Inspirational or positive energy Article 1: If you don't do something when you are young, you may regret being the first in your life and make your knowledge structure complete;
Second, make as many friends as possible in the university, because your lifelong friends and collaborators are generally from your university;
Third, if possible, talk about a more focused love in college;
Fourth, do a good job in future work planning. Your future job is related to how many friends you have and your professional knowledge. In addition, you need to master a major. As long as you are proficient, no matter how bad your major is, someone will appreciate it.
I have a friend who studies Vietnamese. He really seldom uses it, but the central leadership always takes him with him when he goes to Vietnam, because he is a first-class expert in Vietnamese simultaneous interpretation. I also have a college classmate, Chiang Kai-shek, who studied 10 years, who is poor. Later, the United States held a seminar on people in China's modern history, and he described his research in his report. As a result, an old professor burst into tears After coming down, I asked the old professor who had studied Chiang Kai-shek in the United States for 30 years. He is lonely, but he can't find a successor. I didn't expect it to be available in China. Fool? Also studying Chiang Kai-shek. So a scholarship of $50,000 was granted for one year, so that students could follow him to the United States to study for doctoral students. After reading the book, the old man retired and became a professor in that school. When I went to see him, he had bought a small house, a car, a wife and a dog in Long Island, new york. At that time, he told me, look, Chiang Kai-shek did all this? Here? Mine.
In fact, it doesn't matter what you study, what matters is that you really like it, and then someone will use you. On the other hand, if you don't like this major very much, but it is suitable for finding a job, do you want to learn it? Of course, I have to learn. I have never liked English in this state. I took the English exam only because I am not good at math. I don't like English because my imitation ability is not strong. But then I found that English has become a tool of my life. Because of English, I became a teacher at Peking University. Career is sometimes a tool that can help you move forward. Do you care about trekking poles when climbing mountains? Do you like them? No, what you care about is whether you can reach the top of the mountain. English is my walking stick. Although I don't particularly like it, I know that I need this trekking stick if I want to climb a higher mountain of life. Originally, I wanted to make myself a top English expert in China 100, but later I found that there was no chance at all, because more and more people studying in China returned to China, and some of them stayed abroad for 10 or 20 years, and their English level was higher than mine. I can only narrow it down and start memorizing words. As a result, I became a fairly good English vocabulary expert in China.
Besides our major, we should study more in college. There is a saying in New Oriental? The thickness of the background determines the height of the career? . The thickness of the background mainly comes from two aspects: first, read more books, your knowledge structure will naturally be complete, and you will produce wisdom; The second is to enrich life experience. Combining the wisdom of life experience with the wisdom of reading will become real great wisdom and an inexhaustible source and tool for your future career creation.
I read 800 books in college. Someone will ask me, what's the difference between reading and forgetting? Actually, it's completely different. Just like falling in love, a person who has been in love and then becomes a bachelor is more confident than a bachelor who has never been in love. When he sees someone else in love, he will confidently say, Hey, I thought I was in love. ? So if you really don't like reading, you must go to the bookstore to see those world famous books, and touch them with your hands, which can also add a little humanistic temperament.
The second thing in college is to make as many friends as possible.
To make good friends, we must first be a good person and a reassuring person. If you are a kind person, someone will help you when you are in trouble. In addition, when making friends, try to find someone better than you. They can help you grow. Many excellent people who work in New Oriental now are my role models for the past 20 years.
The third thing in college is to talk about a sincere love. But falling in love has a very important premise, that is, wholeheartedly love. The so-called heart-and-soul love does not mean that the university can only talk about love once, but only one at a time. How much do you want to love? Have this feeling:? Why are my eyes full of tears? Because I love you deeply. ? When you really love someone, you should tell her that you love her in an appropriate way, not just in your heart. I was miserable in college, because I only kept my love in my heart, afraid of being rejected by others. But in fact, it is best to express your heart. Even if the girl refuses, you can let her know that you love her. At the same time, she won't be unhappy if you pursue her. She will definitely keep a diary when she gets home. Another boy chased me today. ? One year I went to America to have dinner with a girl I liked very much in my former class and her husband. I said to her at dinner. Actually, I liked you very much in college. ? She patted her thigh and said, then why didn't you tell me?
Another principle of falling in love is to speak generously. The so-called generosity means that when the person you love falls in love with someone else, you must tell her generously that your happiness is my happiness and your happiness is my happiness. Although my heart hurts, I will bless you all the way.
I always feel that people are destined in the world. The most painful thing in the world is that you still love her deeply, but she no longer loves you. But this is fate. Since the fate is over, let's wait for the next fate. In your later years, there will always be people who love you, waiting for you to join hands in the future journey.
Inspirational or positive energy article 2: Inspirational article for young people 1, about failure
My teacher once told me that a person must be lovelorn emotionally, fail in his career and make mistakes in his choice at least once before he can grow up. Don't say failure is the mother of success. The sooner failure comes, the better. If you fail after 30 or 40, some things are probably too late.
2. About evaluation
The last sacrifice we should make is to change ourselves because of other people's comments, because those who tell you what to do don't know what the rules are. Don't just follow the rules, the rules are still being created, and do everything according to your own judgment, although it will be a bit troublesome.
