In the world, it is difficult to predict who will meet who and who will fall in love with whom. Some of our seemingly mismatched couples just got together, and some seemingly matched couples ended up breaking up.
Therefore, feelings sometimes depend not only on appearance, or not only on the inside, but often on the comprehensive charm of people who are intertwined inside and outside.
For women, if they can maintain these two States for a long time, they can occupy a place even in marriage.
1. Maintain long-term economic strength.
Yan Ni can be said to be a counter-attack miracle in today's entertainment circle, and has gradually become a goddess-level actor. The 48-year-old who appeared in this year's Spring Festival Gala almost crushed the post-90 s floret of the same program in appearance and figure. She is nearly 50 years old, but she is radiant and in good shape.
And the divorced middle-aged woman she plays in Revelation of Life is in love with Hugh. Although she seems to be two people who are completely out of tune, she has shown a convincing love for her brother and sister in the TV series. The performance of the two people in the play is so disgusting that I don't know how many netizens there are.
Yu Xiaoqiang, the heroine she plays, has not been decadent since she divorced and left home cleanly. She takes care of the children by herself, starting from the grass-roots security and making money by herself. Finally, he was gradually promoted to middle-level manager, showing his strength and value. That kind? Xiao Qiang who can't be killed? The indomitable spirit of self-reliance is also the main factor that attracts her to star.
Therefore, for women, at any time, you should keep your career, hobbies and friends, have your own space, remember that you are by no means an accessory or parasite of others, and don't forget your unique ability and value. Only women who retain the spirit of independence will never lose their direction in life and will always be respected by their partners in marriage.
2. Keep your unique charm
Similarly, Yan Ni, as a middle-aged actress in the entertainment circle, has long lost her youth, but she became popular in middle age and never neglected to manage her own external image. The gradual transformation in recent years has really impressed the fashion circle.
After slimming, Yan Ni's whole face has a charming outline, and her figure is slim and compact, like a girl. Standing with my daughter, she is like a pair of sisters.
In addition to the management of figure and appearance, Yan Ni has been working hard in the entertainment circle for so many years, and has always been a silly elder sister-like mentality, seemingly careless, but in fact has always maintained a childlike character.
In real life, every woman has her own unique charm. Don't think that people are old and yellow when they reach middle age. At any age, as long as you always love yourself and value yourself, you will glow with charming charm.
Young women have their own youth wealth, while middle-aged women have the composure and wisdom to experience the world. In addition to appearance, women should keep in touch with the world at any time and place, be good at learning new things and not be eliminated by the times. Reading more, reading more, listening to more music and exercising more will help you find your confidence in life.
In addition to appearance, the perfect connotation you can exude is your most fundamental charm. Therefore, smart women, even if they are busy with housework and taking care of children in marriage, will never forget to keep themselves in good condition.
Therefore, if a woman can recognize the above two points and keep them in her work and life, she will be a pleasant existence in the eyes of her partner, children and friends and will be appreciated and respected by others.
You can live more beautifully, as long as you stay alive forever.