1, I approached you because I am really interested in you, but being interested doesn't mean there must be a result;
2. I can be nice to you or to other members of the opposite sex. Gemini is born with devotion. Is it wrong to be kind to others?
3. I can approach n opposite sex at the same time, but I have a scale in my heart. I know very well that it is only interest, not love;
Even if I am closer to you, I still want to keep a sky that belongs to me. This sky belongs to me only. Unless I love you, I will let you in.
If you want to lock me up to find my true love because of interfering with my freedom or contacting me, I'll leave!
Young Gemini men are easy to hurt people for two reasons:
1, Gemini has different definitions of interest, liking, ambiguity and love from ordinary people. The first two, Gemini logic is: I am not yours, I can run at any time, which is often misunderstood by girls as half-hearted;
2. Although the young Gemini has his own emotional logic, he often betrays his own logic because of his weak control.
These are the fundamental reasons why Gemini is called "Playboy". Actually, Gemini has its own bottom line. For example, Gemini is just curious about sex, but still holds traditional ideas. A classic Gemini sentence is: I can lend you my shoulder or even my lips for a confidante, but I won't give you everything.
Let's start with mature Gemini men. It is easy for Gemini to like someone, but it is difficult to fall in love with someone. Besides, there is no secular reason. Appearance, family, education, work, region and nationality are not standards. I can't say what the standard is. I can only say that being loved by a mature Gemini is very happy.
Why do you say that? Gemini men are very good at introspection and flexibility. They instinctively know all their weaknesses, and their modest nature makes them very willing to admit their shortcomings. When years of precipitation and experience make Gemini finally know how to deal with his biggest enemy "impetuous" and recognize the life he wants, Gemini's own advantages will be fully displayed. Their high sensitivity to new things and extraordinary learning ability make them advance and retreat freely and effortlessly in this rapidly changing era. Whether a Gemini man is mature depends on whether he has learned to release weight. If a Gemini man is willing to reduce his varied interests to a little, and each one is closely related to you, it means that you are indeed the one he is looking for. Some people say that Gemini is stubborn and difficult to change. This makes sense, but it doesn't mean Gemini won't change. On the contrary, they are a group that is very willing to change themselves. Just like children, they are very malleable, but their way of change is introspection and comes from internal forces. Therefore, if their love for you is strong enough for him to introspect and grow for you, his love will be deeply rooted and will never change;
Gemini is endowed with a natural spirit of exploration. Once she falls in love with a girl deeply, she is very happy to observe and study her, master all her joys and sorrows, and control the scale very well. In fact, judging whether a Gemini man has fallen in love with you is very simple, that is, whether he knows the details of your life like the back of his hand. If he often inadvertently reveals your information and even knows more than yourself, then it is obvious that he has fallen in love with you. He is a quiet listener when you need to talk; He is a rational analyst when you need advice; When you need comfort, he is Dong Che's spiritual mentor; When you need passion, he is a romantic lover; When you need warmth, he is a gentle lover; When you need to be quiet, he will wait quietly by your side; When you need to be alone, he will walk away ... Gemini's love energy is very strong, but when they were young, they divided the energy too much because of curiosity. And once it acts on a point, the energy must be beyond your imagination, just like the name of his constellation, it can burst into double talent and strength;
Gemini men are actually persistent and single-minded. For example, there are not many Gemini principles, but some of them are big and vague, and there are many interpretations. The power of interpretation belongs to him. He can always give a logical explanation for his behavior, and you can't convince him. For example, Gemini men generally believe in the principle of "taking law as the top priority". They always pursue the highest career and emotional goals, and they like to challenge themselves. But on the day when he realizes his ambition, you will find that Gemini's job or lover doesn't seem perfect. At this time, it is wrong for you to try to laugh at Gemini's life rules. You forget that Gemini hasn't said the second part: no matter what it is, he may only get an intermediate level, and Gemini will compromise with life and accept the result that is not too bad. Gemini men seem unprincipled because it is easier to accept new things with an open mind, and Gemini's philosophy is that existence is meaningful and we have no right to deny it easily. Because the principle rarely appears, it is unknown. Once Gemini thinks that he has found true love, he will have a good grasp of the scale of communication with other members of the opposite sex and will never deviate easily. Maybe you can see that he has a good relationship with other women, but he gave his heart to his true love.
It is very happy to get along with Gemini men, because they are a group of post-80 s children, still childlike, and are natural humor masters. Unlike Aries men, Gemini men's humor is based on his extensive knowledge and sensitive reaction. His jokes often have a lag effect of a few seconds or even a night. When I wake up, I suddenly want to understand the implication of Gemini men's words last night, so I can understand how incredible the men around me are. Mature Gemini men usually have a very healthy psychological system. What they bring to their lovers is a sunny attitude and a relaxed life concept. Even after five years of marriage, Gemini men can still live like their first love and honeymoon.
Gemini is born to be a good communicator and coordinator, good at reading and understanding. This talent is a very good lubricant for their lives. You rarely see Gemini quarreling-although they are actually experts in debate-and he often doesn't understand why those red-faced people quarrel. This is not to say that Gemini is lazy to think, but because there are two ideas in his mind that are constantly fighting. Once a resolution is reached, he firmly believes in it, and it is difficult for outsiders to shake his belief. It is too difficult to change Gemini's decision from a rational and logical point of view, but it often has unexpected effects from an emotional point of view. It is precisely because Gemini men are smooth, in order to avoid falling into endless arguments with others, they simply stay out of the focus of contradictions and have a detached attitude no matter how big the storm is. Gemini men like to solve problems by gentle breeze and drizzle, especially for their lovers. Contradictions and conflicts will always be invisible in Gemini's communication and ridicule.
It is also the most important point. Gemini's understanding of love is dedication, not possession and taking. He loves you, and all the giving makes him happiest, so he is easily loved by Gemini. You can't hear "I gave so much, what did you give?" This kind of caring words, even if it is the moment you leave after paying a lot for you, Gemini will bless you from the heart. There is one in Marlowe's hierarchy demand theory: people have the need to love and be loved. Most people only see the need to be loved, but in Gemini's view, the need to love is equally important, even more important. Most Gemini don't live for themselves, but for the people they love. Geminis who have lost their emotional support are mostly super bastards who live for 60 minutes. Their energy and wisdom need a fulcrum to erupt, and that is "love".
Having said so many nice things about Gemini, we need to make it clear that Gemini is not a lover. Whether mature or young, there is only one standard to evaluate honesty in love, but it is very strict, that is, to communicate with an open mind. You can make a thousand mistakes, even I allow you to cheat, but if you always watch with your heart closed and your heart locked in the process of communication, then this is the most intolerable thing for Gemini. They like a vibrant and clear life. Once Gemini discovers that all communication is one-way, then Gemini will resolutely leave.
PS: Maybe this is the place where Gemini and Capricorn have the least intersection.
All Gemini people are pure children-even if they are weather-beaten. People who have been hurt by Gemini, please forgive them, they have made children's mistakes, but they did not intentionally; Please cherish the girl who is in love with a serious Gemini, because you rarely have the opportunity to meet someone who loves you so simply. Once you put it down, you won't look back, but keep looking for someone worthy of love with a smile. They will be very unique and make you wonder if you really loved you, but please believe it is true. Gemini is the most affordable group of people in the world.