Long text! Be careful! Muxi shop

Time flies. Three days have passed since the Mu Chen biscuit incident. Cookies give me warm memories. Let's make a brief summary.

Angel baby+breastfeeding+flatulence+love to play in bed+self-sleep+full sleep.

! Cookie is an angel baby. She doesn't like crying Even if she cried, she would hum. She never cries with all her strength. I am so lucky. A friend asked me how to train. I can only say that she was born. I never trained him. He born this way. Personally, I always thought that I was so lucky because I kept a good mood and a peaceful mind during my pregnancy. Because of my peace of mind, the baby is also very quiet.

Cookies are eaten and fell asleep in the month, eaten when they wake up, and fell asleep after playing for a while, basically not crying. I also sleep with myself at night, which is very smooth. A month and a half later, I suddenly began to cough, and my throat was full of phlegm, but I didn't catch a cold. It took me half a month to see a doctor. I went to several hospitals and took expectorant drugs, but it didn't get better. In the end, the old doctor diagnosed congenital laryngitis because the throat and other organs were underdeveloped. It won't happen naturally when it is developed. Although the doctor still suggested continuing to take medicine to resolve phlegm, I took the initiative to stop taking the medicine. Anyway, it was useless. No, I happened to see the baby swimming pool and thought I could exercise, so I got a card and started swimming. After swimming for 2 or 3 times, the cough improved obviously. After waiting for 7 or 8 times, I don't know whether my organs are well developed or swimming is helpful, but there is no harm. Fortunately, Biscuit loves swimming and never hums.

! Breastfeeding, flat chest before pregnancy, always worried about no milk. Sure enough, I stopped breastfeeding on the first day after giving birth, and my nipples were still short and flat. I asked the nursing staff in the hospital to help me find a way. They taught me to pull my own nipples. Oh, my mother, my ward kept howling that day, as if I had killed a pig. Here, what I want to say is that after the cookie was born in the morning, she still slept all night. Family members and nurses argued that the baby would be hungry and that I would feed milk powder without milk. Although the baby has been reminded that he can go without eating for three days, the family has been arguing, and the nurse also said that he should breastfeed and defecate. I gave in and spoon-fed 20ml that night. Then the family proudly said, I said the baby was hungry. Look, I ate so much. Later, the more I thought about it, the more wrong it became. I insist on breastfeeding. The nurse also said that I had milk in my breasts. I can't let my children eat milk powder. The next day, I insisted that the baby be breastfed. I pulled my nipples sideways in the hospital bed and sucked cookies. I'm not very good at it because I have a needle. I'm tired every time, but I just won't let go. Fortunately, I sucked a few times and started to come out. Later, I bought a manual breast pump. Then comb along the nipple direction with your fingertips, then bend the upper body, shake the breast up and down, then suck it for the baby, and then suck it with a breast pump. There is also insisting on drinking "young mother's honey milk tea" to replenish qi and blood and pass the breast. There will be more milk in a few days, which is enough for the baby to eat. From 50ml to 90ml, then to 120ml, and now to 200ml, I started to store milk in milk storage bags before I was born.

I always breastfeed every three hours, but on the day when the biscuit was born 10, I still had a high fever due to breast problems (it should be mastitis). I suddenly felt cold all over that day, but I recovered after a while and never took it to heart. I took my temperature at night, 39.4 degrees, and went to the hospital immediately. I checked the internal medicine, surgery, obstetrics and gynecology, and had a B-ultrasound. I didn't find the cause of the fever (at that time, both surgery and obstetrics and gynecology examined the breasts and said that they were open and soft, so it shouldn't be mastitis), so I had to take antipyretic drugs and go home first. In the middle of the night, I suddenly felt cold and speechless. I quickly drank antipyretic and hot water, emptied my breasts after getting better, and slept again, and I was fine. The only time I had a fever this month was like this. To prevent mastitis, you must empty your breasts in time and keep them soft at all times. If there is a lump, be sure to let the baby suck it. Generally, when there is a lump, I always suck it with a breast pump first, and then suck it for the baby. The baby's suction is large, and the baby who can't use the breast pump will pass as soon as it is sucked, so there has never been a problem with the breast.

