eyes of others. In fact, women in the workplace will not only pay attention to the beauty of appearance, but also care about the richness of connotation. Reading more meaningful books can definitely calm the mind. Those books that have been read will become their own temperament, make them look younger, thus affecting their mentality and forming a virtuous circle.

Women who have given birth to children, even if they stay at home for a long time and stay at home as full-time mothers, should be close to working mothers, cultivate their hobbies, expand their circle of friends and make their world wider and wider. In this way, they will inevitably become younger and younger.

I am most afraid of being with my children all day and losing myself. Over time, I lost contact with the world outside my children and became a marginal person. When children grow up at that moment, they find themselves nothing but taking care of them. At that time, their mentality collapsed and it was too late to regret it.

Because some women treat themselves as nannies after giving birth, and some women change from princesses to queens after giving birth. A woman who is a mother will have problems, and sometimes she will accidentally give all her love to her children. Maternal love can be great, but not too selfless. Remember to leave some love for yourself, take care of your children and take care of yourself.

Personal feeling state depends on one's psychological orientation.

I am a mother with a second child. To tell you the truth, I was very anxious when I was pregnant. I can't sleep well, I can't eat well, and I still think about my husband's affair every day ... I feel suspicious. I think the first part is hormonal instability during pregnancy, and the second part is my fat body and unconfident heart. After giving birth, 160 kg really collapsed.

I take my children to see my untidiness every day, just like the old ladies in the countryside [covering their faces]. I don't like to buy clothes, don't wear makeup, and sometimes I don't go out for more than a month ... I am so anxious and doubt my life [I want to be quiet].

Determined to lose weight, we must adjust our state. First, you must control your weight. I lost 30 pounds in half a year. After you lost weight, you have been studying what you want to do, and suddenly you got pregnant unexpectedly. ...

In this way, Dabao was pregnant with Bauer at the age of/kloc-0. A mother like me should have a deep understanding. Dabao pesters you every day and plays with Bauer with a big belly. To tell the truth, so many people felt depressed [tearful] at that time. Peeing at night during pregnancy is really painful! It is conceivable that their body and mind are rapidly consuming, and their self-confidence and inexplicable sadness will follow. ...

Staying up late makes us look haggard,

I gave birth to two babies in three years and didn't sleep a wink. I'm really tired and feel much older. However, women must learn to decompress themselves, get out of the role of housewives and change their mentality. For example, if they find their hobbies, they should take time out to make up for them. Even if no one is looking at you, you should draw it yourself. This is a psychological change, people are in a happy mood and in a good mental state.

Although I take time to go shopping with my two babies every day now, even if I don't buy them, I want to go out and take some beautiful photos and send them to my circle of friends. As long as it is the food I want to eat, even if it is troublesome, I will cook it for myself, because I don't want to make do with my life, because I am too tired!

If the meaning of your life is to live for others, it's sad, isn't it?

If you want to be like other young mothers, you must adjust yourself and find your goals and the value of your future life.

I hope the men who read this article will feel sorry for the wives who gave birth to your children. They are really not easy. How tolerant and caring [yeah]

I will answer this question, my personal opinion!

When women get married and have children, some do it more beautifully, while others do it more uglily as they get older. Why is this? The answer is related to their living environment and the people they choose!

I am getting old quickly because I have a sleeping baby. Wake up three times a night and go to sleep at 1 1.00 every day. 12.00, 3.00, 5.00. Take a nap for one hour during the day. Get up at 8: 30 in the morning) It's hard for me to fall asleep every time I put him to sleep. Therefore, long-term lack of sleep, coupled with the intensity of work during the day. I am getting old quickly. The child is two and a half years old. I wonder when he can have a good sleep.