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A story about family morality
Liu, 55, is a courageous man, but he cried in front of his son twice. Once, my son was officially selected for the national team; Once, my son sent a gift.

April 18, 2004 was a sunny Sunday. Liu Xing rushed home and put a little thing in his father's hand.

Father is stupefied, ask, is this?

Yun Fei said, car keys, Tianjin FAW's new "Corolla", I'll drive you home!

Father said to him angrily, why do you have to buy it if you are not allowed to!

Yun Fei said, I hope, my son promised my father can't say, can't count!

When Yun Fei was 9 years old, he went to an amateur sports school to practice. In the evening, his father rode home with him. He rode his grandmother's new type 20 bicycle, but his father's old type 28 "flying pigeon" brought a "band" (except for ringing the bell everywhere). He said, when I grow up and earn money, I will buy you a new car!

Yun Fei has bought several bicycles for his father since he joined the professional team. On New Year's Eve of the Year of the Monkey, he said he would give his father a car. Father quickly said, never mind, I'm not too far from work, and I'm strong. I don't need it, so don't buy it! Yun Fei just made fun of his father. Do not be so selfish. You have a task to do. Take grandma and mom to play around when you are free. In order to stop this "gift" from their son, the parents tried their best. They know that their son's hard-earned money can't be spent, and the good time of playing football will last for ten years. Children should get married, start a family and do big things, and then choose a new career. There are many places to spend money. How can parents enjoy themselves? The "six reasons" they listed failed to convince their son, so they had to ask grandma She Taijun to leave the house. Yun Fei was brought up by his grandmother, and he listened to her most. Grandchildren "talked" in the house for less than half an hour, and grandma came out to report the good news: Don't worry, we agreed! My parents didn't expect that it was not my grandmother who persuaded my grandson, but her grandson's filial piety that touched my grandmother. She promised to keep a secret for Yun Fei and give her daughter and son-in-law a surprise.

Yun Fei felt his father's hands shaking. He said, forget it, don't say anything about it. You and your mother have spent more than 20 years on me. This car can't compare with your efforts. This is just a little gift from your son. Please accept it!

Every word of his son touched the heartstrings of his parents. When Liu saw his wife in tears, he couldn't help crying. He patted his son on the shoulder and shouted, Good son!

A: My son pinned his father's dream.

Hedong District is a famous "hometown of football" in Tianjin. It has trained many famous football players. Since childhood, my ideal is to be a football player. He was an excellent football player, but he was involved in the wave of "going to the countryside" during the Cultural Revolution. Back in the city, he became a worker and could only be a prospective fan. When he married his lover Wang Chunru, he was looking forward to having an eldest son. God bless, my son weighed 4.9 kilograms when he was born! I sensed the obstetrics and gynecology department of the hospital. His ideal must be realized in his son. He named his son "Yun Fei", hoping that his children would have "lofty aspirations" and win glory for their country. The first toy he bought for his son was a small green plastic football. My son rolled on the bed with the ball in his arms and was able to sit up. He gently threw the ball into the child's arms, and his son's two little hands actually hugged the ball and giggled beautifully. Learning to walk, he put his son's arm around his waist, let Xiao Yunfei play small football while walking, and his son chased the ball and kicked it. He was so tired that his back ached, so he begged his son to have a rest. His son had a good time and stopped crying ... It was so painful that he couldn't sleep for a night, and his heart was beautiful!

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2 Heroes and dutiful sons on the field-the family story of Liu and his parents.

Liu said that my father was my first coach. It was my father who made me fall in love with football and took me to the road of football.

1982, China hits the World Cup. Although Zuo Shusheng and Chen Jingang's "Golden Gate and Two Tigers" saved the day in the match with Saudi Arabia, they were still "calculated" and had to compete with New Zealand for a qualifying place. In the face of fierce Australians, the technical advantages of international players cannot be brought into play. In Liu's grief, I understood a truth. In order to fight against powerful countries, international players must have strong bodies. From that day on, he will spend three or four yuan to buy a piece of beef sauce after work every day and watch his sons eat it one by one. In the 1980s, his monthly income was only about 100 yuan. A piece of sauce beef a day, a month is also a big expense. In order to strengthen his son's health, he is unambiguous! Every day, every year, I bought it for more than ten years until Liu was selected into the national youth team and the national youth team. When I go home, my father wants to buy him a piece of beef with sauce. ...