Don't believe the story of why these breast pumps return milk. As long as you suck regularly, you will get milk. Cookies are always fed by parents and bottles from about 15 days, parents feed them during the day and bottles feed them at night. So far, there is no problem of nipple confusion.

! Flatulence. After the full moon, the biscuits began to flatulence, which showed that the body twisted frequently and the whole body was red because of exertion. When I put it down, my whole body twisted, and I woke up in the middle of the night with great strength. The solution is to burp after dinner, rub your stomach half an hour later, hug the plane, and lie prone when playing. Eating probiotics in biscuits has no effect. Although I watched him feel uncomfortable every day, I still insisted on using these massage methods, which eased after a week, but I also developed the habit of rubbing my stomach to find cookies. Since then, I have never had flatulence or colic. If you defecate once every 2-3 days, the highest record is 7 days, not smelly. However, because the baby with pure breast milk has the saying of saving the stomach, and the odor emitted every time is soft golden yellow, so don't worry, as long as it stinks, don't be nervous.

! I like playing in bed, but I don't like hugging. Although everyone says that you can't hug your baby more, it will spoil your baby, but I feel that your baby is insecure at birth. When he cried, he was not cautious at all. The so-called hugging habit means that the baby hugs when he doesn't cry, which is the reason why the baby develops the bad habit of hugging and sleeping. Babies born within three months feel insecure. The correct way should be to coax him immediately when he cries and put him down when he doesn't cry. All the cookies in my house are like this, so that I think cookies are relatively safe treasures. They can lie in bed and play by themselves. I don't want to play for a long time when I'm free, but I'm happy to play on the bed. Being able to play by himself laid the foundation for him to sleep by himself.

! Sleep by yourself 42 days ago, I always let cookies eat and sleep, and do whatever I want. After 42 days, I began to eat, play and sleep for three hours. However, because I follow this process too strictly, I often make myself very tired. Later, I tried to follow this process, but I still insisted on eating every three hours. Everyone is concerned about sleeping. As soon as I saw the cookie yawning in a daze, I immediately carried him to my room and began to sleep. I bought him a pacifier after the biscuit was full moon. During these two months, I basically squinted when I ate and held the pacifier. At this time, I just need to put my ass on the bed before pressing my hands to fall asleep. I must insist that the baby fall asleep in bed, not in my arms, so that I can fall asleep in five minutes and I can leave. But after half a month, it became very difficult to hug and sleep, and slowly I refused to take the pacifier. It usually takes another 40 minutes to sleep. At this time, I haven't found the law of his sleep, but I still insist on cuddling whenever I feel sleepy, so I am particularly tired.

When I was 2 months old, I went out for two days without cookies. I gave them to my parents. When I came back, I was surprised to find that cookies could sleep by themselves! I didn't know until I asked. My dad plays with cookies. When he was tired of playing, my dad walked away, ignoring the cookies and not putting him to bed. As a result, he fell asleep as soon as he lay down and didn't cry. So when I came back, I seized the opportunity. He stopped playing with him when he was sleepy. After stuffing him with a nipple, he hid out of sight. He really ate the pacifier and fell asleep by himself. From that day on, I knew that cookies would not fall asleep immediately after the sleepy signal appeared. He needed to calm down for a while, and then he fell asleep. I used to be so anxious that I could fall asleep immediately when I felt sleepy. I slept quickly when I was young, but I didn't fall asleep so easily when I was old. When the biscuits can be eaten by himself, he eats and sleeps, and no one needs to hold him. Here is the order of eating-playing-sleeping again. I insist on giving cookies every three hours, then I will coax him to play after eating, and then he will sleep by himself when he is tired. Therefore, the order of eating-playing-sleeping and eating on time are the prerequisites for autonomous sleep.

