I finally know why I have no pain, I am not beautiful enough, I am not coquetry, my voice is not sweet, and people drink this for a certain reason.
However, you still have to rely on yourself and be confident. Some people don't just look at their appearance.
Funny joke: I finally know why no one hurts me. Funny joke: I finally know why no one hurts me.
Not beautiful, not coquetry, not sweet voice, not yet.
People who drink a little wine look like pear blossoms with rain.
I had a fucking drink and felt like a Liangshan hero.
The world of the rich is too poor for me to think about.
Chanel spray station
Barefoot fairy water
Bird nest toilet
Diamond saikong
Lvdang garbage bag
Three villas, one for clothes, one for bags and one for small fresh meat that will never expire.
She is not beautiful. Why do I like her? Because your love for her is irreplaceable by appearance.
I probably know why I'm single. Hello, here are five reasons why you are single so far:
Reason one: You always look down on people around you.
Both boys and girls, probably from middle school, often complain that their peers are too naive; When I grow up, I will complain that the opposite sex in the social circle is not good enough.
You look down on the ordinary opposite sex, you don't have cool work experience, you don't earn enough, and your family is too mediocre; You think the other person is not beautiful, gentle and considerate, virtuous and interesting.
When you look up, you find that there are a group of people who are excellent enough, 99.9% of whom meet your mate selection needs, but you can hardly be regarded as a real partner. Those goddesses and goddesses not only inherited good genes, but also spent a lot of time becoming relatively perfect people; Even if they are well-intentioned, compassionate and considerate of the people's sufferings, it doesn't mean that they will be with you.
At this time, you have two choices: 1, make up your mind to reinvent yourself, that is, find the best; 2. Be realistic, start to feel the advantages of people around you, and choose the one who has the most contact with yourself.
I don't know how many people will choose one. Please don't make up your mind impulsively, keep learning, broaden your horizons, lose weight, whiten your skin and stay healthy. Nothing is easy. If you can't do it, then choose the second way. This road may be good. Maybe when you turn around, there will be a shy, kind and upright young man waiting for you there.
Of course, the higher you go, the wider the scenery. It is not necessarily wrong to be afraid of being tired and unwilling to go to bed. Being content with the status quo is also a life choice. Of course, you can choose to be single.
It's just that you need to remember how good you want and how much you have to pay.
Reason 2: Your fanaticism scares everyone away.
A friend met a boy at an activity. Boys look very gentle, but they haven't talked for a few words, and boys immediately begin to flatter girls and say a lot of sensational words. My friend was scared to death and wanted to run away on the spot.
Don't think that only boys will do such a thing, and so will girls.
Catch a boy and harass him for 24 days. As long as the other party ignores him a little (obviously there is no special relationship between the two), the girls begin to feel awkward in all kinds of grievances, making everything embarrassing and inexplicable.
Although there will be happy endings in TV dramas, in real life, you are generally regarded as a psychopath. This is why we often see that many passionate and vigorous love always ends in breaking up. Because to die is to live, fanaticism itself is a kind of self-expression, which has nothing to do with "love"
The opposite sex can be chased, which is a very interesting thing, but it can't be crazy to exaggerate. At least you have to know what kind of person the other person is before you can express your good feelings.
Too fanatical emotions mostly come from brain tonic, self-fantasy, and excessive lack of love. Enthusiasm will only make the other person feel scared and run away, and then you can't find someone. Being rational, logical and normal will make you look more attractive.
Reason three: not enough face, not enough heart.
When I went to eat at noon, my friend said, "There is no aesthetic education in our education." "The only discussion about beauty is how noble and beautiful the aunt who sweeps the floor is." Not to mention that our admiration for ugliness is almost crazy.
We believe that the soul is noble, so the appearance does not need beauty, and dressing is superficial; I like to buy good-looking famous brands, and beautiful and quality things are even more money-worship; You must like to eat mutton skewers and roadside stalls, and it is politically correct to wear clothes for 30 yuan.
I have met many talented people, none of whom are ugly.
Those ingenious professional men and women are often very good-looking. Although there is no objective statistics, I still think that people's looks can reflect your social level and mental state; Appearance is positively related to the spiritual level.
When you are clean and beautiful, the first good impression you give others is already an advantage. No matter how miserable your life is, please try to look better.
The hair that girls don't like seems to be attracted by boys who haven't cut their hair for half a year, whose clothes are wrinkled, their shoes are dirty and they laugh obscene; Boys should not like girls with messy bodies and faded hair and nail polish.
If you want to make your life easier, if you want to be liked more by everyone, if you want to live a smoother life, if you want to live a better life, then-please try to look better. Appearance is not only natural, it can be improved by exercising, reading magazines, buying clothes, going to the dentist and spending time.
