"Postpartum depression" is not far away, but it should be treated rationally.
Postpartum depression refers to depression caused by physiological and psychological factors, which is common during confinement after giving birth to a child.
The incidence of postpartum depression is about 15% ~ 30%.
Typical postpartum depression occurs within 6 weeks after delivery and can recover spontaneously within 3 ~ 6 months.
But severe cases can last 1 ~ 2 years.
The second pregnancy has a recurrence rate of 20% ~ 30%.
Its clinical features are not significantly different from other depressive episodes.
Not long ago, a second-born mother jumped to her death with her four-month-old second-born son. According to neighbors, this mother Dabao is a daughter and a second-born son, and jumping off a building is suspected of postpartum depression.
A second-born mother with two children should be perfect, but she chose to make her and her son's life come to an abrupt end in what everyone thought was perfect. It's how desperate and disheartened you are.
Almost every year or even every month, there will be such cases, which makes people very sad. Of course, in the face of such a tragedy, some netizens think that such a mother is irresponsible. She just doesn't want to live, and she still takes her children.
This is a very rational but not objective evaluation. Sometimes Ma Bao's despair just wants someone to understand, and many people around her have missed the best opportunity to recover because of this indifferent attitude. I believe that as long as Ma Bao can be treated gently by years, she will be treated gently by her family in the most desperate time. I believe that many treasure moms will get better without taking medicine.
Amanda, an actress, was born in a literary family when she was a child. She was a proud girl and had a smooth journey. At 20 1, she met her husband Wang Xinjun. A few years after marriage, Amanda got pregnant. The doctor found that Amanda's child was born with a congenital giant baby.
Amanda was devastated when she heard the news, but she decided to keep the baby. Hardship should be very painful, but thanks to Wang Xinjun's constant companionship and patient guidance. Postpartum Amanda suffers from postpartum depression.
However, after all, Amanda is out of the tight encirclement, phoenix nirvana, with a very confident state in front of the audience. Amanda was very successful today. Of course, this is also inseparable from the support of this affectionate husband. Phoenix nirvana cannot be separated from this "destiny takes a hand".
It can be seen that the adjustment of postpartum mothers' depression can not be separated from the support of external factors, and postpartum mothers need the following aspects of care.
1, family care, especially husband's care.
In many cases of postpartum depression to despair, there are not only unreasonable family members, but this is not the most important thing. The most important thing is that there is no husband who takes good care of his mother.
In fact, for many postpartum mothers, emotions are relatively fragile because of changes in hormone levels. At this time, I hope I can get the care of that caring husband and put myself in the other's shoes to understand and tolerate.
At this time, the husband's inaction is the last straw to crush the camel. In fact, for mothers, everyone is different, happily accompanying their children to grow up, get married and have children. If not the most desperate, who is willing to let go. Therefore, I hope that fathers can give more care to postpartum mothers.
2. Pay attention to the psychological changes of lying-in women.
In this period, family members should pay more attention to maternity, and the maternal psychology in this period is very fragile and sensitive. Sometimes, there is a psychological backlog of some bad emotions, without the guidance and care of relatives.
Will accumulate deeper and deeper, leading to this bad emotional backlog exceeding the limit of tolerance and making abnormal actions. Therefore, family members must pay more attention and communicate more. If necessary, take the postpartum mother to see a psychologist for more professional psychological combing.
3. Correctly explain the identity of the parturient.
Many times, people will treat pregnant women and pregnant women differently. They think that pregnant women will be very fragile and need to be taken care of when their children are in their stomachs, and the pregnant women have already given birth to their children, and they will restore the "strong woman" who has been energetic before pregnancy.
This is a wrong interpretation of maternal identity. In fact, at this time, both physically and psychologically, they are particularly vulnerable and need more care and care. It is very important to correctly interpret the identity of parturient.
? A little mother reminds all postpartum mothers that they can use the mentality of an experienced person to let their families treat them gently. It is often said that "being a mother is bitter". In fact, all mothers have the same intention, and as mothers, they will have this strength, but there is also a limit that one can bear.
I remember that after giving birth to my baby daughter, I was depressed and tangled. It is only because of my husband's meticulous care that I got out of a disaster and had the opportunity to protect my children's growth. Appreciate everything in my life. I also hope that all postpartum mothers will be gently cared for by this world and cared for by the person who is destined to be.