A piece of sauce beef, love your son with your fist.

B: My father is a sparring partner.

His father's efforts were not in vain. Xiaoyun Phoebe is taller than her peers. He runs fast and reacts quickly. He was called by the football coach of the amateur sports school in the district to be a special gatekeeper and practiced after school every Monday and Thursday afternoon. Yun Fei was competitive since he was a child, and all the other children were picked up by his parents. He has been practicing on a small bike since he was nine years old. When Liu's factory gets off work at 4: 30 every day, he goes straight to the amateur sports school to see how the coach trains the children and write down the essentials and requirements one by one. On other days, he accompanied his son to practice in the open space by the sea. Father's requirements are stricter than coach's. For example, the coach does 20 dives in a group, but his father has to do 40 dives. Slack 10! Father and son often practice until six or seven in the evening. At that time, the whole family revolved around the "center" of Yun Fei. Dad's task is to practice sparring, grandma cooks and mom sews clothes at night. Other children practice twice a week, but Yun Fei practices six or seven times (plus Sunday exercises). Many things happen, and with the passage of time, Yun Fei has become outstanding.

However, children are children after all. Once, my father rushed to the river after work, but his son was nowhere to be seen, so he looked around. It turned out that my son was dragged by several classmates to play billiards. Liu was extremely annoyed at his son's "playing with things". Like an angry lion, he rushed up and punched and kicked his son. Yun Fei was frightened at that time, and he learned his father's "great" for the first time. ...

Touching the child's black and blue wound, the mother couldn't stop crying while applying mercurochrome. When her son fell asleep, she blamed her husband and said, "You can't hit the child so hard." Liu said, "If he is lazy, he will be overtaken by others. How can he become a talent? ! "He told his son this truth many times. Xiao Yunfei was puzzled, but his father's fierceness made him "never dare again". As long as he doesn't go to an amateur sports school for training, he will rush to the river to practice with his father on time after school. ...

Since then, as Yun Fei was selected for the National Youth Team and the National Youth Team, he finally understood his father's "good intentions". He said that his father only hit me once, but this time I will never forget it and benefit from it for life. Competition is cruel. If my father hadn't been so strict, maybe I would have been crazy, and there wouldn't be Liu today! Therefore, I cannot repay my father's kindness.

In fact, Liu regretted it after hitting his son. Looking at his son's pathetic appearance, he was in a panic of pain! He reflected on himself: it is a child's nature to love to play, but his "sparring" is too monotonous. So, he improved the method and inserted some "games", such as handstand with big head, walking with arms and competing with his son, so that the father and son could practice with great interest.

C: Father is a "friend"

The father has been his son's sparring partner for more than ten years, and they have become good "friends". Sometimes, without saying a lot, they can understand at a glance. The father told his son with his own actions: to practice the ball well, you must first be a good person. It is the hard work of coaches at all levels that has nurtured you, and the kindness of dripping water should be rewarded by the spring. Be such a person!

Growing up, whenever there was a game in Yun Fei, his father would try his best to watch it. Once playing a junior tournament, when he arrived at the stadium after work, the first half was almost over. Seeing that Yun Fei was not as energetic as before, he turned to look behind the goal. The referee blew his whistle and Yun Fei saw his father. It turned out that he was hit by the striker while saving the ball. Two front teeth were still alive, and his lips were broken and he was still oozing blood. Father said, tell the coach if it hurts badly. At the beginning of the second half, Yun Fei was in high spirits and made several beautiful saves, which made great contributions to the team's victory! Yun Fei told his father, if I say that the coach will definitely change, how can I play games? Father is both distressed and happy. Well, this boy has a bite!

