Recently, a report that a boy in Hengshui, Hebei Province suffered from anorexia nervosa due to vomiting and lost 30 pounds caused many netizens to think deeply. In the report, Hengshui boy, only 15 years old, came to the hospital because of emaciation, weight loss and various bad symptoms, and was finally diagnosed as anorexia nervosa by doctors. From this report, we found that this incident is not only as simple as children losing weight by unconventional means, but also the hidden reasons behind this incident deserve our attention and bring warnings to many parents. Let's study it together.
1. Why do children choose this way to lose weight? What is the purpose of losing weight?
From the introduction of the doctor who treated him, we can know that the purpose of the boy's weight loss is because he thinks he is fat. He thinks that his parents don't attach importance to himself and don't like him. Because he is fat, he goes to the toilet every time after eating, picks his throat and spits out the food. At this time, his parents will be extremely concerned about himself. In order to arouse parents' concern for themselves, the boy insisted on this way for a long time, and even bought a so-called vomiting artifact? Fairy tube? This led to a sharp drop in weight, which eventually alerted parents and sent their children to hospital for treatment.
Second, what kind of harm will vomiting cause to the body?
I don't know when it started, many people began to take extreme measures to lose weight. Vomiting is one of the most harmful to the body. Vomiting itself is a way of physiological reversal, which will not only cause harm to the stomach, but also cause irreversible damage to the esophagus and throat. You know, the stomach will release gastric acid for digestion after receiving food. When vomiting food, not only food but also a lot of gastric acid will flow back to the throat and esophagus. Long-term vomiting will lead to the corrosion of stomach acid to esophagus and throat, which will lead to serious diseases such as esophagitis, pharyngitis and tracheitis. In the long run, at the same time, because the food does not enter the body eventually, there will be symptoms of malnutrition and low immunity, and the end of life will not be far away for a long time.
Third, how should parents handle the relationship with their children?
In fact, the most important thing in this report is the parent-child relationship between parents and children. As a mother, I can't understand what kind of neglect can make children feel so inferior. Even if the child's abnormal vomiting behavior lasts for more than a month, it will cause vigilance and send the child to the hospital. I believe that all parents who are careful about their children have long been alert. Nowadays, many parents use busy work as an excuse to let their children grow wildly. Compared with children's physical and mental condition, academic performance is the first priority, and it is often at this stage of children's adolescence that parents' attention is reduced, which leads to children's emotions being unable to be released, resulting in various tragedies. So how to deal with the correct parent-child relationship with children, through this matter, we as parents really have to reflect on it.
Based on the above interpretation, it is not difficult to find that adolescent children still need the high attention of their parents, and the support given by their parents is the affirmation that a child needs most. Through this incident, many parents can be alert and thoughtful, so that more children can avoid tragedies.