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What causes the elderly with high pensions to be unable to afford green vegetables?
When Aunt Chen was 60 years old, she found a new wife. I didn't expect to be with him for only half a year, and she regretted it very much. Aunt Chen also said: I regret remarriage. I have a monthly pension of 8000 yuan, but I can't even afford vegetables. What's going on here? Let's take a look at her story.

Aunt Chen /60 years old

I am 60 years old this year. My wife died 10 years ago. I worked hard to raise my daughter by myself. Now my daughter is married. I was going to move in with my daughter, but I'm not used to her life there. I still have diarrhea for a few days because of my acclimatization. I haven't lived for half a month, so I went back to my hometown.

When I live alone, I often go to the gym or do beauty treatments. My life is very chic. When I was in my twenties, I was particularly beautiful, and I wore exquisite clothes every day. Although I am 60 years old now, I am well maintained and look like a 50-year-old woman. I have not lost my temperament and charm. Every time I go for a walk in the park, many grandfathers stare at me.

Once when I was visiting the park, I accidentally stepped on it and sprained my ankle. I couldn't walk at that time, which was particularly painful. Then an old man came and took me to a nearby hospital. His name is Lao Chen, and he is very concerned about me. At that time, I was especially grateful to him for seeing Lao Chen busy for me.

Fortunately, the doctor said I didn't hurt my bone. I just need to go back and apply some medicine. After prescribing the medicine, Mr. Chen sent me home. I can't walk because my feet are inconvenient. It is teacher Chen who helps me buy food and cook every day. Over time, I became familiar with him and moved with each other. Later, Mr. Chen proposed to me. I was even more excited at that time, but I was afraid of my daughter's opposition and didn't want to lose Mr. Chen. So I discussed with my daughter to see what her daughter said. I didn't expect her to object, but to bless me. Daughter said: I am too far away from marriage to accompany you often, and I can't go back to retirement, so I also want you to have a companion, so that I can accompany you and you won't be lonely. ?

I am very happy to get my daughter's blessing, but Mr. Chen's children don't agree to get the certificate.

I think, anyway, I am so old that it doesn't matter whether I get a license or not. Anyway, my daughter will give me 3000 yuan in alimony every month, and my own retirement salary of 8000 yuan a month can completely support myself and my house, and it's okay without a license.

So we got together. Teacher Chen moved to my house because my house was spacious and he didn't want to live with his children. Mr. Chen also said at that time: I am very embarrassed to live in your home. All expenses will be borne by me in the future, and the retirement salary will be kept by you. Mr. Chen's retirement salary is only 5000 yuan per month, but I haven't given up.

At first, the two people had a good relationship and a good life. Mr Chen often cooks for me. After dinner, we went for a walk in the park. I thought the old man's love could last until he was old. I didn't expect to break my heart at last.

Because my home is close to the school, then Mr. Chen's grandson studies in the school near my home and comes to my home to play after school. At first, I thought it was nothing, because more children at home would be more lively. Every time his grandson comes to my house, I will buy him delicious food or some clothes, but this grandson will take all the good ones away.

After the grandson came, Mr. Chen paid for his tuition and snacks. His son doesn't have a dime. It's not enough to rely on old Dignā ga's money. He had to pay from me. After his grandson came, Mr. Chen didn't give me money to support me, so I made a living.

Worst of all, his grandson asked me to pay for cram school. Mr. Chen's son still thinks I should do it, saying that he and I are family and I should be responsible for compensation. Teacher Chen's son has been asking me to pay all kinds of tuition fees for his grandson, and everyone has spent all my money. There was 8000 yuan, and I couldn't even afford to eat food.

What saddens me most is that when I was ill, Mr. Chen and his son didn't care about me after learning the news, but packed all my luggage and took it to the hospital. They also asked my daughter to take care of me. They did this because Mr. Chen and I are not legally married, and now we are sick. Their family has no responsibility and it is none of their business. Then Lao Chen followed his son home.

My heart is so cold at this moment. I am looking for my wife, just to have a partner. He can care about me when I am sick. I didn't expect him and his children to stay away from me. I always think I'm trying to get their wealth.

My wife and I have been together for two years. In the past two years, I have paid a lot, paying various tuition fees for his grandson, buying clothes and snacks for his grandson, and taking care of Teacher Chen. After paying so much, I ended up being a free nanny. Since his grandson came to my house, my spare time is gone, and my life is still relatively tight. It's really wronged to think about it.

Later, during my hospitalization, my daughter came back to wait on me. Later, my daughter's children were left unattended, so I had to ask a nanny to take care of me, and she also went back to take care of the children.

Slowly, my condition improved, and I was single again after discharge. From then on, I lived alone and never found a wife.