It is also the heart that thinks, that is, does something. It happened that after lunch, it was leisure time. After brushing Tik Tok for more than ten minutes, I was suddenly attracted by a video and watched it three times. "Most people's efforts are intermittent." .
Isn't that me? My brain is beating and I often think about one thing and another. I have also done many things that are meaningless to others, because I am particularly curious and curious about many new things in the information industry that I don't know. As long as I want to learn what I want to do, I will do it.
As a woman, everyone loves beauty. At that time, I just wanted to know how to care for my skin, so I took a class. Later, I thought that some products of medical beauty were quite magical, so I went to the medical beauty course. I think I know about it, but in fact I have only a smattering of it. I want to slim down and get a coaching certificate. I want to dance and take classes. Then I go to study psychology and speech. They all have a little knowledge, and they are not very proficient.
In the eyes of others, I am a person who loves learning, but at the same time, I am also a person who is not recognized because of learning. At first, my friends would advise me not to learn from the east and the west, but to learn a line of deep growth iteration, which is effective learning. I don't deny it, I think what they said is true, but in the end I stuck to myself and didn't listen to anyone's advice. Even if they did, it didn't take long.
After a long time, there are more and more questioning voices around you, saying that you have learned so much, done so many things and spent so much money, which is of no use to you. I smiled and said nothing, but I retorted in my mind. I know whether it is useful or not. Although most of them are of little use now, I actually know the inner changes.
Over time, what I did didn't seem to get positive feedback, and I began to doubt myself. Am I wrong? Then I was wrong. What should I do?
Seeing the video of advantage positioning, there is registration information below, and I did not hesitate to participate. On the first day, the teacher sent some video materials, let us first evaluate what kind of person we are and what advantages we have. Test again the next day, and the general behavioral advantage has gradually emerged. There are four advantages, namely 1. Learning ability, 2. * * * Emotional ability, 3. Leadership and 4. Analytical ability.
But I'm not sure if this is me. So after listening to the course and the teacher's explanation of the characteristics and behaviors of various advantages in the next three days, I dare to confirm that it is not my fault of loving learning, but that my advantages do not match my career. You can't play your advantage!
Intermittent efforts are not necessarily because you are lazy, you are not self-disciplined, you have no plan, maybe it is because you have been trying to be someone else. Seeing that other people's leadership skills are particularly strong, I was promoted and promoted, and I soon bought leadership skills that could have been copied. You try to be the most important person in the office, but you ignore that you are better at thinking and don't like talking. After watching two inspirational short films, I quickly put a bunch of time management and cognitive improvement lessons into the shopping cart. I am inspired to turn over a new leaf, but I never thought about who you want to be! The reason why others work harder and persist more than you is not because their willpower is stronger than yours, but because they use their efforts on their own advantages. This effort is sustainable and has positive feedback.
But there are blind spots in the advantages, and everyone will wander in the blind spots for a long time. Only by recognizing the advantages and blind spots can we redouble our efforts!