! About the whole sleep, my whole sleep here means from 12 afternoon to 6 am. Cookies were not regularly fed at 5 o'clock, 8 o'clock, 1 1 point, 14 o'clock, 17 o'clock, 20 o'clock and 23 o'clock until almost three months ago. Feeding at night is not enough because if he swims in the afternoon, the feeding time will be adjusted and then he will eat every two hours, but anyway. I try to put him to sleep between 8: 30 and 9: 00 every night. If I can't, I won't be forced. It's usually around 1 1: 30 before going to bed at night. I'll feed the biscuits again. If the biscuits fall asleep, I will feed them silly milk. When I wake up, I will try to sleep directly, let him eat more and have a good sleep. Cookies can sleep until 6 o'clock in the morning for about 50 days, and then they will close their eyes and eat their hands without crying. When they wake me up, I will feed him again. At this time, he didn't eat much, so he fell asleep soon, and then woke up at 8 o'clock to eat. This time, he will eat more when he wakes up and start feeding for three hours. But cookies don't sleep so well every day. They don't eat much. After three months, they only eat about 100 per meal. When he can eat more than 65,438+020, he can sleep well that night, so the baby eats more during the day and eats enough milk one day, so he will sleep better at night. Now the biscuit for three months is 5.89 kg and 62.4 cm, which is a little low, because he eats less, but it is healthy and not very light.

Others: I am really happy and reluctant to look at the photos of cookies from birth to now, from ugly kittens to round little guys now. I grew up once. Every time he learns a new skill, he loses his first time. I cherish every first time. Fortunately, I have been taking photos and videos since he was born and uploading them to the album. Looking back, it's always comforting and warm.

You can't eat indiscriminately, and you can't wear beautiful clothes ... Let's talk slowly! !

When there is too much milk, the breast pad can't stop it. When washing clothes, you will get wet if you squeeze them on your chest. Sometimes there are other male family members at home, and you don't know it yet. Super embarrassing ... so I usually get up after squatting to see if my chest is wet!

When I am pregnant, I always think that I can wear beautiful clothes after giving birth. The result was completely wrong. Clothes should still be loose. I can't wear sequins for fear of scratching my child. I can't wear a dress, and it's not convenient to feed. .......

Beloved spicy crayfish, ice cream in summer, (for fear that children will get angry and have diarrhea) can only be kept away, and colds can only be resisted without taking medicine (you can't breastfeed after eating).

Going out for more than 4 hours is basically an appointment, and the embarrassment of breastfeeding in public can only be realized by yourself. If you meet a few people who are not sensible, you will also come to see the child's expression when breastfeeding. .....

When there is not much milk, my mother-in-law sends all kinds of soup to your mouth, full of love. Wow, you can only drink with your eyes closed.

Not everyone will lose their hair during lactation, but I am deeply involved. When I got up in the morning, my pillow was covered with hair, and I still didn't wake up from my nightmare. I dare not wash my hair at all. After breastfeeding for ten months, I lost more than half of my hair. Now I am weaned and feel much better!

Breastfeeding is a million dollars, but in order to give children more natural nutrition, I am willing!

The biggest fear is having a baby, afraid of being told that you are so thin, that the baby has enough to eat, and so on. It seems that if you are not enough, you are not a qualified mother. Fortunately, your baby can eat, and the appetite is not big.

Others, such as the inconvenience of going out to breastfeed, I feel fine. Just bring a scarf or baby blanket to cover it and feed it twice.

What about galactorrhea? Fortunately, I bought a breast pad, which I think is necessary for sisters to breastfeed. Generally, when the baby eats, we have lactation reflex, because the baby sucks and the other side rushes, making the wet clothes uncomfortable and unsightly.

Also, I think it is necessary for the baby not to touch it when he is nursing. When he was a child, he thought it wouldn't be difficult to quit at the age of two or three.

When weaning, I saw many people need medicine, massage and acupuncture. When weaning, suck it up every day when it is very bloated. I may smoke three times today, only twice tomorrow, and then slowly disappear. It doesn't matter if you keep it in the end, it won't be blocked, and the body will slowly absorb it.

What troubles did Ma Bao encounter during breastfeeding? Don't worry, Ma Bao, just because milk doesn't increase doesn't mean there isn't enough milk. Maybe you belong to the constitution of breastfeeding at any time. In fact, the breast is a little blocked to feel pain.

The baby is six months old and still nursing. I encountered the following problems:

1. chapped nipple. At first, the baby was not good at sucking, and the nipple was in the wrong position, which led to chapped. Every time the baby sucks, it seems to be scratched by a knife, and the pain is unbearable. The correct posture is to let the baby hold the whole areola.

