In the host, because of sharp and direct questions, he was ridiculed that "emotional intelligence is not very high."

Because he was thin, he was "attacked" by hot search: too thin, like a bamboo pole.

Because of the change of feelings, it is discussed by all walks of life: no matter how successful your career is, you don't understand love.

All kinds of endless voices make her more and more concerned by the public. But apart from these, the most dazzling thing is her "benchmark" hosting career.

1993, she is the host of CCTV's "Art Garden Scenery" program. At the same time, she also participated in hosting dozens of large-scale live news broadcasts such as the return of Hong Kong and the US presidential election. Until 2002, she started a talk show "Lu Yu You Yue" tailored for herself.

During her hosting career at 18, she interviewed tens of thousands of industry leaders and was called "the most amiable host".

The program "Lu Yu You Yue" hosted by her was also praised by Time magazine as "one of the most valuable TV programs in China since 15".

Under the dazzling aura, there are endless disputes, and it is these disputes that prove her uniqueness.

She often says, "I get hurt easily, but I have never been knocked down."

Under the aura, looking back, her success is traceable.

Lu Yu was born in Shanghai and grew up in Beijing.

Her father is from Henan and her mother is from Shandong. Rich geographical relations and growing environment seem to have created a budding foundation for her language talent.

In fact, before becoming a host, Lu Yu's initial dream was to become an excellent foreign language translator.

Lu Yu once wrote in her book "Meeting Your Heart": "One weekend when I came home from school, I saw Ten Years of Love written by Zhang at the roadside bookstore. The clean girl in a white shirt was touched by her firm love."

Perhaps it is the influence of "bilingual" education since childhood, or perhaps she wants to be a romantic like Zhang.

After graduating from high school, she resolutely entered the Communication University of China and successfully entered the Foreign Languages Department.

However, there are always many crossroads to choose from in life.

199 1 "Beijing's bid for the 2000 Olympic Games English Speech Contest" made Lu Yu feel an unprecedented desire.

When she saw the registration notice, she joined without hesitation. At the scene of the game, she saw the ob van, the machine, the lights and the enthusiastic host in front of the camera, and her heart surged.

With excellent live performance and keen thinking logic, she won the championship successfully in this speech contest, and it was at this moment that she had a brand-new direction.

Become a host.

After choosing, she began a bold attempt. She constantly participated in the hosting of various school competitions to improve her foreign language pronunciation, and finally successfully entered CCTV's "Art Garden Scenery" column and became a program host with excellent results.

Starting is the peak that countless people can't reach, which is Lu Yu's luck and her inevitability.

You know, everyone will face a choice, and after the choice, it will be a completely different life, and it is every step you take that determines your final direction.

For Lu Yu, she did it. From 1993 to 202 1, 18 is her unswerving path all her life.

Lu Yu first met Gray in 1993.

At that time, when she was interviewed by CCTV, she directly hacked the director.

During the interview, Lu Yu asked the director directly: "Why do all directors in the art department have beards? You, Zhao An, Zhang Ziyang. "

The director was stunned at that time, and then she asked, "You three are the youngest and most promising directors in CCTV. Is the competition between you fierce? "

The director was speechless for a moment.

Although he was not favored in the interview, Lu Yu left a deep impression on everyone and was chosen as the host of the Art Garden scenery.

Perhaps it was the "unpleasantness" of the first interview. After entering CCTV, the director said to her, "You are sharp, but the host needs more than sharp."

So Lu Yu began to reflect on her hosting style, and found that there were indeed many viewers who could not accept her way. At this time, she began to seek change.

Later, she decided to change her presentation mode, resigned from the column of "Art Garden Scenery" with relatively fixed style, and joined Phoenix Satellite TV to start a new attempt.

In Phoenix Satellite TV, she first came into contact with the news anchor, Phoenix Morning Bus. As a news novice, although she faced a great test, she didn't give up and took the initiative.

This is a morning broadcast program, and Lu Yu starts to work at 4 o'clock every day, sorting out the manuscripts and conducting repeated confirmation exercises.

