Personally, as a middle-aged mother, there are indeed many things that are not needed. Maybe I can't take care of my own job, or maybe I don't have my own job, so at this time, in either case, the situation will be very difficult. If there is a disobedient son and daughter at home, it will be very easy to collapse.

So many mothers may go through menopause before menopause, because these Xiong Haizi really bother themselves at home, just when they reach middle age and catch up with adolescence, it must be a headache, and many fathers give up all things at home, and don't have much discipline for their children, so this burden is borne by a middle-aged mother.

Many times children can't understand their parents.

Because it is difficult to empathize and understand each other, more often, children will only feel that their parents care too much about themselves, and they will be disgusted with them, especially in adolescence. Sometimes, as parents, they don't know how to deal with this relationship. They only use imperative language to command their children, and they don't know how to communicate. The more they do this, the more rigid they become.

No matter what kind of mother, it is difficult.

Because I think both working mothers and non-working mothers have some difficulties when facing their children. If they have a job, they may not pay so much attention to their children, and sometimes they are very easily distracted. Children will also feel that their mother didn't give them too much company, so this relationship will go further and further. But if you are a stay-at-home mother, you will feel bored and have to take care of yourself every day, so both of them belong.