Dignity comes from oneself, not from others. How many people live in a family without weight or weight, always complaining that this is not good and that is too much. Let yourself live without dignity and end up giving up.
During her decades of life in Reiko, she really felt the existence of dignity.
She is a country girl and has not studied for a few days. She is kind, cheerful and honest. I have been industrious and simple since I was a child. I am busy outside and rarely travel far. I was arranged by my parents to marry the sea when I was not very old.
At that time, the Hai family had eight or nine brothers and sisters, and life was particularly difficult, but he was smart and studious and finally found a good job.
This will further widen the distance between them. Hai's parents always feel that Reiko Kobayakawa is not good enough for his son. So I tried to dig her up and run her. It's hard for Reiko Kobayakawa to be alone. She doesn't even have the minimum personality, not to mention the dignity of the word.
So Reiko Kobayakawa bowed his head and struggled to continue living in that family that didn't feel warm. Endless work every day, always half tired, the sea does not love her, always cold. And I was bullied and tortured by my parents in the sea. How many people have advised her not to live, and how did this day pass!
However, Reiko Kobayakawa is a very strong person, and she has an indomitable character since she was a child. Therefore, she never cares what others think or say. Just try your best to find a way to live your life well.
Although Reiko Kobayakawa is the mother of two children, her home is always clean and tidy, and her life is arranged in an orderly and impeccable way.
In her firm belief, there is an irresistible force, so no matter how the parents of the sea use it, they can't shake Reiko Kobayakawa's life. She is always so humble, smart and agile.
Later, at her insistence, she raised two well-behaved daughters. It is undeniable that a child's growth is closely related to her efforts.
So, just when the child got ahead, everyone looked at her with new eyes and tried to accept her existence. In the past few decades, it can be said that Reiko Kobayakawa is a thorn in his parents' side in the sea, and it is wrong to look at it and do it.
Now decades have passed, but Reiko Kobayakawa is still so humble to everyone. On the contrary, they have changed a lot. They prefer to be near Reiko Kobayakawa and get along with Ling. Reiko Kobayakawa is also an open-minded, particularly atmospheric woman who never cares about the past. Be patient and careful with your parents, not picky.
The original Reiko Kobayakawa was scolded, but she was wronged and sad. But today's Reiko Kobayakawa is respected and totally dependent on them.
Now Reiko Kobayakawa is the leading role in the family, and no one can take her place. Dignity goes without saying anything.
Therefore, human dignity can only achieve the results that others can't get and the irreplaceable position through their own efforts and struggles. There will naturally be some dignity!
In reality, how many such families always think that they are above others and always want to step on others. And how many women without firm beliefs will acquiesce that they really don't deserve it, resign and give up their marriage. In the end, I left without dignity and accepted another marriage without dignity. Let yourself live scarred and miserable, and I don't know how many innocent children have been killed. I always complain that others have not given me the dignity to live.
Like Reiko Kobayakawa, some of them gave up all their dignity, lived in responsibilities and tried to raise their children. Won back his dignity.
Therefore, it is better to give up dignity as a responsibility and continue to live than to give up life for dignity.