Getting up early for a long time and lack of sleep make her figure thinner and thinner.

On one occasion, she joked: "I have no special shortcomings except general discomfort, frequent headaches, chest tightness, palpitation and heavy limbs."

However, tempering will eventually make a hero.

Through continuous efforts, Lu Yu not only made this program, but also made it better and better. She changed the traditional news program mode and began to "talk" about news, presenting controversial and interesting news hotspots to the audience through summary, which was refreshing.

In "Super Speaker", a contestant once commented on her: "Lu Yu is the person who does the talk show to the extreme in this country. She is Oprah of the East, five times a week, all year round, with such a thin body to resist 13 years. "

There are dozens of minutes of lights in front of the stage, but it is hard work day and night under the stage.

Some people say that after watching Lu Yu's program, she found that her emotional intelligence was very low.

Actually, it is not.

Those who really understand and are familiar with her hosting style will find that she is a sincere person.

Over the past decade, thousands of programs have interviewed tens of thousands of people. Lu Yu has always played the role of "guiding" and "listening". She can always catch interviewees off guard with the sharpest perspective and the most direct questions.

In one issue, she interviewed the famous actor Stephen Chow.

As we all know, Master Xing is an inarticulate person with a somewhat "eccentric" personality.

But in the conversation with Lu Yu, I didn't feel strange and embarrassed at all.

Among them, Lu Yu asked a question that impressed him deeply: "I guess you must be a child who has lived in his own world since childhood. Do you fantasize? Like his idol Bruce Lee, he fantasizes about something every day and doesn't communicate with others. "

Then Stephen Chow told the story of his childhood, and the whole atmosphere was relaxed and warm.

For Lu Yu, her greatest professional accomplishment is sincerity. From a listener's point of view, she can always be keenly aware of the attitude and emotional changes of the interviewee, accurately grasp the key points of the problem on the premise of familiarity, and let people tell their stories step by step.

When interviewing Liu Xiang, she could understand his inner world and said, "People may need to grow up instantly. Are all the joys of winning always shorter than the pains of losing? " Poke people's hearts in an instant.

When interviewing Pu Shu, she saw his melancholy and loneliness. She said, "You didn't take us to play." Make the interview easy at once.

Think of a comment on the Internet: "Lu Yu is like a positive energy magnet, which absorbs all the positive energy of the guests. She knows how to lower herself, treat herself as a spoonful of ingredients, and let the respondents open their hearts comfortably and willingly. She is also willing to take out the insights that have been deposited in her heart for many years. "

Rich knowledge, professional accomplishment and a sincere and considerate heart are the basis for her continuous success in the hosting industry.

She never flinched in the face of controversy.

Many people released some program clips, caught her puzzling question in the interview and began to ridicule her: low emotional intelligence.

But Lu Yu disagreed and explained, "I don't think the questioning process is important. The key is to let the guests tell interesting stories. For example, every time I ask about my student days, it is because everyone must have had fun experiences in their student days. "

Because of her major, she is full of confidence.

Indeed, after more than ten years of forbearance, I interviewed tens of thousands of stars and big coffees in the industry. Imagine, if it is really "low emotional intelligence", how can it be achieved today?

She is still free and easy in the face of the failed love life in the first half.

She said: "Every marriage and every relationship is an adventure, depending on whether you are sincere or not."

Sincerity, hard work and fearless courage became her motto.

There is no doubt that Lu Yu is successful, but it is also controversial. Whether her emotional intelligence is low or her marriage is not smooth, many people will look at her with prejudice.

But for Lu Yu, she doesn't care about the eyes of the outside world, because in her world, she has become her own light and her own master.

This is the ultimate charm of a person.

Author: Jia Yang March

References:

1, the most important person: 18 After reading "Lu Yu You Yue", I found that everyone misunderstood Lu Yu.

2. Li Yueliang: Lu Yu: A serious woman is the sexiest.

3. Phoenix TV's "Lu Yu You Yue" program

The picture comes from the internet.