Reason 4: You are really lazy and hopeless.
Today, with the high development of science and technology, even if you hide at home every day, you can still live well. You can brush Weibo, watch American TV series, play games, and all kinds of animations with no moral integrity and heavy taste. Unfortunately, scientists have not yet provided a solution to falling in love at home. Please go out to socialize and find true love.
Socialization is first to mobilize all the resources around you, such as friends of colleagues and classmates. You can make more like-minded friends through one person. Secondly, you can attend some industry gatherings, which can not only expand more career opportunities, but also meet many like-minded friends; To say the least, Douban City also has many interesting activities.
If you feel that your social circle is small, you must socialize; If you feel fat, you must go swimming; If you think something is not working, you must move. I yell every day, but I can't insist on anything, but it's really not cute at all.
The most common ending of lazy people is that they have no career, no social circle, no love object, accumulated a lot of fat, and stayed in the shared room to brush the web.
Reason 5: It is more boring than news broadcast.
The general state of boring people is that their values are somewhat narrow, they like to tell jokes with no taste, treat stupid things as funny things, and get stuck in trivial things and can't get out ... To put it bluntly, there are too few inputs, so they can't output.
If you often get into a long embarrassment with the opposite sex, or others often open topics in social situations, you either can't keep up or always say inappropriate things, then you need to seriously consider whether you have invested too little.
The solution to this problem is to read more books, broaden the world outlook and not be lazy. There is no shortcut, and there is no panacea.
Why are you single? Do you agree with the above five points? Finding a date and falling in love is to choose someone who likes you and you like it. However, let others like you, don't be willful, and don't show off your personality. You need to make yourself not so bad, find the right position and meet like-minded people.
I say, what if I can't find something to love? I think it should be eight words-see yourself clearly and act.
Why am I beautiful when I was a child and not beautiful when I grow up? Not usually. What's the bone like? Looks have a lot to do with parents' genes!
This may be different for everyone.
Why did I say Xiao Xia? Why did I say Xiao Xia? Why doesn't Xiaoguang look beautiful?
Only people who know English can speak English.
1, why does Xiaoguang have so many words when he doesn't understand English?
Xiaoguang doesn't understand English, but why can he speak so much?
Why am I not beautiful? Cultivate self-confidence, self-restraint and temperament, and you will become beautiful. The most important thing is to be diligent and always dress yourself up. As the saying goes, there are no ugly women, only lazy women.
I have nothing to like. I am fat, I am ugly, and my grades are average. /My deskmate has the worst hair loss. The boys are vying to be her brother, but I am a girl in Grade Three, and I can't catch up. I couldn't get a word in when they were talking. /My heart is full of worries. I remember who said: I love despair/God, please make me happy. ...
This passage is taken from a letter written by a girl who calls herself a "little fool" to Yu, a young literary writer and editor-in-chief of Girl magazine. Last weekend, at the forum of "Pay attention to their reading and reading" held by Shanghai Book Fair Children's Publishing House, based on 460 letters written by young readers to Girl magazine and their growing experiences learned through years of contact and exchange, this paper sorted out six major troubles of young people. The letters of Little Fool are the representative works of 460 Stories of Trouble. These six kinds of troubles can be divided into "three restlessness" and "three egos".
The first big agitation: I want to be beautiful!
In 460 letters, this trouble became the first topic with the letter number of 136. The most disturbing thing for students is not their studies, nor their emotions, but their beauty. There are more and more such letters and the wording is getting heavier and heavier. The complex of "I want to be beautiful" is becoming an overwhelming symptom of collective anxiety.
Boys feel that they must be tall, handsome, electric and cool. ...
Diandian gnashes her teeth at the person in the mirror every day and says "Go to hell" because she has a pair of blisters.
Ding Lili's feet are 38 and a half yards, like a man and a woman! She even has the idea of jumping off the balcony, so it doesn't matter if she wears shoes of a smaller size and walks painfully!
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They find fault with themselves, hair, facial features ... even nails can find fault. What makes them "uneasy" comes from comparison. Compared with the stars, magazine models and class flowers in the next class, who has big eyes, straight nose, white face and thin figure. ...
The second biggest trend: the elder sister recognizes the elder brother.