2. Increased milk seriously leads to mastitis. Every time the baby eats milk, the clothes on the other side must be soaked. Sometimes the whole breast is as hard as stone. Once it was so serious that mastitis had a fever of 40 that the hospital dared not take intravenous drip. The baby's rations are all on me. How dare you take anti-inflammatory drugs? I finally found a prolactin, and the fever went down as soon as my breast passed, so if mothers have mastitis and fever, don't forget to listen to the doctor.

3. It's embarrassing to go out and feed. I have a thin face. I can pull my clothes outside to expose my chest to feed, but I can't! ! ! So every time I go out, I only feed formula milk. Or you can buy a nursing towel and cover it when feeding.

4. Insufficient milk. Yes! Yes, it's a lack of milk. Earlier, it was said that milk rose seriously, and here it was said that milk was insufficient. Do you think I'm contradictory? No, the amount of milk is not enough, but the amount of milk decreased after I went to work, and the two sides of the breast pump added up to 60 ml. I desperately drink all kinds of prolactin soup, crucian carp soup, fishtail soybean soup and trotter soup. I drink several bowls every day, drink more water every three hours, drink more water and milk more. Sure enough, chasing milk succeeded!

In my opinion, in Gang Po, the problems encountered during breastfeeding are really one after another. Babies can't breastfeed from birth, have no milk, and don't know how to open milk. He has learned the single breastfeeding posture for a long time. Then worry about why there is no milk? Why is there not much milk? Is the mammary duct blocked? Well, it's hard to get milk, and then what if there is too much milk? How to deliver milk? There are endless problems.

First of all, no matter whether your milk goes up or not, there will always be people who think you have no milk and try their best to let you eat it. This is the normal state of nursing mothers. Just relax。 You are not alone. You are the epitome of millions of mothers. Come on! ヾ( *)o

1.6 months ago, when the child's height and weight reached the standard, he ate well and slept well, and began to grow teeth, indicating that he developed well and there was no shortage of milk. However, there is a situation that needs attention. There is a kind of mother who has a special constitution and a lot of milk, but the milk is not nutritious and can't be found by herself. If the child is shorter and thinner than the children of the same age, and the development is slow, please go to the hospital's child care department in time to check the reasons.

After 2.6 months, the baby is prone to iron deficiency. Pay attention to iron supplementation, add fortified iron rice flour, add chopped eggs and animal liver after 8 months, and try not to eat any additives such as salt and snacks for one year.

After 7 months, there is still milk increase, but it is not as frequent as before. Family members who have increased milk also say that you don't have milk every day. It is normal to eat pig's trotters every day. After all, everyone is inexperienced and the first child is too nervous. Later, they were weaned at 1 year and 1 month respectively. After weaning, they did not eat milk powder for a whole month. A month later, they gradually increased the amount of milk from 30 ml to 30 ml. I can't get enough milk, but I don't like to drink milk powder. Now I'm 4 years old. I don't drink milk powder, but only a little pure milk. I can only try to make him eat foods with high calcium content every day, such as eggs, shrimp, pork liver, beef, pork and fish. The old mother is also heartbroken. Her height and weight are up to standard, but she is still thin. I don't know how to gain some weight, and I feel distressed.

In the second month, I had a high fever because of inflammation of wisdom teeth. I couldn't feed my child after three days of infusion bottles, and then I spilled milk. My clothes often leak wet, so it is difficult to wash off the strong milk smell. I can't eat this or that either, for fear of passing it on to my children through milk. In short, there will be all kinds of things, but fortunately they have survived.

Many people are in the same situation as you. They lack self-confidence and their families are full of words. Finally, they always add milk powder and milk powder, and then there is really insufficient breast milk.

So, why do you have to raise milk to have milk? If breast-feeding is very frequent, the milk yield will certainly not rise so fast. If you really don't breastfeed for hours and don't feel up, then you really don't have a bottom. So when feeding, you can observe whether the baby swallows, swallowing one by one, it must be a lot of milk. If you suck it several times before swallowing it, it means that it is difficult for him to eat milk. It may be that he can't eat it, or he can't eat it.

What do you mean, the third is that you can't eat? Feeding posture should be correct. This is actually very important. The baby's mouth should hold the areola in order to feed easily. If it only holds the nipple, it can't eat milk, and the nipple is easy to get hurt. If it hurts, it will be super painful.

