Most rural elderly people have been engaged in field work for a long time. After years of exposure, their faces are wrinkled, their hands are covered with calluses and their hair is gray. After many vicissitudes, they are amiable and respectable. But there are also some rural elderly people who have such shortcomings and are not pleasing.

So what can the elderly in rural areas do to avoid being annoying? I summarized the following points for readers' reference.

First, be diligent. Old people in rural areas, when health conditions permit, do their best to help their children, or farm, give full play to their specialties and share the land. On the one hand, it can increase family income and reduce the burden on children; On the other hand, doing some physical labor properly can also exercise. After all, life lies in sports. Regular exercise can keep you healthy. There are also some rural elderly people who have just turned 50 and are in good health. They don't want to do any work and go to their son's city to support the elderly. The sons and daughters-in-law are all working-class people with low incomes. They also have to raise children, which makes the family more difficult. Sons and daughters-in-law often quarrel and even divorce. If the elderly are hardworking, they can lighten the burden on their children and have good health.

Second, frugality. Although the country has introduced many policies to benefit farmers, life in rural areas is much better. But compared with cities or developed areas, there is still a big gap. Old people in rural areas should not compare with each other. When they see other old people living in big houses and buying good cars or luxury goods, they should also let their children buy them for themselves. Old people should do what they can, eat, drink and dress, and set an example for their children. I heard something recently, and I feel that this old man is a little annoying. He is over 80 years old and has only saved tens of thousands of dollars in his life, clamoring for his son in the city to buy him hundreds of thousands of big houses. The son's family is not rich, and the daughter-in-law does not agree, so the son is in a dilemma. Finally, after many persuasion, I gave up.

Third, fairness. There are often many old people and children in the countryside. Some people prefer sons to daughters, while others prefer sons. All the benefits belong to him, and children should share them equally when supporting the elderly. Some old people always take good care of their children and "find fault" with their daughter-in-law and son-in-law, which leads to family disharmony. Other elderly people like to compare their children's filial piety with their own, which is the only standard of filial piety, regardless of their children's family situation. Only when the old man treats every child fairly can he be respected and not annoying.

Fourth, do your duty. Just like their parents, Li, some elderly people in rural areas sometimes express themselves inappropriately and easily provoke right and wrong. The same is true for your own children, who spread the words that children inadvertently said among children, making the relationship between children tense. If the daughter wants to buy a house and borrow money from her son, the mother will say, "Your brother told me the other day that his family just sold the house 1 10,000!" Why doesn't he lend it to you when he has money? " This makes my sister complain about my brother. In fact, my brother lost money when he started a company, so he sold his house to pay off his debts.

In short, as the rural elderly, we should be diligent in managing the family, be contented, respect the old and love the young, be fair and conscientious, and be good at creating a happy, harmonious and pleasant family atmosphere. Not only are such old people not annoying, but their children also regard them as treasures.