It really hurts and I'm angry.
2 1 year-old young flight attendant was killed in Zhengzhou airport area after taking a ride into the city.
This girl is from Jinan, Shandong. On May 5th, she flew back to Zhengzhou from Kunming. At about 1 1: 50 that night, she arrived in Zhengzhou, called Didi in the airport area and went to the city.
She bought a sleeper at 1: 00 a.m. on June 6, and planned to go to Jinan to attend a relative's wedding. She went to town only to take the train.
Soon after she got on the bus, Didi's driver showed a obscene gesture, saying that she was too beautiful and wanted to kiss her. She also gave the driver's words and WeChat to her friends, who immediately called her and told her to get off the bus quickly, but the girl said "nothing, nothing" and then her colleague hung up.
Speaking of which, I still want to say that the girl is still too kind to think the worst. She doesn't know how bad human nature can be.
On the morning of the 6th, the girl's father kept calling the girl, but he couldn't get through. Until the 7th, he still couldn't contact his daughter, so his father called the police.
On the 8 th, the girl was found, but it was a body that was stabbed dozens of times.
"My daughter nakedness naked, with fine spots. She also needs to catch the suspect and compare it. I don't know how many knives she has, only that she has more than a dozen knives on her back. " The girl's father said sadly.
Two arteries in the girl's neck were cut off, and there were fatal knife wounds in her heart and lungs.
It is very likely that the suspect carries a murder weapon, and when rape encounters resistance, he rapes first and then kills.
The girl's mother fainted several times and couldn't speak. This girl is the only child in the family. She is studying in Jinan. With 174 cm height, outstanding knowledge and looks, the girl applied to be an airline stewardess after graduation.
The girl's relatives said that she was very filial, worked for more than a year, often went home to see her parents, bought things for her parents every time she came back, and sometimes bought clothes for her uncles and aunts. She is a very filial and well-behaved child and has never even been in love.
What a beautiful girl, with pure nature, so I didn't think much about the verbal flirting of Didi driver, because she lives in a loving family and her cultural literacy makes it impossible for her to think so badly of people.
The beauty of a girl and the unimaginable evil of a criminal form two chilling extremes.
However, hell is empty, the devil is on earth, and this society is too dark to deserve your kindness.
Sometimes, our kindness must be sharp. Once we find that someone around us is malicious, taking immediate action is our greatest protection.
02
When I saw the news yesterday, my hair stood on end. First of all, I am a young girl. Another thing, Didi taxis are common. On the other hand, I live in the same city as the victim girl.
Seeing this news, I can't sleep for a long time, and there is still a trace of happiness in my heart. Fortunately, I am not good-looking, but right away, I am ashamed that I have such an idea.
Is being beautiful a reason for being violated? Is being beautiful an original sin?
Obviously not.
I don't know when, once a girl is killed, there will be such a sound. That girl must be beautiful.
The focus of people's attention is not the bad guys, but whether the girls are beautiful, sexy and naked.
In short, I instinctively look for reasons from girls first, but I can't find them, so I admit that some people are just too bad.
It is human nature to love beauty, not to mention that many girls can make themselves beautiful by losing weight and plastic surgery. Why do they give up their natural beauty?
For a demon, your appearance is not important. The important thing is that he can't control his animal desires and must find an outlet to vent.
In other words, you have a million dollars, and someone robbed you in the street. Do you want to blame you for being too rich?
Obviously not. A thief is a thief and a bad guy is a bad guy.
It is not easy to think about a girl's life, from girl to girl, and then from girl to big girl, to spend it safely.
When you are young, you worry about yourself. When you have a daughter, you will always worry about the safety of the child.
Sometimes I think, is it right or wrong for parents to educate their children to be kind and caring?
If you are too kind, you lack awareness of prevention, are not kind, and are afraid of missing good things.
03
As a matter of fact, I hate people being killed, and we are told how to protect ourselves.
Take this incident as an example. Some people say that girls should not choose to travel at night.
What?
Traveling at night is a mistake. Whose bus and traffic were that night?
To put it bluntly, it is to point the finger at the murdered girl herself. It shouldn't be like that. It shouldn't be like this. The essential reason is the supervision of the law and the supervision of the network car. Why didn't anyone mention it?
In the round table school, Tao told an example, which made me very disgusted.
He said: If you go to the suburbs at three o'clock in the morning, you will be exposed and violated. Of course, criminals will be punished as they deserve. Legally speaking, it's not your fault, but is it your lack of safety awareness?
Liang Wendao added: Even today, a national minister like India will stand up and say that it is her own responsibility to expose a woman and then be violated.
I can't believe this is said by two famous artists. They must have no daughter, right?
Don't teach girls what to "prevent wolves". Wolves have been upgraded, and your technology is still so backward.
The criminal is fully armed and ready. How to prevent it?
Furthermore, if a society makes people feel beautiful and unsafe, how bad is this environment?
04
In the Venus Show, she said something like this.
A Shanghai girl received a courier at home, thinking that it would be finished in a few seconds after signing, so she opened the door in her pajamas, but she didn't expect to meet a "salty pig hand".
Afterwards, the girl called the courier company to complain, and the courier actually argued that the girl's dress was the reason for his impulsiveness.
This reason is really impressive. Do you need someone to control your lower body?
Many people are always instilling this view in us. Women are often harassed or violated for their own reasons.
Because they are too enchanting, because they are too exposed, because they don't respect themselves.
This makes the bullied women full of inferiority and shame.
Once bullied, it's like fall in price immediately hiding his face, which also provides opportunities for those shameless people.
It's right to take the bus at night. Be beautiful and dress beautifully. People should not be prejudiced against girls. What we should reflect on is the platform and legal supervision.