1. Stay away from inferiority complex
Inferiority makes people suffer, inferiority makes people lazy, and inferiority makes people shrink back.
Self-confidence makes people happy, self-confidence makes people work hard, and self-confidence makes people move forward.
Everyone is eager for self-confidence and is eager to stay away from the ivory tower of inferiority. Teachers should help students find the reasons for their inferiority complex and find the road to self-confidence and happiness. Let students learn to appreciate themselves, fully affirm themselves, and support a confident blue sky for students.
Self-confidence is the wing of success, and confident people can stand the test of difficulties and setbacks.
2. Suffer setbacks and exercise
Frustration makes life a compulsory course, the only way and the wealth of life. After setbacks, people will have strong wings and a bright future.
The English poet Shelley once said; If you cherish your feather very much and don't hurt it a little, then you will lose two wings and never fly in the air again.
In the face of setbacks, think about whether it brings you inconvenience or difficulty. When you find that the frustration that makes you angry and depressed is just an inconvenience, you will be more likely to take a positive attitude to face it.
Few successful people have experienced numerous setbacks and blows. Setbacks and blows are the only way to success. If you are experiencing setbacks, then you are also on your way to success. From the time when the French journalist Bodie could only blink his left eye to express right and wrong, to the time when he and the reporter overcame difficulties and blinked more than 200,000 times to finish the book Divers and Butterflies, it cannot but show that one is not demanding conditions, but trying to create conditions. In the face of such a spirit, even if there is only one eye left, it still can't stop people from going to success, and it still can't overcome the powerful life. Therefore, when you are not recognized by others and frustrated everywhere in your life, don't complain that others are Bole, and you will feel sorry for your talent if you don't know your swift horse. Instead, encourage yourself to become a real crown jewel, and of course someone will appreciate you.
Do you want setbacks to scare off what you want to do, or do you want setbacks to be the driving force to push you forward? The choice is in your own hands. It is inevitable to give up after encountering setbacks. But the more I want to give up, the more I have to persist. From McKee's three fatal blows, he can still give up, cherish his life and strive for success. And what are the minor setbacks in our lives?
When we have no ability to change difficulties and obstacles to movement. There is no need to feel depressed and depressed. If you choose to look at obstacles or difficulties from different angles, you will find the value they bring you.
Anyone who is at a disadvantage will have more and deeper life experiences. In the face of great setbacks and blows, life seems to be shrouded in clouds. But as long as you have hope, your future life will be full of sunshine again.
Some setbacks and difficulties cannot be changed by people. Don't complain at this time, accept them and use them to sharpen your mind. These setbacks and difficulties will make you live a different life.
Frustration is a compulsory course in life, and this course teaches us. Being denied the right to take this course means never graduating.
In the face of setbacks, should we cheer up, or should we avoid the situation of setbacks and find a more suitable road for ourselves? As the wise man said, both of them are right in their respective applicable situations. However, you can't just stick to it and don't change it frequently. You need to have both and find the best balance.
optimistic
I remember a scholar vividly compared life: a person's life is like a baby's first cry. Although bitter, it is brand-new and tender. No matter what setbacks and hardships you encounter, nothing can beat you as long as you don't give up on yourself.
Optimism is an open-minded performance, the purpose of good health, the foundation of interpersonal communication, the guarantee of smooth work and the magic weapon to avoid setbacks.
Looking at the world with optimistic eyes, the world is infinitely beautiful and full of hope, and our life is full of sunshine.
Our optimism and pessimism always change with what happens to us, while some people go beyond this obsession with foreign things. It is higher wisdom not to rejoice in things, but to grieve for yourself.
Everyone has a lot of troubles and disappointments in his life. However, as long as we cherish time and all kinds of things around us, danger and adversity will eventually pass. Remember, optimism is a beacon of hope, which can guide you from danger to success, give you a new life and new hope, and support your ideal.
There is no despair in the world, only desperate people. How admirable and inspiring are those who can still pursue the flowers of hope in despair.
Many times, we can't choose the circumstances of life, but we can choose a strong self-esteem attitude; We can't choose what life gives us, but we can choose what life rewards us positively and optimistically. One question after another, it's like knitting a sweater, very tired, and finally becomes a masterpiece. This is the living truth, endless knot, and this is also fun.
In life, we should keep working hard with a positive attitude, because we are all champions. For the strong, adversity will breed the seeds of equality and can overcome any difficulties.