However, the ideal is full and the reality is very skinny. There are many lovers who have parted ways, some of them are in love at first, and some of them are sincerely saved, but when it comes to saying goodbye, nothing can be left. However, the most terrible thing is that one party is not satisfied in the marriage and begins to wonder about strange bedfellows. On the other hand, some people are unaware of marital or emotional infidelity, while others just turn a blind eye and say that they are helpless to their children.
I hate cheating people since I was a child, because there are so many ways to end feelings and stop hurting. When I was 10 years old, my neighbor's husband abused his wife and took his lover to fool around at home. I really don't know what to tolerate such a marriage, but I didn't know why someone tolerated it until I grew up. In this world, not everyone can really relax and dare to let go at the first time, because there are so many factors to give up that one party doesn't even know what he did wrong and what to do.
Things between husband and wife are not well evaluated by outsiders. Although I have seen people who live a happy life after cheating, I have also seen many people feel depressed, helpless and miserable. So I know that sometimes, the cheating partner hurts the other partner who doesn't know anything about the marriage. Some people cheat because the marriage has existed in name only, some people are dissatisfied, or it is not suitable to tell outsiders. I still can't agree with this choice and practice, but after watching these marriage ethics dramas, I have a lot of rational thinking. Marriage is common, and so are people.
1. "Tianyan"
The lines of this play and the description of women's mentality are too subtle. On the surface, it is the infidelity of housewives. In fact, what we are really talking about is what women need most in marriage. Taking an affair as the first love changed from a bad ending to a sigh for the first time. Because the marriage relationship in the whole drama is on the verge of frequent breakdown, we can't hate the two heroines a little, but even a beautified affair is inevitable. Men are always less persistent than women, and I can't tell why. I've seen the movie version, but it's a pity that the reunion of the primary school group was only a dog blood fantasy in the end.
2. My terrible wife
A nearly perfect wife attracts her husband's disgust because of her meticulous care. The husband fell in love with the chef in the coffee shop, and the chef encouraged him to kill his wife directly. On the day when the plan was ready to be implemented, his wife was suspected of being kidnapped. The subsequent experience of secretly enjoying her husband and lover made them terrified ... The play is full of energy, and how the heroine did it in the face of her husband's infidelity, only you can't think of it, and she can't do it without it. What's the point of keeping such a husband? You really have to watch the drama to know that a contradictory marriage is not a question of love, but a question of human nature.
3. Unpleasant fruit
A large-scale ethical drama that keeps your chin falling off! Everyone in the whole play has slept with people they know, and the collapse of people is so thorough that it is simply a contest between exotic flowers and exotic flowers. At first, I didn't believe in this surreal drama, but seeing so much anxiety and betrayal around me, as well as all kinds of unexpected things passed down from mouth to mouth, made me believe that art often comes from reality, and reality is mostly higher than art, no matter whether you are married or not, will you continue to entangle with your predecessor or continue to be fascinated after you get married? Presumably, the "relationship" between people is a compulsory course for our whole life!
This week, my wife is going to cheat.
This drama is a remake of the Japanese TV series of the same name, which tells a series of real thoughts and choices made by the husband after facing the fact that his wife cheated. The narrative perspective of the whole drama is from the perspective of the cheater. It not only puts forward that the "injured party" should be asked to reflect on the difficulty of marriage from the perspective of understanding, but also talks from this idea. If you are still in love and reluctant to lose, the emotional foundation can still solve many problems, and it may be difficult to return to the place where the dream began, but mutual reflection can make people's relationship full of opportunities and leave room. Even if it falls apart, you don't have to go to Bao Qiang and Ma Rong.
5. the way to the airport
This drama almost openly discusses whether married men and women can have proper relationship's forward-looking drama, but the answer is obviously no, because two groups of families with problems are selected, so I think the focus of this drama is not to discuss marriage ethics, but to discuss marriage spirit. Do you need a complete home or a home full of happiness and love? So remember to be honest with your heart even if you get married. Your marriage can be like a stagnant pool, but your heart must not. If you think it's wrong, you must end it. The only thing worth discussing is how to tell your partner.