Fourth, if only breast-feeding, observe the baby's urine volume and growth curve, feed more, feed more, feed more, and the milk volume will gradually come up. If the baby is older, there is no need to worry about whether there is enough milk. It is more difficult to chase milk. Add some milk powder, the baby is relaxed, and you are relaxed.

Fifth, in fact, breastfeeding mothers are very hard. Children can't go far, eat what they like, dye beautiful hair styles or make beautiful nails.

However, holding the child tightly in your arms is also the warmth that only lactating mothers can feel, and it is a very different experience. When you want to wean yourself, you will find that the previous sufferings are nothing. Just hold him like this all your life, and you can't bear to leave your arms like this.

Tell me about my experience:

Dabao, the most annoying thing is that she only eats bottles and recognizes them instead of her mother. The hospital didn't ask for bottles before, so we prepared bottles. Then caesarean section, during which Dabao is hungry, will be fed with a bottle first. Later, when there was milk, I brought her over to eat. But as soon as she picked it up and fed it to her, she cried and tampered with it. After trying for a long time, she still refused to eat it, so she squeezed it out with a breast pump. Because caesarean section is afraid of touching the wound, it can only be given up temporarily. I will try every day, try to feed with a bottle for a while, and don't eat. Later, she came home from the hospital, took time to train her to breastfeed, and bought a nipple tractor and nipple protector, but she just didn't eat. So I had to give up pro-feeding and continue to feed with bottle. There are advantages and disadvantages anyway. The biggest drawback is that you clap your hands happily when you see the bottle, but you don't feel anything when you see me and don't stick to me. But it's better when you grow up. I had better kiss my mother.

Bauer, the most troublesome thing is that you fell asleep while eating milk, and the hypnotic effect is excessive. When Erbao was born, the hospital was not allowed to bring bottles. When you are hungry, the hospital has liquid milk, which can be fed with a spoon. Even so, Bauer refused to breastfeed in the first few days. Later, I fed it on my side, and then it was fed on my side every time. I can always eat by myself. But a new problem has come. I went to bed after breastfeeding for a few minutes, feeling that I didn't take a few bites at all. So I'm worried that she won't have enough to eat. Most of the time, she will bottle-feed and ration regularly. But after all, it's kissing. Bauer is very attractive to me. She wakes up at night and will go back to sleep when she sees me. If she can't see me, she will cry. In contrast, kissing seems to be really closer to the baby.

Now that I think about it, breastfeeding is really difficult, especially after maternity leave, which is squeezed out every day. However, that is also the most intimate period with the baby. For the sake of children, everything is worth it!

First of all, I'm a novice, Ma Bao. Let me share my experience.

1, I thought I would have milk after giving birth, but the result was wrong. There is no milk three days before giving birth, and milk must be started at this time. I spent 400 yuan to hire a prolactin, who will massage your breasts every day and then teach you what to pay attention to these days, and whether there is milk or not, I must let my baby suck more to stimulate breast milk production.

I used to think it's easy for children to breastfeed, but I can give it to them when they are hungry. That was not the case. Novice mothers will have nipple rupture, which is as painful as giving birth to a baby. When the baby sucks, the stomach will contract and the nipple will be sucked by the baby. If it is smoking, he will be told to continue smoking. If he bleeds, he will still smoke. This process is worse than death.

3, if you don't milk too much, it is easy to get mastitis. I just, the baby can't suck it out, it hurts when it sucks, and then it gets mastitis. It is necessary to squeeze out excess milk, otherwise you will go to the hospital for surgery if it is serious. It was painful. I put hot water on it and kept squeezing it. If I can't squeeze it out, I'll call a breast nurse for a massage, and then I'll let the baby suck it, so I won't feel any pain.

4, the nipple is short and not easy to suck, you can put a nipple on the nipple to let the baby suck more, so that the baby can eat milk conveniently.

5. How easy it is for milk to wet clothes. As a novice mother, I don't know I didn't prepare a chest pad, so I was all wet. Therefore, you must prepare an anti-galactorrhea pad to facilitate going out.

6. Don't eat indiscriminately during lactation, otherwise the baby will have diarrhea easily.