How to take care of the parturient like a baby is the object we need to pay attention to, especially during confinement, which can not be ignored and has a great impact on the later life of the parturient. How to take care of maternity is as follows.
How to care for lying-in women in confinement 1 The daily expression "confinement" refers to about 6 weeks after delivery, which is clinically called "puerperium". This period is related to the recovery after numbness. When taking care of Ma Ma, we should pay attention to the following four points.
1, remember to pay attention to the baby's numbness.
Don't always focus on the baby. "Postpartum depression" is no joke. People get sick and even commit suicide every year. This disease is neither melodramatic nor rare, so don't feel impossible.
Therefore, caregivers should pay more attention to observing mother's emotional and psychological changes, and give appropriate care in all aspects, such as helping her when she is too busy, instead of blaming her blindly.
Don't make too many taboos in diet.
Really, there is no special taboo in Ma Ma's diet! On the contrary, a balanced diet is needed to provide comprehensive nutrition.
In addition to half-baked eggs and meat, fresh vegetables, fruits, meat, fish and shrimp can be eaten. When preparing three meals, try to match all kinds of food, balance nutrition, take care of Ma Ma's taste and make something she likes.
3, to ensure adequate sleep.
During confinement, mother's sleep is very important. Only when you sleep well can you take better care of your baby.
Therefore, in other housework, especially changing diapers and putting children to bed, family members can do more to reduce the burden of numbness and give her more time to rest.
Scientific confinement should be avoided.
The culture of "confinement" is very popular in all parts of China, and a considerable number of concepts do not conform to modern scientific theories, which may bring harm to pregnant women and babies. We must be careful to avoid these misunderstandings.
1, don't cover it after delivery, and ventilate when it's time to ventilate.
Even after giving birth to a baby, Ma Ma is not much different from others. She will feel hot and want to breathe fresh air.
You can wear short-sleeved shorts, air conditioner and fan when the weather is hot. These are not taboos. Generally speaking, 26 ~ 27 degrees Celsius is a more comfortable temperature. At ordinary times, we should also pay attention to window ventilation, let indoor air circulate and keep the air fresh.
I believe everyone, like me, never wants to hear the news that "the lying-in woman died of a high fever in confinement".
It is dangerous to lie still. Don't let her lie still.
After giving birth, although some hemp will feel weak and need adequate rest, it is necessary to take proper activities.
If Ma Ma keeps lying in bed, it is easy to form blood clots in the lower limbs. If these blood clots get stuck in large blood vessels, they will die at any time.
So as long as Ma Ma feels that her body can bear it, she should be reminded to move more, which will help her recover.
3, "confinement" stresses hygiene, bathing and brushing your teeth.
Contact with water during confinement will not cause any diseases, but not paying attention to personal hygiene will increase the risk of infection.
After the end of production, the perspiration of hemp will increase obviously. If you don't wash it clean and sweat all over, you will know how uncomfortable it is when you think about it. But also postpartum lochia and breastfeeding. If you don't pay attention to the cleanliness of perineum and breast, it will increase the risk of puerperal infection and mastitis.
Drinking thick soup is easy to block milk, and a balanced diet is more important.
After giving birth to a baby, I always want to make up for numbness. Traditionally, all kinds of thick soup, chicken soup, bone soup and trotter soup are tonic foods. But in fact, this milky thick soup has limited nutritional value and a lot of calories, which is not only not conducive to physical recovery, but also easy to cause milk blockage.
To prepare a diet for Ma Ma, balance is more important. If Ma Ma likes to drink soup, she should also drink it in moderation, and choose a light soup with less oil and less salt.
5, "Ziyue wine" does not breastfeed, but also hurts the baby.
Some places think that drinking "Zi Yue wine" or cooking "Zi Yue food" with wine can promote lactation, but in fact, one of the few dietary taboos for lactating mothers is drinking, so try not to drink if you can.
Drinking alcohol will reduce milk. Drinking "alcoholic milk" will not only affect the baby's sleep in the short term, but also lead to the baby's development lag in the long run, which is terrible.
If it is inevitable to drink some wine, we should pay attention to the limit. After drinking alcohol for 2 hours, wait until the alcohol in the blood is metabolized before feeding the baby.
6. Don't always think that there is no milk.
There are very few mothers who really have no milk! However, in the actual breastfeeding process, there is indeed some numbness that can't produce milk, mostly because the posture of holding the chest is wrong, which leads to insufficient stimulation to the breast.
Don't say that mom has no milk just because the baby doesn't suck it out. Give the baby milk powder or even sugar water. At this time, it is necessary to help novice mothers adjust their breastfeeding posture. Ma Ma's breasts can only secrete enough milk if they are stimulated enough.
