I want to tell you, first of all, you have to be confident, and secondly, you don't have to have the beauty of miss congeniality to attract people. That's right, you don't need to look like a sinking fish, you just need to be more attractive than the competitors around you. (

So the first rule is: never associate with people who are better than you.

A beautiful woman often gives a small favor to have a group of ugly female friends around her, which can make her look more outstanding.

Don't be fooled by this, don't be greedy for petty gain.

Even if you lose a little profit, make friends around you worse than you.

Of course, I mean, if you have average conditions, all the words are for friends with average conditions. Friends with good conditions will also teach you how to use better conditions to get more benefits in future courses.

Article 2: Improve yourself.

If you are willing to spend millions on plastic surgery, then you don't need to watch this lecture.

What we are discussing is how to get the maximum effect with the least investment.

First of all, we must admit the objective reality. We have many shortcomings, such as poor figure, freckles, bad face, big nose and so on.

Step 1: You must list all your shortcomings. Don't be afraid to face your shortcomings, because if you don't face them, others will face them every day.

When you bravely list all your shortcomings, you will be a little depressed. Oh, my God, there may be thousands.

But you should be happy, because it's not countless.

As long as there are figures, we can find a way to solve them one by one.

Even if it is not completely solved, it can be improved.

Then write down this motto: there are no ugly women, only lazy women.

I believe that with confidence and determination, there is no insurmountable problem.

Like being fat. There are many weight-loss tutorials, so I won't introduce them much, but remember, you don't need a devil's body, as long as it's enough.

You look pale, and distribution can help solve it.

Bad skin, cosmetics (a lot)

The organization eliminated all excuses and improved the shortcomings one by one.

Then enter the second step: list your own advantages.

Don't tell me you didn't. In that case, you should find yourself one. At least it is a quasi-advantage.

Your strengths are probably wisdom, gentleness, vitality, loveliness and so on.

These are your treasures, please keep them well and carry them forward.

Discover your strengths and expand them.

When men fall in love with you, these are the reasons why they convince themselves.

Let me remind you, don't put too much pressure on yourself, you just need to be better, not the best.

The purpose of improving yourself is by no means to be a vase for everyone to appreciate and comment.

Our goal is to find and conquer our own prince.

So don't forget your goal.

Of course, it's not a bad thing that my friend is an anthomaniac. You may admire many men, and you want them all. There is a way. List all the men you like according to the degree of difficulty and mutual influence.

Of course, the two of them are probably close friends, and it may be dangerous for you to wander between them, so we don't advocate this. Might as well abandon one. After all, don't be too greedy at first. You can't have your cake and eat it.

So in order not to let the cooked ducks fly. We should do this work well first.

The work mainly includes studying the geographical location, living habits and personal characteristics of the target life.

Geographical location: including the place where he works and studies, his family location, entertainment places, habitual action routes and so on.

Living habits: There are many, including eating habits, what you like to eat, what you don't like to eat, where you like to eat, whether you like to eat by yourself or with others, and so on. There are also various sources of information. Besides your own observation, you can also hear and ask questions. But don't expose your intentions in advance, otherwise it will not only be bad for the situation, but also be destroyed by other girls.

There are also exercise habits, work and study habits, so I won't give examples one by one.

Personal characteristics: This is very important. Anyway, you should master the following basic information: 1 name (nonsense) but nicknames and nicknames are also important. 2, gender (it is best to determine everything that happened these days. ) 3. Birthday. This is a naughty explanation. 4, hobbies, 5, blood type 6, hobbies 7, disgusting things. In short, it is possible to get the most detailed information like a groupie.

Let's make a plan around the goal.

If you are unfamiliar with the target, you should start by getting to know him.

First impressions are very important. Don't make a rash move. Be prepared according to the existing information.

Make sure there's nothing shameful about wearing two kinds of shoes and teeth.

Don't dress too differently, even boys with great personality don't like girls with different dressing styles. So in order not to lose the opportunity at the beginning, it is still simple and generous.

Then, look for opportunities.

According to the investigation and study some time ago, his living habits and hobbies should be known.

So start the first step: impress each other.

If he likes playing games, you should learn to play the games he likes. There is no need to study well, just play.

If he likes sports, you can learn his favorite sports and go to the venues he often goes to.

If he likes reading, it is not bad to meet him in the library.

I have a friend who is like this.

When she and her goal almost reached the point of success, a journey suddenly appeared halfway. A more beautiful and excellent girl appeared. The goal is a little shaken.

At the moment when all previous efforts are about to be abandoned, guess what?

Yes, it is the secret weapon: diary.

A friend entrusted the diary to the target man, and then traveled to Hainan for two weeks, ready to adjust his mood before attacking the next target.

I didn't expect to find the target man waiting outside her apartment every day for two weeks.

As for the threat that appeared in the middle, of course, it has long been a threat.

Hehe, so my friend, in order not to let the cooked ducks fly away, the habit of keeping a diary must be formed.

Let's assume that there are several situations in which you will understand your goal.

One, you take the initiative to find him.

This is very bad and the last thing we want to happen, because if so, you will easily get into trouble. It's hard for you to walk down the steps. (However, there is really no way but to do so. We will introduce the countermeasures in this case in the future. )

Second, you talk to each other at the same time and get to know each other.

Shit! This is not in a romantic movie or novel. How did this happen?

Third, he took the initiative to meet you. Oh, it would be great if you could do that. In order to make the target man make more concessions and pay more, you can postpone your compromise as much as possible.

Now put aside the first two possibilities, because the purpose of buying people's hearts is to let the target take the initiative to get to know you.

One more thing, when your goal finally confirms whether you are worthy of his love. Our experiment shows that 197% of men will ask friends around their spouses. The distance between you and the target is: you-your friend-your friend and his friend-his friend-he is the same.

So you can see that you are not far apart, so cheer up and expand your influence into his circle. So after previous efforts, our goal has noticed your existence and started to be interested in you. When he asked people around him about you, he got almost all the answers:

"Oh, you say her! Really a very good girl. "

When we reach this state, we seem to see success vaguely, don't we?