6. Secret meetings
The most affectionate extramarital affair, my friends and I almost cried. The confession of the 20-year-old youth to the 42-year-old woman made her unable to understand, let alone turn a blind eye. If you knew this was the wrong road from the beginning, why did you fall into it for sure? In life, there are emotional villains and rational villains fighting in their minds every day. I think the only explanation is that how successful a woman is, she often pursues sincerity and needs love and understanding more than most men in her attitude towards feelings. What is good love? It's not that you will always be 18 years old, but that you can think of yourself at 18 years old even when you are 48 years old.
7. Dr. Foster
Also known as the derailed lover, the rhythm is very good, just 5 episodes, but a marriage is vividly interpreted. There is no denying that there is a difference between the western view of marriage and our eastern cultural tradition, which seems to be rooted in their way of thinking and cultural soil. In addition, with the improvement of foreign economic development, many couples would rather accept real mistakes than compromise in a pile of lies. This play reveals how important understanding is, and it also profoundly shows the problems of both men and women. In the face of such an unpleasant reality, can you treat others and yourself objectively? This is too real and cruel.
8. Extramarital affairs
An American drama with wonderful narrative skills, marriage has evolved into Rashomon. Conceptually, it can be said that it completely exceeds the needs carried by TV dramas. This drama, whether it is a sense of lens, exquisite picture language, and freely switched segmented perspectives, is remarkable and perfectly answers everyone's doubts-as the saying goes, when a marriage fails, both parties are often responsible, and there is no absolute fault. When both sides regard each other as the wrong party, nothing is more in line with the weakness of human nature than this way of expounding extramarital affairs. The drama really put a lot of effort into the details of the characters and psychological portrayal.
9. Fierce wife
This drama not only successfully created a strong mother who resolutely bid farewell to the derailed man, but also blew the horn to let the original match show her fighting spirit, fight back at Xiaosan in a reasonable and legal way, and let her and her children find happiness again. This is a wonderful life! Live sharp! The third party is hateful. Sometimes what they do makes people itch, but not every woman will punish San Xiao with radical and barbaric actions. This is to save herself, so they often realize that it is better to send love rat away than to be reconciled to a dry marriage, and don't cry if you miss the sun!
10. residence
Needless to say, this play is too famous and bold. Although it is not a real marriage ethics drama, because of its appearance, it has realized a challenge of artistic creation to society. It makes people want to talk because of realism, and it also makes people want to stop because of controversial values. Let many practical problems float from the water surface to the water surface, and talk about the irreconcilable contradiction between feelings and marriage from another angle. It is a social ethics drama with the characteristics of the turning period we are in, and it also tells us that we have to pay the price no matter what we choose, and life is the reward for what we have lost.
This 10 drama is not to destroy the three views, to make excuses for cheating and how it can't be discovered after cheating, nor to let people choose to be tolerant of cheating. On the contrary, through this 10 story, I hope that we can all attach importance to communication, always try to care about each other, pay attention to our own hearts, and deeply understand that marriage is a mature emotion or a lifestyle choice, and it is not sacred and great. However, you need a sense of responsibility and love. You need to be honest about how much you value it. I hope you can choose a good couple before marriage, admit the weakness and imperfection of human nature, and face the regret and imperfection in marriage.
This 10 drama made me understand that in marriage, it is common to face temptations and differences. If you only talk about interests or desires in marriage, it is better to think clearly from the beginning whether you want to get married, not for your parents, not for your age, not for the eyes of unrelated people.
You can end your love, and you don't know what will happen in the future, but if you use money and conditions to escape from it at the beginning, the harm to others and yourself will be less. Even if you don't love, please tell each other seriously and choose your own happiness again. Remember, respecting others is also respecting yourself!
I believe that most people's marriage is still a lifetime, but life is too unpredictable, especially people's hearts. Of course, it is best to be together for life, but no matter who changes his mind in marriage, please don't deceive yourself or each other. If you just enjoy some furtive pleasure, then you won't regret the price you paid and the tears you shed in the future.
I hope you can be honest with yourself, your spouse and your children, and don't always do something disgusting and disappointing for this and that every day. When you meet a good partner, please cherish it. Don't worry if you haven't met it yet. Once you are not completely willing to accept the reality, don't say anything easily. Whether men or women, only when they feel that holding someone's hand can raise their mouths can they satisfy the surprise and happiness of pursuing Happyness.