First, read more books and broaden your horizons. For women, reading more books is really nourishing themselves. Because only a woman with a strong heart and no emptiness can resist the outside voice and make herself more calm in the face of divorce. When people are not confused, they will soon find their own life runway.
Second, don't consider yourself a loser after divorce. The reason why many women are decadent after divorce is that they feel that their divorce is too failure, and then they blame themselves for not getting out there. This is completely unnecessary. You know, each of us is an independent individual, and the disintegration of marriage is definitely not one person's fault, just because you two have no fate to go hand in hand.
Third, find a time to travel by yourself. Traveling to a place you really want to go can definitely relax yourself. The worst thing is to stay at home every day. Going out to meet different people and not indulging in sadness can help you get out of the shadow of divorce. The more people you meet, the more transparent you are. Only when you leave the familiar place can you have time to think.
Therefore, to get out of the shadow after divorce, on the one hand, it takes time to fade away, on the other hand, it is necessary to constantly increase your knowledge in order to let go faster. You should also reflect on what mistakes you made in your last relationship, whether your personality is flawed, and whether you will solve problems in your marriage. These are all things that need reflection. So as not to commit it again when entering the next marriage.