Now that you can recognize your own shortcomings, you have a chance to improve. Don't lose heart.

No one is born 100% perfect, but everyone has shortcomings.

In fact, a large part of your biggest psychological obstacle should be that you care too much about your own exterior.

You said your figure is not good enough. You can at least try to lose weight first. For example, do more exercise, or try to take some diet pills. There are many ways to lose weight. You can try.

As for appearance, it is natural, but it can be beautifully decorated. The easiest way to change is to learn to make up! Read more magazines about this, or try to ask your friends who knows how to make up or dress up best. You can ask her more. Don't be shy. Learning is your skill. In fact, those female stars on the screen are ordinary people, relying on makeup. How many female stars dare to face the media? In life, all the "beauties" you see outside are the same.

Women score 3 points by looks and 7 points by dressing up.

The same is true of clothes. Read more magazines and ask more friends.

If you usually wear glasses and consider wearing contact lenses, there will be great changes.

Since you say you have good academic performance, I think you should be a smart person. Maybe your growing environment will affect some of your thinking patterns to some extent, but that's not important. The most important thing is the experience gained from your own study the day after tomorrow.

No matter where and where, especially the rules and customs, you need to learn and understand them gradually the day after tomorrow. If you don't understand this aspect, ask more questions, or you will never understand it.

Appearance (clothing, makeup) can imitate others is also very important, but it is best to stick to being yourself, or you will be too tired. Don't try to get others to approve of you in everything, it's impossible. Don't suppress your feelings, it's bad for your health. You can talk to your friends or family to relieve stress, but never speak ill of others behind their backs, because no one can guarantee that what you say will not reach that person's ears. Over time, natural friends will stay away from you. If it were you, would you like to be friends with someone who always speaks ill of you behind your back? Be sincere to your friends, at least don't speak ill of others behind their backs. As long as you are sincere and friendly to others, you will naturally have more friends.