So your question is, do you want to call it mistress?

Personally, I think it's ok to call a mistress, but this is the second best, so what is the best policy? Then the best policy is to put a curse on your husband, mainly to control your husband.

In other words, you have to control the source. So, for example, if you chat with Xiao San now, it is very unlikely that he will quit. So if he is willing to quit, he must ask you to give him some money, right? Then you solve this problem, so as long as your husband's heart is still in flower, then this mistress is gone, then he can find a second mistress, and a third mistress is possible. This man's playboy will never be satisfied. What's the main problem? Let this man come back to you, this is the most important thing.

So what can we do? The first thing is to change yourself and make yourself beautiful and attractive, so let him have a sense of crisis. If you are a mistress outside, can I also like my man outside? This is the first and the first way, which is to give him a financial account. Her man has no economy and can't find another woman.

The above is the personal answer to your question, I hope it will help you.

Finally, I wish you health, happiness and good luck.