In addition, take the time to let Ma Ma rest more, try to create an environment suitable for her to rest, and let her produce more milk after a good rest.
7. Don't always feel that your baby is not full.
Seeing that the baby has been sucking for a long time but doesn't seem to drink much, or seeing that the breast pump sucks less milk, I feel that the baby is definitely not full, especially the misconception of many elders.
But in fact, the newborn baby doesn't have a big appetite. On 1 day of birth, it is only as big as a cherry, and after the seventh day, it is only as big as an egg. A meal doesn't eat much. Others don't give their children milk powder or soup.
It depends on whether your baby is eating enough, and you should pay more attention to your baby's mental state, urine output and weight gain. As long as the baby's mental state is good, he can wet 6 ~ 8 tablets every day, and the weight gain conforms to the law of growth and development, then there is no need to worry.
Learn the above, live a happy life in the baby's house, and get off to a good start!
How to care for lying-in women? 2 When it comes to lying-in, almost every mother has endless bitterness. And if my mother is taken good care of and completes the confinement, I believe my mother will be grateful for a lifetime!
My mother-in-law took one look at the child and left (without the baby). My mother-in-law cooked cold food for herself (some didn't). My husband is lazy and doesn't help take care of the children. My family's words hurt people ... my stomach is full of grievances!
Are they narrow-minded and bear grudges? Are they looking for trouble on purpose? Are there many things?
No, not at all!
Giving birth to a child is a happy event for a family, but this happy event is based on the mother's pain. It is not an exaggeration to say that it is risky to have a child.
After the hard work of pregnancy in October, the maternal body and mind are exhausted, the body needs a good rest, and the spirit needs the comfort of the family! Coupled with the pressure of postpartum breastfeeding and the pressure of caring for newborns, postpartum depression is something that almost every woman has to bear and fight!
At this time, if the family can give warm care, comfort and encouragement to the parturient and help to take care of the baby, most parturients can overcome postpartum depression and restore their normal mentality, but if the family's care is not enough, or even indifferent attitude, it is undoubtedly worse.
At present, in China, 30% of puerperal women suffer from severe depression and diseases, and the behavior of committing suicide or hurting children is as high as 15%.
2017 65438+1At about 20 o'clock on October 6, a mother who was only 3 1 year-old in a residential area in Xiangtan City, Hunan Province finished writing her suicide note, and with her two-year-old son and several-month-old daughter, she jumped from the 13 floor and died after being sent to hospital.
20 16 12 A suicide case occurred in Ganyu District, Lianyungang. A young mother strangled two children by herself. Her daughter is 4 years old and her son is just 7 months old. She also died of drinking pesticides.
A new mother's diary, 201510/0 month 12, the baby was born, and my husband and family were very happy, but I didn't have the joy as scheduled. I thought I could get rid of this pain after giving birth, but I didn't. My life now makes me more miserable. My husband's irritability, her mother-in-law's indifference, her baby's crying and the triviality of life are all tormenting me a little. I feel like I'm on the verge of collapse. Where is my hope? When is it free? Life is getting more and more boring. . .
It's shocking to watch!
Is mom too cruel and cruel? No, they love their children more than anyone else. When they feel completely desperate about life and the future and can only get rid of it by ending their own lives, their first thought is that if I leave, my children will suffer, and they will "take them away".
Mother's extreme behavior is not a temporary impulse, but a long-term accumulation of negative emotions. Hormone changes are on the one hand, the stress of life and the indifference of family members are the direct causes of postpartum depression! This will make pregnant women feel that living is a kind of torture and pain, and they can't see the future and hope. They have tried to overcome it, but the pressure of real life has made them sink bit by bit!
The last straw that crushed her may be the cry of the child, a cold word from her mother-in-law, an expression of disgust from her husband, or a touching word, which pushed her to the abyss of despair!
Let's talk about confinement, which originated in the Han Dynasty, in order to let women practice their bodies better after giving birth and prevent their bodies from falling into various diseases.
Nowadays, confinement abandons many bad habits of traditional confinement, such as not taking a bath, washing your hair, brushing your teeth, leaving home, covering your face and eating fruits and vegetables.
Confinement is the first month after delivery, and the heart and body are the weakest. Therefore, in addition to preparing nutritious and delicious meals for the parturient, family members should also observe the emotional changes of the parturient, be tolerant and understand, and encourage and comfort the parturient when problems arise.
Although it is only a short month, the experience of this month will make a woman remember it for a lifetime, no matter whether it is good or bad, it will never be forgotten.
