After all, this husband is unreliable. I'm afraid that if you go on like this, you will not only be rejected, but also be abandoned. If you continue like this, you may be a bloated abandoned wife.
On the contrary, you can take care of the baby during the day after breastfeeding, and give the baby to your husband and mother-in-law after dinner when your husband comes back from work at night. You can go to the gym to exercise and keep fit.
First, a confident mother is good for you and your baby. Second, let her husband experience the hardships of bringing a baby. Third, change your image in your husband's mind.
In fact, this kind of husband is really bad, even if it is a joke, it will have more than twice the real composition.
I have no idea how hard it is for women to have children, breast-feed and take care of them. To put it bluntly, I may be psychologically derailed. He can't see your efforts, but cares more about his own visual feelings.
Such people can't spend money casually. You must let him feel your hard work so that he can really understand.
You should tell him clearly that everyone has different physique. Some people have more milk, some people have less milk, some people are thin when breastfeeding, and some people have to eat more to have milk, so they are not thin but fat.
Tell him to stop joking about your figure, it will hurt your self-esteem. If he jokes again, he will turn against you. Just say I want to say that you are short every day. Are you happy? Let him put himself in others' shoes.
Usually let him take care of the children at home instead of doing nothing. He thinks it's easy and easy to take care of children.
Besides, joking also has some real feelings. You ask him if he hates you for being fat. If he hates you, he will give his children milk powder and spend money on postpartum rehabilitation institutions to lose weight. If he is not willing to spend money, don't talk all day.