In the past two days, Yang li Ping's comments on a certain voice have been posted on a hot search, which has aroused many netizens' discussions. Many famous female stars have also expressed their views on this matter and supported Yang li Ping.
The biggest failure of a woman is that she has no children? This is the main point of controversial comments. In fact, there are not a few people who hold this view. For example, when I discussed this with my parents yesterday, they began to urge marriage again, because they also supported this view.
I object to this view for two reasons.
First, even if a woman has children, she may not be able to enjoy a happy life with children under her knees. Even if parents treat their children well, some children become baiwenhang, and many women who have many children under their knees still live a lonely life in their later years, even being chewed by their children.
Second, whether a woman is lucky or unlucky, self-confidence is actually given by herself. Just like Yang li Ping, what if you don't have children or daughters? Her peacock dance is well known to all women and children, and she devoted her life to her favorite dance. She was very happy to see her achievements and her disciples.
Therefore, the confidence of middle-aged women to live beautifully has nothing to do with whether they have children or not, but only about themselves. Only they can give themselves a wonderful confidence.
For middle-aged women, these three things can help you really live a wonderful life.
The first thing, a precious love.
Love is an extremely great force and an inestimable force. Love can give us the courage to challenge the difficulties of life, make us full of yearning for the future and give us a warm harbor. Whether a woman is married or not, they can hold their love well.
For married women, the so-called grasp of love is to cherish the fate with her husband. Crossing the boat for a hundred years, sleeping on your pillow for a thousand years. Now that we are married, we must keep a clear head. There is no time limit for love. Even if you have been married for many years, you can always love each other.
Lasting and fresh love is a wonderful way to stabilize marriage. In order to keep love fresh, women should know how to manage love actively. In life, we should communicate with our lovers in time, help each other and run our own small family together. We should understand and understand each other and cherish each other in our hearts all the time.
For unmarried women, age is never an obstacle to love. Even if you are over 40, you can still expect love. When love really comes, women should know how to seize this hard-won opportunity.
Just like Chen Qiaoen, she is a famous older actress in the entertainment circle and has never been married. When she met Allen, Chen Qiaoen didn't feel uneasy at all because of her age. The love between her and Allen is still very sweet.
As a woman, no matter how old you are, whether you are married or not, you should know how to seize your love. Married women should love their husbands and their marriage. Unmarried women should not lose confidence in love, let alone feel inferior because of their age, but they should be afraid of love.
Second, the mentality is stable.
Middle-aged women often face the troubles of menopause. After many women enter menopause, it is easy to lose their temper and always want to get angry and quarrel with others inexplicably. At this time, it is most important to keep a steady mind.
Women should know that getting angry casually is a sign of hurting themselves. First of all, we all know that anger hurts the liver, because it is not cost-effective to get angry over a trivial matter and hurt your health.
Secondly, women who get angry casually will only leave a bad impression. If you are angry with outsiders, it is easy to be labeled as unreasonable. If you are angry with your relatives, you will also cause dissatisfaction with your relatives, think that you are unreasonable and even want to stay away from you.
Finally, women who get angry casually tend to make a mess of their lives. You feel angry when someone bothers you a little; You are also angry that others are not as good as you; If you do something wrong, you will be angry with yourself. Everything will make you angry, so life will definitely not be comfortable.
Therefore, women should know how to control their temper, keep their mentality stable, and take things lightly. If you have problems with people, try not to quarrel. When meeting unreasonable people, women should not sulk and try to hide.
Third, you should have the ability to arrange your life in an orderly way.
For a woman who lives beautifully, they will not let themselves relax too much, because once people are idle, they will feel lonely and empty, and they will think more and worry more. Therefore, if middle-aged women want to live a good life, they must arrange their lives reasonably and properly.
Having a job you like is a good way to arrange your life. If a woman has a job, she can not only pass the boring time, but also have the ability to live independently.
Managing one's own circle of friends and having normal social activities is also a way for women to enjoy life.
For women, we should remember that a woman's life is not decided by her man or her children, but by herself.
I hope every woman can live to be the king of life and live what she wants.