My sister-in-law is 50 years old. Whenever she sees a relative giving birth to a child, she will mention her month and eat 18 eggs a day!
My mother is almost sixty, and every time she mixes cold dishes, she almost says, "You and your brother are confinement, and your grandmother puts sesame oil in my face. Too fragrant! " Now sesame oil can't compare with it.
Let's take a look at some precious mothers' confinement memories.
The meaning of confinement is self-cultivation. If the lying-in woman is tired after confinement and her family doesn't care enough, she will feel wronged and she won't get the courtesy she deserves. This kind of grievance often accompanies for a long time.
Therefore, please ask the maternal family members to take good care of the puerpera's confinement, first of all, nutritious and delicious meals to provide nutrition for the puerpera's physical recovery and improve the quality of milk.
Secondly, don't make the parturient tired and try not to do housework, especially lifting heavy objects and standing for a long time, which will lead to uterine prolapse, joint pain caused by cold water, low back pain caused by bending over for a long time, heel pain caused by long walking and eye pain caused by crying.
Then let the parturient have enough sleep, almost every parturient is lack of sleep. Poor sleep directly affects mood and lactation, so when the baby is crying, if it is not because of hunger, the family can share the task of comforting the baby, not just letting the mother coax the baby alone.
Don't say anything that makes the parturient unhappy, such as why there is so little milk? What's the use? Why do you have so many things to do? Just do it. ...
Try to meet the needs of pregnant women. When there are differences, we can communicate peacefully, not to others, but to pay attention to the tone and attitude of speaking to the parturient. Sometimes it's not what you say that annoys the parturient, but the attitude of the family!
In fact, it's not just confinement. Half a year to one year after delivery is the high incidence of postpartum depression. The child is not the mother's child alone, so please take the responsibility of raising the child!
When the parturient has the following symptoms, remind family members that the parturient may have severe postpartum depression.
1, taciturn and worried
2, emotional irritability, love to be angry
3, very fragile, crying
4, violent tendency, love to throw things.
5, indifferent to the baby, love in a daze
6, soliloquize, hate some things
If these conditions occur in the parturient, remind the family members that the parturient has moderate or above postpartum depression, and give timely comfort and emotional counseling, so that the parturient feels warm, dependent and hopeful!
Of course, when the parturient realizes that she needs help, she must help herself or ask for help in time, such as telling her good friends, telling her husband about her psychological state, listening to music and doing positive meditation, writing down things that make her happy and proud with a pen, going out for fun, not pursuing perfection in everything, not giving herself too much pressure, watching some funny variety shows or comic sketches, etc.
I wish every mother health and happiness!
How to take care of lying-in women is a very unique stage.
1, can I wash my hair and take a bath? If you need to wash your hair and take a bath, dry it immediately and keep warm afterwards. Proper cleaning is good for both parents and children.
2.can you blow it out? It is still recommended that women should not go out when the temperature is not suitable, especially in winter, and pay more attention to keep warm. If you are in an air-conditioned room in summer, please try to keep the room temperature at 26 ~ 28 degrees, and pay attention to the fact that the air outlet cannot face the parturient.
3. Can't I cry when I'm in confinement? After giving birth to a baby, maternal hormones plummet, and the wound has not healed. It is very likely that you will be frustrated during breastfeeding, or you will continue to encounter problems such as not knowing how to take care of the newborn baby, which is very prone to depression.
Can you put salt in your diet? It doesn't matter if you eat the right amount of salt, it can also improve your mother's appetite. However, if you consume too much salt, it is very easy to bring pressure to renal function, leading to imbalance of electrolyte solution in your body.
5. Can you lose weight? After giving birth to a child, women are in the weakest state and must make every effort to repair them; In addition, during confinement, regular exclusive breastfeeding and hard parenting education will definitely consume a lot of kinetic energy. Therefore, under any circumstances, you don't have to try to lose weight and restore your body shape in any way during confinement, which will seriously damage your body.
However, it should also be noted that you can't enjoy too many high-calorie foods with high plant fat and high sugar during confinement, which will also increase the burden of losing weight in the future.
6. Can you watch TV? You can read and watch TV in the month, but it doesn't have to be too long.
7. Can you surf the Internet? For young parturient friends, young parturient should try to avoid the time and frequency of surfing the Internet during confinement, and if it is not necessary, try to put an end to the use of computers and electromagnetic radiation.
8. Can I clean my vulva? In order to prevent the feeling of having a baby, you should always clean up your private parts during confinement. Keep the vulva clean, and immediately change the neat perineal pad or menstrual towel and underwear to prevent infection.