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The Three Heroes in the Field and the Filial Son in the Field —— The Family Story of Liu and His Parents

Yun Fei has several stacks of videos at home, all of which are his game videos. Every time the game is broadcast live, my father not only videos, but also makes detailed game records, including: time, place, round, score, game results and so on. And I have memorized a thick book. After every game, Yun Fei always calls his father to "comment", because his father's "comment" is a unique vision, which often benefits Yun Fei a lot.

In 2004, China lost the World Cup, and Liu was the saddest. His efforts and dedication for more than 20 years are to see his son win glory for his country in the World Cup. Unexpectedly, alas ... this time, it was not the father who was doing his son's "ideological work", but the son who was "enlightening" his father. Yun Fei said with a smile, nothing, there are still 20 10 years! 30 is the golden age, and Zoff is still attending the World Cup at 40. No problem, you will be proud then!

The father's heart is warm, and the son not only grows up, but also matures. He felt very gratified.

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What touched my mother most was her love for nuances.

Like all mothers in the world, 54-year-old Wang Chunru loves her son Yun Fei deeply. She said that everything a mother did for her son was right, and there was nothing to say. However, as soon as Yun Fei mentioned her love for her parents and grandmother, she gushed and gloated.

A: What moved me most was filial piety to my grandmother.

In late August 2003, Yun Fei's grandmother suddenly felt upset in her stomach and went to the hospital for examination. It turned out to be terrible stomach cancer! Mother Wang Chunru is grandma's only daughter. Seeing the test results, her hands and feet were cold and dizzy with fear. She threw herself into her husband's arms ... when she woke up, she was crying. The husband tried his best to comfort him, but he had to hide his illness from the old man for some time. The couple lingered for a long time, controlled their sad mood, and then returned home, pretending nothing happened in front of the old man. In the middle of the night, the husband and wife wept silently in the room until dawn. They are honest people, and they are scared silly in the face of such a sinister illness. Which hospital do you go to for the elderly? Need an operation? Who will do it? They were so upset that they naturally thought of their son. Yun Fei is "training" with the national team in North America to prepare for the World Cup qualifiers. They are afraid to tell their son because his grandmother's illness will distract them and affect the game. Since joining the professional team, Yun Fei has called home every day. A few days later, he sensed something was wrong from the tone of his parents. After several inquiries, he didn't know that grandma was ill. When he returned to China on September 5, he hurried home to comfort his parents and said, Never mind, leave it all to me!

Yun Fei is definitely a "celebrity" in Tianjin. Tianjin Cancer Hospital, from the dean, director, experts to doctors and nurses, is very concerned about the news that Grandma Liu is ill. Yun Fei chose a high-grade ward with a single room for her grandmother, and asked an expert to operate on her. He said, give my grandmother the best medicine and do the most delicate surgery. Don't think about money, I'll take it all! He specifically asked for the operation to be arranged on a day when there was no competition. He wanted to stay in front of grandma's bed ... Grandma took her grandson's hand and said, Son, grandma has your help! The story of Yun Fei's filial piety to his grandmother was once a much-told story in the hospital.

Recalling the scene at that time, Yun Fei's mother was still moved to tears. She said, I am my mother's only daughter. Supposedly, it is my husband's duty to be filial to the elderly, and Yun Fei is the critical moment! He is doing his duty for us. This is what moved me most about children. Yesterday, he also called us to buy the best health care products and nutrients for grandma. Don't worry about money. He said that I was brought up by my grandmother and I couldn't stay with her every day. You and dad should take care of her more! Speaking of which, Yun Fei's mother has been crying.

After a long time, she said, really, as a mother, to have such a filial son, my life has not been in vain, he makes me feel particularly happy!

I will never forget to ask my mother for leave.

