1. Never give up your image.
A psychologist put forward the theory of two factors of emotions: he thought that the ups and downs of emotions were not only caused by the actual emotions themselves, but also related to our clothes and body movements.
A woman who never takes care of herself is completely different from a woman who always takes care of herself. Taking care of your appearance is taking care of your mood. It will make you more and more energetic and confident. Even if your lover leaves you, you will have the courage to leave.
Take care of your appearance, figure and clothes, not to please men, but to make yourself more confident, attractive and free to live. Never give up your image, even if the other person is your "true love" and someone loves you, it must be because you deserve to be loved.
2. Don't spend money for each other without restraint.
A psychologist did an experiment: he put the mouse in a cage with a lever that can be pressed. When the mouse is hungry, it will press the lever and the food will fall. After that, Skinner modified the lever so that the food dropped randomly after being pressed. As a result, the mouse can only keep pressing the lever in order to eat.
Random rewards are more addictive than fixed rewards. In love, if you give the other person what he wants, it will make the other person feel that you give him money for granted.
It is natural to want to spend money on each other. Instead of spending money blindly and being surprised by uncertainty, it is more attractive. We all know the sunk cost. The more time a person spends on you, the harder it is for him to let you go easily. Be a spendthrift and exchange a little money for your lover's infatuation with you. Why not?
3. Don't explain your emotional experience in detail.
There is a saying that love begins with misunderstanding and ends with understanding.
The best preservative for love is to keep a proper sense of mystery with each other. Because: after a man knows a woman thoroughly, he won't love her anymore. If you love another person, don't confess your emotional experience. Once you become transparent in front of him, he no longer has the desire to conquer you ...
You can be honest about your past emotional experience, but you don't need to be honest unless you have a reason to be honest. Because, this is likely to become the target of the other party to attack you in the future.
The best love is to make him fall in love with himself now, and now you are the best self. Smart women have long let go of their past feelings and will not easily ask each other about their love history; Because: the most beautiful scenery is always at your feet.
Don't give up your promising job.
There was a hot topic before: "What kind of woman is more attractive?" A well-received answer is very special: the charm of women can be summed up in one word, that is, "sense of vitality."
The so-called "sense of vitality" includes courage, self-confidence, love for life, and just the right ambition, and the workplace is the best medium.
Love another person, don't give up your job easily for him; Work is not just about making money, it is a vision and an attitude towards life. Whether you choose love or not, you should make yourself glow. Only in this way can you have the confidence to love the right person and live the life you want.