Zhuangzi's attitude towards his illness is very imaginative and special. As far as the child is concerned, no matter what strange shape the disease makes him, he has no objection. What is it? Retreat for progress? Roll with the punches? Since man can't conquer nature, he can only resign himself to fate; Since anger is useless, we can only turn anger into pleasure, which is called resignation, so as to achieve, at least on the surface, endless fun.
For the sake of Zhuangzi's son, God made me sick and made me lose my normal state. I didn't complain, but I enjoyed it. I dropped everything in the world, stopped in a hurry, had a good rest and enjoyed the slowly passing time quietly. Now that the disease has removed the body shape from the pedigree, we can think more boldly. What if Gao Rao doesn't retreat? Tuck yourself in the quilt and have a good sleep. What if it is diarrhea? Just open an organic fertilizer factory to benefit the land and slim yourself down. What about limb twitching or body shaking? Just dance street dance to increase your artistic cells. Funny? Anyway, at that point, complaining is useless. It's better to have fun with yourself and make yourself happy. Some people are overwhelmed by illness, controlled by fear, sadness and anxiety, making themselves feel like being roasted on the stove of illness, and they are restless for a moment.
To say the least, what Zhuangzi said is also true. At that time, he got a strange disease. Who can do anything? Can it be orthopedic? Can I have a facelift? Can you operate it? Even if modern medicine is so developed, there are still many diseases that have not been overcome, and not all diseases can be overcome. Some things can be rewarded by our own efforts, but some things are decided by heaven and we can't resist them. Yan told people to die in the middle of the night. Who dares to stay in the middle of the night? It's also it, or it. Water under the bridge. What's there to say?
My son didn't show any emotion before he died. Neither attached, nor concerned, nor sad, listen to the nature of yin and yang, let live and let go. No matter how attached you are, you can't stay. You always have to go where you should. Regret, nothing can go back.
When we were young, we always believed that "man can conquer nature", had hope for everything, and felt that we could do anything. Nothing was impossible. Then I watched a lot of "Where Are You Going" and "My Life Looking for Marriage", and I gradually understood that there seemed to be providence. You really don't have to fight with heaven, just let nature take its course. Especially in treating diseases and life and death, we need to have an open-minded and calm attitude.
Freud once said, "People either don't believe in their own death at all, or unconsciously believe that they are immortal." In other words, everyone believes in his bones that he is the most powerful and can overcome life and death and God. In fact, we are really small. We can't know when we are sick, when we are hurt by external forces, and when we die. One moment I was happy, and the next moment I was killed; At that time, it was still ambitious and full of vitality. At this moment, the treatment is in a state of being terminally ill and running out of oil and food.
Although we can't conquer the sky, we can conquer ourselves, and we can keep calm when you are going somewhere.