3. About style
This is a petty bourgeoisie thing. Petty bourgeoisie? The word is popular again today, and the pursuit of style is their patent. Petty bourgeoisie says that the style should meet four requirements: wisdom, accomplishment, self-confidence and money. What is the style? Fashion? It is understood as dress, temperament, best taste and interior decoration. That is, the boss's rudeness will only show the vulgarity of words. ? Petty bourgeoisie? Children have the ability to vulgarize their hearts. The mainstream concept is not necessarily replaceable. Alternative has become the mainstream of young people's ideas, and it is an old-fashioned alternative today. The key is that today's society is an era of creating ideas, not an era of sticking to old ideas.
4. About shallowness
If you cry every time you watch Titan Nile, and you can't stand laughing every time you watch A Chinese Odyssey, someone will laugh at your shallowness. In fact, that only shows that your nerves are still very sharp and will quickly adapt to even a weak stimulus: when your senses are dull, people will say that you are deep.
5. About the stars
It's not that you don't care, it's that you can't. Stars are a kind of consumer goods in the commodity society. After spending money, listening to songs and watching movies, no matter how good the star's performance is, it is only worth the money and not worthy of worship. Just like the skirt you bought in 50 yuan at the stall, others guessed that it was bought in 800 yuan, and it was worth the money.
6. About the cost
Not regardless of the cost, but to understand that everything has to pay a price. For people our age, this is by no means nonsense. Otherwise, I don't know how much I paid until I was 30, but I don't know why I paid, let alone how much I got and what I got.
7. About setbacks
Including feelings, career, maybe I just spent money today and didn't buy anything to be happy, but my friend couldn't get in a word at his wedding. Pay too much attention to frustration, instead of teasing yourself with fate, punish yourself with other people's mistakes.
8. About defects
Maybe you are a dwarf, maybe you are not good-looking, maybe your voice is like Donald Duck ... Then your advantage is that you will not be delayed by the bright spots on your surface, spend less time, take fewer detours, directly discover your inner advantages and tap your deep potential.
9. About misunderstanding
If it is out of malice, it is useless to explain. If it is well-intentioned, there is no need to explain. When it comes to misunderstanding, it is not because a person is misunderstood more often before the age of 30, but that people of this age are more distressed.
Inspirational or positive energy Rule 3: You won't be young for long. When I still miss the short skirts of summer girls, the autumn wind has started and the treetops rustle. Although girls wearing short skirts can be seen when it snows, no matter how coquettish they are, they can't wear the taste of summer.
Every time the weather turns cold, I feel inexplicably sad, probably because of the remaining poetry in my bones. I seldom talk about poetry. I only occasionally talk about it when I am bored at a friend's party, which immediately attracts everyone to burst into laughter and the atmosphere immediately becomes active. I'm glad poetry is still useful.
This time, I am even sadder, because what is the word I have heard the most this year? Youth? Dream? What, let me have no youth and no dreams. Actually, I also have pursuits, okay? I just want to eat, drink and wander around, but when I call this a dream, I always feel a little weak.
It turns out that I have always been a person who feels good about myself. Even though I know I am getting old, I think as long as I have a young heart, I will always be 25 years old. Until one day, I saw a very excited girl, and my first thought turned out to be: Is this girl a little young for me? At that moment, I found myself really old in despair.
There are also many old-age proofs: most of the stars who used to pay attention to them have now become hot moms and trendy dads, and no matter how thick the foundation is, it can't hide the vicissitudes of time. There are not many stars on the court who can name them, and the songs on the radio can't name them. My friend's child is already in love. ......
I used to like Li Bai? Oh, let a man with spirit take risks where he wants to go, and never point his golden cup at the moon empty! . Since God has given talents, let them be used! As for the money, although it is scattered, it will get together again. What about me now? There is no news from my friends or relatives. I am old and sick, drifting in a boat. Flying around, flying around, what am I like, just a sandpiper in the vast world! .
It is absolutely a miracle that Du Fu can still live to 58 years old when he is worried about his country and people, and has no house, car, food or clothes.
I used to like watching Happy Camp, but now I like watching news broadcast. I used to like Zhang Ailing, but now I like Shi Yuzhu. I used to like eating, but now I like drinking porridge. I used to be particularly afraid of trouble, but now I like to join in the fun; I used to sleep until 12 o'clock, but now I get up at 6 o'clock to pee. ......
Whenever I hear a young man in his early twenties describe his bumpy fate, I can't help sighing and feeling: this life is really in vain! I am ashamed that I have never done anything exciting, made any touching vows, or even sung a song that is out of tune.
What makes me even more ashamed is that many young people under the age of 30 have hung up the titles of directors and general managers. I can only curse in my heart: you can only be a director and general manager in your life! Never! ?
There are many young people who live a very moist life, with endless photos and endless happiness. They should take a photo and upload it after eating cold noodles. I went to New Matai, and I can't wait for Obama to know. As long as you are a literary youth, your dream is to open a bookstore, as long as you are a young white-collar worker, your dream is to open a coffee shop, and as long as you are an individual, your dream is to travel around the world.
There are still many young people living a miserable life. In their twenties, they thought they were familiar with the depth of countless people, and their faces were full of vicissitudes. I often meet the 85-year-old who calls himself uncle, hiding in a dark corner and thinking maliciously: Don't show off in an ostentatious manner! Sooner or later, you will become a real uncle!
In fact, I can't hide my old man's envy and hatred for youth, but the only thing that makes me happy is that you won't be young for too long.