We like reckless people, who are usually unconscious at first. When they feel something, they should try to extricate themselves and try to get rid of rashness. First of all, we should start with the analysis of the reasons for our recklessness, and then look for the external manifestations and internal reasons for our recklessness.
The internal reasons for our rashness are generally lack of wisdom, ignorance of strategy, ignorance of art of war, ignorance of rules, arbitrary operation and arbitrary behavior. Carelessness is often associated with failure, and winners often go their separate ways from rashness. The reasons for impatience are physiological factors, psychological factors, family factors and social factors.
(2) to achieve symptomatic treatment
If our recklessness is due to physical defects or health reasons, to overcome our reckless psychology and behavior, we need the right medicine and timely treatment.
If psychological reasons lead to our rashness, we should also make psychological adjustments in time to solve psychological problems.
If it is a family reason, we should examine and adjust our family operation, so as to eradicate our rash reasons.
If it is due to social reasons, we need social attention and make appropriate adjustments to the social existence and social influence of reckless people.
(3) Be cautious when things go wrong
Often in our reckless psychological habits, only care can make us safe. We should be cautious in doing things and eliminate all unsafe factors and failure factors, which is precisely the rejection and elimination of rashness.
(4) cultivate a good personality
Personality is an important reason for recklessness. To eradicate our rashness, we must first change our bad character and cultivate our serious attitude, rigorous style and high sense of responsibility.
We should start from bit by bit and do everything with cause and effect. You can't perfunctory things and catch up with the task. Only in this way can we develop good personality characteristics and get rid of rash bad habits in a subtle way.
(5) break the psychological stereotype
To break the psychological stereotype, on the one hand, we should cultivate our good observation quality, train ourselves in a planned way, improve our accuracy in distinguishing the nuances of things or phenomena, and develop our observation ability in time. This is an effective measure to ensure the objectivity of perception and avoid rashness.
On the other hand, we should cultivate the habit of thinking in other's shoes and let us think from different angles, which will also play a certain role in eliminating psychological stereotypes.
(6) concentrate.
Attention is the beginning of our psychological process, which can provide a clear psychological background for cognitive activities. If we don't pay attention, our psychological orientation will often change when we do things, and the object of concern will not be clearly and completely reflected, so it is easy to do something wrong rashly.
Concentration and stability are the foundation of our success and the basic quality of each of us. Therefore, it is very important to cultivate the habit of paying attention to prevent impatience.
(7) Strengthen self-reflection.
We act rashly, which fundamentally belongs to the problem of weak self-monitoring ability, that is, there is a lack of a process of reflection after doing things. Without reflection, we will have no judgment on our actions, and we may be rash when we encounter similar things next time. So we can reduce the chance of rash by constantly reflecting on our behavior.
(8) Learn to be bold and cautious
Learning to be cautious is very effective in overcoming our carelessness. Carelessness is often caused by our own carelessness. To be cautious, to be cautious, to be cautious, is to make our various sensory organs more sensitive and earnest, and to make our feelings more meticulous, so as not to be reckless.
The reasons for all failures are often very subtle. A large porcelain jar has a crack, which is very fine. Without careful inspection and sensitive visual observation, it is difficult to find. If you don't know there is a crack, the porcelain jar will break, which will lead to disaster.
Caution should be taken to prevent micro-duration and prevent minor faults from coming into play. Caution can overcome recklessness very effectively.
In such an impetuous world, it is not easy to be cautious, and it is even harder to stick to it. Each of us should seek inner peace and be a person with good self-cultivation, good morality and noble realm.