Assistant Zhu Yue told the mediator that her mother-in-law was very ill and needed someone to take care of her. Her husband is the boss, and there are three sisters below. My father-in-law died more than 20 years ago, and later my mother-in-law remarried. But just a while ago, my mother-in-law was seriously ill in hospital, and the four sisters took her back to take care of her. At that time, it was agreed to have a round in January, but now the eldest sister Cao refuses to raise her with the other two sisters, and her mother-in-law has been taking care of her at home. Zhu Yue said that her husband would not be taken care of by their sisters if they were limping and if they were not really capable. Now they can't get in touch with each other. I hope the sisters can come out and make it clear.
The mediator first went to Zhu Yue's house to visit her mother-in-law Aunt Liu. In Aunt Liu's mouth, Zhu Yue is a good daughter-in-law. Now, the three daughters refuse to raise her, but her son Cao Junde (Zhu Yue's husband) is in poor health and he can't take care of it alone. As he spoke, he cried. The mediator calmed Aunt Liu's mood and went to ask her elder sister Cao Qing. Unfortunately, there is no one in Cao's family, and the neighbor said that he would go out in the morning.
I had no choice but to go to my second sister's house, but the door was closed and no one was at home. You have to decide to look for it at my third sister's house. Fortunately, Third Sister is at home, and I also met Second Sister at Third Sister's house. Facing the arrival of Jun Jun, the sisters seem to have nothing to say. Jun Jun asked me where my elder sister was, but they all said they didn't know and didn't have any contact information. Seeing that the two sisters were so uncooperative, the mediator on the side came forward to persuade them and asked them why they refused. This question makes the second sister very unhappy. She said she didn't say she didn't take care of the elderly. She just took out 30 thousand yuan and shared it equally if she wanted to raise it.
It turned out that Aunt Liu had a pension of 30 thousand yuan when her last husband came over, and her son took it back when she was seriously ill. The money has been kept here by her son Cao Junde. Now my sisters are considering giving this 30 thousand yuan. Cao Junde said that this is the mother's pension, and I want to spend it on my mother. Although the money was on him, he didn't squander it. Hearing this from Cao Junde, the second sister thought that her brother had not spent all her mother's pension.
In the face of the second sister's questioning, Cao Junde said that he spent 1000 yuan to buy things for his mother. "There are still 4,000 yuan, and the account is obviously missing 5,000 yuan," said the second sister. Under the questioning of the mediator, Cao Junde admitted his mistake and used it elsewhere. Zhu Yue said that when she learned about her husband's misappropriation of the pension, she immediately added 5,000 yuan, just for fear that her sisters would be oversensitive. There are still 30 thousand in the passbook now.
Besides, Zhu Yue said that she didn't agree to share the money equally. It's only a matter of time before my mother spends money in this situation, 7 thousand yuan per person It's hard to take it out when my mother is in hospital and needs it again. Money aside, I settled my mother's alimony first, but my elder sister Cao never came forward because it was her turn to take care of her. She said she would disappear if she disappeared. The mediator asked her second sister to contact her third sister, and they all said that there was no contact information, and then contacted her husband.
Even if my sister Cao doesn't come forward, my mother still has to solve this problem. The mediator came up with a plan, and the money was still divided first. Zhu Yue was right. Aunt Liu needs money at any time, so it is not convenient to share it. Since the sisters don't believe that Jun Jun is in charge of money, give the passbook to the village committee for safekeeping. When mother needs money, she will go to the village Committee for support. Speaking of which, the two sisters said yes. As for the elder sister, they will communicate later.
Staring at this only 30 thousand yuan pension, my sisters don't care about their mothers who can't take care of themselves. What Bian Xiao wants to say is that all virtues and filial piety come first. Even without this 30 thousand yuan, you still have to do your duty to support the elderly. Feelings can't be measured by money. I hope the sisters can understand!