Besides, since you are married, it is legal to have children, and your family will strongly support you. How can you not have children for your own selfishness?
Maybe you two just got married, and you don't have much money or any savings. Their careers are not very stable, and they are not ready to be parents at all. At this time, their wives suddenly became pregnant and could not give their children a bright future. Moreover, one party has to resign to take care of the children, and the two people have not reached an agreement.
But I think, if the money is gone, you can earn it again, and if the job is gone, you can find it again. It's just that the child has gone and will never come back. No matter how sad you are, it won't help.
I got pregnant unexpectedly. I just married my husband for a month, but I didn't expect to be a parent so soon. At that time, my career was booming, my mother-in-law died of illness, and no one helped me with my children.
But I decided to have the baby. Because of threatened abortion, I chose to quit my job and have a baby at home. After the baby was born, my husband went to work in other places for a week, and no one took care of me for confinement.
I take care of the baby alone, cook and wash diapers, and the whole person seems to be isolated from the world. People are also haggard a lot, and their figure has gained a circle, becoming a middle-aged woman who is a bit like a tiger.
After my daughter went to kindergarten, I immediately found a job and began to lose weight to make myself beautiful. Through my efforts, now I not only have a lovely daughter, but also have my own career and a happy life.
So I think, if you get pregnant unexpectedly in your marriage, you must give birth to the child. After seeing the child's laughter, you will find that all the efforts are worth it.