I have made several cases recently, which are quite touching to share with you. I hope parents, friends and friends can learn something and gain something.

In case one, a sixth-grade primary school boy, Xiaowen (a pseudonym), was numb and glassy-eyed, and asked his name and age, but his mother answered instead. The difficulty is that from the fourth grade of primary school, I transferred from one school to another until the sixth grade. Finally, I left school at home and could not communicate with outsiders normally. According to my mother, I only talk to my mother at home, sometimes I am silent, and sometimes I yell at my mother when I am in a hurry and don't let my mother go to work. Dad got angry and scolded Xiaowen because he didn't go to school. Xiaowen also responded with indifference, so he came to ask for help. After two consultations, I can briefly describe my reading experience.

Case 2: Xiaojie (a pseudonym), a junior two boy, has poor academic performance and doesn't communicate with outsiders. He looks sad every day and doesn't look at people seriously. After dropping out of school last year, he continued to study in our class. After more than a year of counseling, Lu Yu now takes the initiative to shout "Hello teacher!" Laughed in class, too.

Case 3: Xiao Qi (a pseudonym), a senior one girl, is introverted, does not communicate with outsiders and has excellent academic performance. I suddenly fainted during school, woke up and held my breath, unable to go to school normally. Seek medical advice everywhere, no physical illness, come to my office for consultation. After four consultations, I can go back to school intermittently.

There are many cases and the situation is very similar. From these cases, I am thinking: What took away children's happiness? Are these children introverted? Or is there something wrong with our education?

Although there are difficulties in life, we may encounter many bumps, but we should not be intimidated by difficulties, let alone feel sorry for ourselves. But to be strong in life, bring this strong energy, optimism and love to children, and make them confident, strong, brave and happy! So how can we make children happy often?

1, mothers should pay attention to cultivating their children's experience of happiness. In every little thing, a mother can ask her child how she feels. Are you happy? Why? For example, when you go out to play, ask your child, "Do you like going out to play? Are you happy? " In addition, mothers should often tell their children about their experiences, for example, "I'm glad you can help my mother with the housework."

2. Let children have the opportunity to enjoy "unrestricted" happiness. After all, children are children. They need to use their childlike imagination, have time to have snowball fights and watch ants move. These activities of exploring the world at their own pace can bring them real happiness. Some things are boring for adults, but children like them very much. Children are unhappy when they get something that adults think children will like. Some mothers buy expensive toys for their children, but the children would rather play with water, mud, hide-and-seek and play house. So mothers should not always impose their likes and dislikes on their children, but let them do what they like.

3, don't be difficult for children. Children are children after all, and their abilities in all aspects are limited. There are always some shortcomings. Mothers don't pursue perfection too much. If mothers always express dissatisfaction and criticism to their children, it will hurt their self-esteem and make them lose confidence. 4. Show your children your opportunities. Every child has his own unique talents and skills, which can bring them great happiness. "Mom, shall I tell you a story?" At this time, even if you are cooking in the kitchen, you should satisfy his wishes and give him a timely affirmation: "What you said is really great." You know, he will be happy to share this story he likes with you. Children's enthusiasm can be transformed into good self-esteem and self-confidence through your sharing and affirmation, and these qualities are the most precious to their happiness in life.

5. Teach children to adjust their mental state. Mothers can point out to their children that the future is always bright, so that children can find comfort in the environment of restoring their happy mood and actively adjust their mentality. People who are always happy are not people who are always in a good mood, but people who are particularly good at adjusting their mentality.

6. Maintain a happy and harmonious family life. Family harmony is also a major factor in cultivating children's happy personality. When I was young, children who grew up in a happy family environment will be more optimistic and cheerful when they grow up, full of enthusiasm and hope for life.