There are 98 letters related to the identification of "brother". The word puppy love has been "out" (that is, eliminated), and it is my brother's turn to make a strong appearance. This is the latest collective state of adolescent emotions. So, what does brother mean now? Girls magazine defines this as "an atypical boy between friends and love". And they said to themselves, "Brother, this is a name I have always liked. Sister, this is the name I have always relied on. Brother and sister, the most beautiful relationship. "
As a girl, what are the benefits of recognizing my brother? First of all, you can have many brothers; Secondly, my brother is omnipotent and can give you a lot. When you are sad, he will let you cry on his shoulder; When you are angry, you can lose your temper with him; You can spoil him when you are happy.
In this way, in some campuses, it is common for brothers and sisters to know each other, and this "fashion" is favored by boys and girls.
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Compared with the state of puppy love, my brother's state makes their emotions in a state of turmoil, which is mainly manifested as: 1. Brother's ambiguity and broadness make it easier for them to get involved in emotions unconsciously.
2. vanity, recognizing multiple brothers, or because brothers are handsome, they feel cool, and even cause a multi-angle relationship. They often can't treat it calmly, and as a result, many parties are hurt.
3. It will inevitably involve gender issues, and because of competition and other reasons, it may make it easier for them to steal the forbidden fruit.
How to deal with this emotional excitement? If love cannot be separated from one's own task, how can one get true love? You won't even have a real life. Long live life, and love may be just a melody in life.
The third biggest agitation: the results are greater than the sky.
There are 56 letters about the pressure of study-my mother stormed back from the parent-teacher conference with a student handbook and asked me if she had a pig.
I used to be a top student. Unexpectedly, I failed in a math exam once and was scolded by my teacher. Now I'm afraid of meeting the teacher in the exam, and nothing is interesting.
Did you hear that? They are chanting a spell: Mimi, heaven and hell, just between the lines, the line of admission!
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We can see that all kinds of exams in school make it difficult to get rid of academic pressure and mental and physical restlessness, and their fragility-often because of an exam. So how can we expect them to have the strength to overcome bigger events in the future?
The first self: Mom and Dad are natural enemies.
There are 68 letters about the troubles of conflict with parents. Sad Sugar said: I like Jay Chou, but I like his looks and his singing. What did my mother say? She said, oh, it's this man with small eyes. His mouth is like an olive and he can't speak clearly. Don't play that kind of music at home in the future, it's as good as chanting! Her colleague's daughter likes F4 very much. My mother said that the little girl had been waiting at the door of the hotel for most of the night. She was really a flower addict ... I used to tell my mother something, but later my mother would use it to teach me a lesson. My heart hurts. Now I don't talk about school, and I don't talk about things around me. I say more mistakes, say less mistakes, and don't say good.
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When their adolescence happens to meet their parents' menopause, they are also grumpy and stubborn, and their parents become natural enemies of youth. They always want to show their strength by running around. For parents, instead of trying to conquer youth, it is better to understand each other and live in peace in their respective worlds.
The second self: swinging in friendship
There are 62 letters that pour out such friendship troubles. In the youth language family, the so-called "best friend" is my lunch and your lunch; That is, share the blessings and share the difficulties; This is your trash can. You can pour anything you want into it.
This generation needs the support of brotherly love and friendship. On the middle school campus, a group of "girlfriends" who play tricks on each other are closely related, know each other well and have their own secrets. In fact, girlfriends will affect their daily mood, study status, and even their thoughts and behavior habits in two ways. Benefits-they can help each other in their studies; You can share your troubles and happiness with each other. Disadvantages-it is difficult to refuse some excessive demands from the other party. ...
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How to get along with "girlfriends", how to maintain self-esteem and self-love in the almost mandatory friendship that unconditionally requires synchronization, and how to face the third party and the fourth person in the friendship world have become their problems and troubles.
Friendship at this stage is often exclusive and selfish. At the same time, it is easy to rely on "girlfriends", and the weak party completely obeys the strong one, which leads to self-vacillation and personality depletion. In fact, there are two words that must be remembered when treating friendship: tolerance and autonomy.
The third self: clever during the day and ostentatious at night.
There are 50 letters that pour out the distress of self-division. There is such a letter: "during the day, I am the clever child, pretending to be an angel." Wear ugly school uniforms, talk to classmates in a low voice, and call the teacher hello when you see the teacher on campus; Because I forgot to bring my homework, I went home through the city to get it ... At night, I made a fuss. Publish the sharpest criticism on the campus network; Riding a bike on the main road with a group of boys ... but when my head was on the soft pillow and my body was curled up in the warm embrace of the quilt, I whispered to myself, it would be good if it were dawn. "
Why can't anyone love you if you're not beautiful? Zhuge Liang's wife is notoriously ugly. She is not afraid of beauty in appearance, and the most terrible thing is that she is not beautiful in heart. There are many superficial things in this world. On the road of love, it is more appropriate to meet people for a long time.