Remember when we celebrated Mother's Day last weekend? Unexpectedly, there was a heartbreaking obituary on this day. The biological mother of child star Jojo (played by Yu Huiqiao) died of lung adenocarcinoma on the morning of 1 1. The mother and daughter who had not seen each other for seven years failed to see each other for the last time before Jojo died, which made Jojo so sorry.
It is understood that Joe's father and Joe's mother got married after they were born in 2007, but they chose to divorce on 20 10 because of getting along with each other. After the divorce, both parties agreed to pay Joe's father 10000 yuan as living expenses until he was 20 years old.
Things are always unpredictable. On June 20 17, 10, Marjo found out that she had advanced lung adenocarcinoma, which made her decide not to fight for custody, but to visit Jojo once a month. Unfortunately, they can only separate two rooms and talk by video.
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Sadly, Joe's mother wrote to Joe's father and Joe's father last month, telling them that her condition had gone from bad to worse, so that they were psychologically prepared. I didn't expect Joe's father to write back and recover the unpaid alimony for that month, and asked whether to help the children raise their daughter to 20 years old, totaling 960,000 yuan.
Well-known blogger "Miss Advertising" also jumped out and said: "If Joe's father asks Joe's mother in another way, can he arrange Joe's future support in the remaining time and give her a guarantee, wouldn't it be better? She believes that this topic is not impossible to talk about, the key is how to talk about it.
Looking back carefully, Jojo plays the daughter whose parents are going to divorce in the drama Evil. In the play, the quarrel between parents and the process of fighting for custody seem to have happened in Jojo's real life.
Objectively speaking, we can't judge what kind of decision each family should make is the most correct. After all, every family has its own problems, and the things and problems experienced by each other are only clear to each other. But how should we treat children after divorce? Maybe parents all over the world should know about it.
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For parents, divorce is a relief, and it may be the same for children, because in this process, children may already know that parents can't cross the gap between them, but when all this involves letting children "choose their sides", you are pushing them to the abyss. Liu, a licensed American psychological counselor, said, "No matter how bad your relationship with your ex-husband/ex-wife is, don't let your children get involved in their quarrels, such as not letting one of them visit their children or deliberately speaking ill of the other. Children should not bear the emotional burden of adults. 」
Many things that adults think are nothing may have a considerable impact on children's childhood. A netizen who is also a mother said, "As a mother, it is absolutely very sad not to see her children for seven years." However, we still don't know what happened here, which led to such a result.