Yun Fei is a man with indomitable spirit, but he is often more careful than girls when it comes to loving his parents and grandma, since he was a child. There is one thing that my mother can't forget. 10 years old, he had a summer vacation. That day, at seven o'clock in the morning, it was already time for work. Why didn't my mother get up? He touched his mother's head with his little hand. It is not hot. Mom said it's okay. I'll be up in a minute. Actually, my mother can't get dizzy. At that time, factory attendance was very strict. If you don't take time off, you will miss a day, and even your salary and bonus will be deducted a lot. If it were now, a phone call would be solved, but at that time, a worker's family could not even afford a phone! Yun Fei said, nothing, I will ask for leave from the factory! After walking back and forth for more than ten kilometers and crossing several major intersections, my mother's heart was in my throat. 10-year-old Xiao rode his model 20 bike and came to the workshop of the factory to ask for leave for his mother. He was moved, and the masters in the workshop surrounded him and praised Xiao Yunfei. He also followed an aunt to the infirmary to get medicine for his mother ... Xiaoyun flew back, and the mother was holding her son, so she couldn't kiss him enough.

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Four chivalrous men in the field, filial piety in the field-Liu and his parents' family story

I love my mother because she loves me more.

Every time Yun Fei goes abroad to compete, she always brings back gifts for her mother, father and grandmother, ranging from clothes worn by her mother to bracelets, necklaces and rings. Yun Fei said that compared with my mother's love for me, I am far from doing this. I still often dream that my mother scrubbed and mended my clothes every day when I was a child.

The goalkeeper "fell" and dropped the ball to the ground countless times. A dress is worn out in a few days, especially the crotch, shoulders and elbows. At that time, there was no turf field, the river was loess, and the playground of amateur sports school was "mixed soil", which contained a lot of furnace ash and muck. When clothes are torn, they will "rot" and bleed. In order to make her son suffer less, the mother prepared several sets of clothes and changed them every day. I worked in the factory all day and washed my son's clothes at night. Then, I sewed the clothes hanging in the daytime, and a layer of cloth was sewn in a few days. After a long time, the easy-to-break part is sewn into a thick "mat". How many clothes has mom mended in more than ten years? She doesn't remember, Yun Fei said. It's piling up anyway.

Every time Yun Fei plays games, her mother wants to watch them, but she is afraid to see her son get hurt. However, if she doesn't look at her, she will be more uneasy and will look at it eventually. 165438+20041October 3rd, in the first19th round of Chinese Super League, TEDA challenged Shanghai Shenhua, and Yun Fei threw the ball at Martinez's feet. Seeing the ball boots kicking on her son's chest and passing overhead, the mother jumped up from the sofa in fear, gripped her husband's hand tightly and watched her son lying motionless on the ground. She was so distressed that tears came out and asked trembling. At this time, my father was also very worried, so he had to comfort his wife and said, nothing, nothing. At that moment, time seemed to freeze, and every second and minute was so painful! Yun Fei finally stood up, moved his body, it seems that the problem is not big, and the game started again. Mother breathed a sigh of relief. Oh, you scared me to death! People just sit on the sofa. After the game, Yun Fei quickly returned to the dressing room, took out his mobile phone and quickly "reported peace" to his mother. This has almost become his habitual action. He knew that his mother had come a long way and was worried. Therefore, Yun Fei is often very smart on the court, that is, he should not only keep his goal, but also try to avoid injury and not let his mother worry.

D: mate selection conditions: maternal love.

Yun Fei is a handsome man, the country of 1, the idol worshipped by many female fans and the object pursued by many girls. However, he still has no girlfriend! This is what mom is most worried about. Liu said that she was obsessed with her daughter-in-law and couldn't sleep well at night. Wang Chunru said, can I not worry? My son is 25 years old this year. The mother is in a hurry, but the son is not in a hurry. His mind is full of football. Yun Fei said that the team's eldest brothers Yu Genwei and Sun Jianjun set an example and got married at the age of 28. Mom, please rest assured that when I am 28 years old, I will definitely marry my daughter-in-law to you! Mom said, I can't wait that long I just want to see what my future daughter-in-law looks like one day earlier. I asked Yun Fei: Is it because there are too many girls chasing you and your qualifications are getting higher and higher, so you should choose the best among the best and choose a beautiful woman? He smiled shyly and said, in fact, the conditions for me to have a girlfriend are not high, as long as she is as beautiful as my mother, as kind as her mother and as loving as her mother.

Yun Fei also made a wish to his parents: If I get married and have a son, I will give it back to your parents for training and then train a world-class goalkeeper. His father said happily, great! Mom said, no problem, we will take care of it!